婚姻里所谓的白头偕老，其实就是妥协到老！

　　nanpengyouyinweileilefenshouzenmewanhui，zaiganqingdaolushang，dangnanyouyouyuleileerxuanzelefenshou，womenshibushiyoujihuiwanliutadexin？zenyangzhaodaojunheng，weitamentigongsuoxuyaodeshiyongyulijie？gezhongwentikunraozhehenduoren。yingduinanyouyinpibeierlikaideshishikeke，dajiabuyaoqingyifangqi，ershiyaosisuotamenzhenzhengxiangyaodeshisha。genjugoutongjiaoliu、guanhuaihegongtongdeqinfen，dajiahuoxukeyifujianqiaideqiaoliang，shiwomennanyouzhongxinhuidaowomendeshenbian。wanliupibeifenshoudenanyou，xuyaogengduoreqingheconghui，weiqidailaigengduodequdongliyuwennuan，yizhongxindianranaiqinghuohua。

　　nanpengyouyinweileilefenshouzenmewanhui

　　探索问题的根源，消除疲惫的困扰

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　　造就放松和缓解的生活环境

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　　彻底改变关联，找到新的共同爱好

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　　创建有效沟通，提高了解和认可

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　　汇总

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