女生追求男生：张弛有度 收放自如

　　zainannvxiangchuzuishufudefangshizhong，bicizunzhonghepingdengxiangdaicaishiguanjian。lajinguanxi、goutongjiaoliuyouliang、baorongchayi、gongtongchengzhang，quanshizaojiuhexiegongchuziranhuanjingdeguanjianhuanjie。nannvzhijiandeyouqinghebanlvguanxi，zaibicilijieyuzhichideqiantixiasuzaoqingganniudai。yiqifenxiangxihao、xianghuguli、yuduifanggongxiangkuailehejiannan，doukeyituijinnannvzhijiandeguanxi，chuangzaoyigekaixinhehemuxiangchufangshi。

　　搭建公平和尊重的前提

　　zainannvxiangchuzuishufudefangshizhong，gongpinghezunzhongshichuangjianshenxinjiankangguanliandezhongyaoqianti。nannvzhongjianyingdanggongpingduidai，lijieduifangdejianyihetihui。gechuxingbiepianjianhepianjian，yigerendenengliyuzhiliangdianpinglingyifang，erfeigenjutaierxingbie。

　　有效的沟通与聆听

　　buguannannv，youxiaogoutongshibaituojiedi、tigaolejiedeguanjiansuozai。bicizhijianyaoqingting，zhenzhenzhengzhengguanxinlingyifangdeyanyuyuqinggan，budandanshitingbale。duiwaikaifangdeduitanhefuzerendebiaoshu，youzhuyujiangdiwuhuihemaodun，binggoujianqiyouliangzhijiandehudonghexiangchufangshi。

　　包容和理解差异

　　nannvcunzaizheyixiechuntianrandechayi，shihenzhengchangde。zainannvxiangchuzuishufudefangshizhong，baorongyulijiechayishibukequeshaode。lijieduifangdegexingyuaihao、zunzhongwenhuahewenhuaxisudechayi，erfeichangshijianglingyifangyingzaoweizijimoyang。genjubaorongchayi，womenkeyidajiangengjiaduoyuanhuaqiefengfuduocaizhijiandeguanxi。

　　共同成长和支持

　　nannvzhongjianzuimanyidegongchufangshishihuxianggongtongchengzhangyuzhichi。xianghuzhijiangulihejili，yitongxunqiuxindexingyeyuxingqu，yiqiyingjietiaozhanhetiaozhan。zainijingzhong，huxiangzhaogu；zaizhong，yitongqinghe。genjugongtongfendou，womenkeyigoujianqiyizhonggengjianguhekaixinkuailedeguanlian。

　　共享快乐和责任

　　nannvjianzuimanyidegongchufangshishikeyigongxiangkuailehezeren。buguanshihaopengyouhuoshiairen，dajiabixuxuehuibicidakaixinfei，gongxianghuanleyukuaile。yucitongshi，zaicuozheyushibaiyanqian，gongtongchengdanzeren，jiduifanglijiehezhichi。zheizhonggongxiangqinshenjinglikeyijiazhongxianghuzhijiandeqiaoliang，rangguanliangengwendinghexinshouxianglian。

　　结束语

　　nannvxiangchuzuishufudefangshidoushijiyugongpingyuzunzhongdeqiantixia。genjuyouxiaodegoutong、baorongyulijiechayi、gongtongchengzhanghezhichi，jiqigongxiangkuailehezeren，womennenggoujianqiyizhonghemu、kaixinkuailedenannvguanlian。zaizheizhongguanxizhong，nannvkeyixianghuzhijianchengweibicizhichizhe、xiaohuobanyupengyou，gongtongduguoshenghuodangzhongsuoyouxinuaile，yitongzhuixunxingfuhechengzhang。