女生第一次约会五大注意事项

　　dangnanyoushuotifenshoujiubaofuwoshi，wojinruleyigebeishangdejiongjing。wobuyoudekaishikaolv，yigerenshibushizhendekeyicongshiqudeaizhongxunzhaochengjiugan？zheihuayaowosisuo，tajieluleyizhongbujiankangdeqingxuyilaiheduilingyibancaozongdejudong。yucitongshi，yedingzhuwoyidingyaoxiaoxinzijishibushixianruyiduanbujiankangzhijiandeguanxi。fenshoushiyizhongjietuo，erbaofuzhinengchixusunhai。huishouguoqu，womenxuyaojianqiangdimaixiangweilai，xuehuifangqizheiyiduanbujiankangzhijiandeguanxi，zaicitanxunguishuyuwogerendexingfuyukuaile。

　　一、序言

　　xintongdekuchuyizhiwufayanyu，tebieshidangnanyoushuotifenshoujiubaofushijianzhirangrenshenxianshenshendiyihuo。zheiyichutiyinqiwoyixiliedetansuo，guanyuqingganyilai、kongzhiyuheshihuaidexianghuguanxi。

　　二、丧失与达到

　　dangchuneigezuiaideren，xianrujinqueyibaofulaihuiyingfenshoudejianyi。zheishiwokaolv，yigerenshibushizhenkeyicongshiqudeaizhongxunzhaochengjiugan？yexu，zheileibaofujinjinyuanyutaduiyushiqudetongkudefalifaxie，shituyongshanghaitarenlaihuanjieneixindetongchu。

　　三、情绪依赖的窘境

　　nanyouyitifenshouweiliyoubaofudechulifangshi，jieluchuqingxuyilaidejiongjing。zaizheigeguanxizhong，yigerenguoduyilailingyigelaimanzuzijimanzugan，shiquziwodezijuexinghegerenjiazhi，naizhiniuqurenzhihejiejuelingyibandefangfa。zheileibujiankangdeyilai，rangrennanyizhenzhenzhengzhengtihuidaosuiyiyukuaile。

　　四、感情中的控制欲

　　nanyouyibaofuzuoweihuifufenshoudefangfa，haowuyiwenxianxianchuduilingyibandekongzhiyu。zheileikongzhiyubudandanshi“ruguonilikaiwo，wohuirangnifuchuyingyoudedaijia”weixie，gengshiyizhongshituyongshanghaitarenlaiduozoulingyifangxuanzequanyuziyou。kongzhiyucushiguanlianmeifashijianlizaigongpingyuzunzhongdeqiantixia，jinerdaozhibicizaochengdeshanghaihetongku。

　　五、分手的摆脱

　　fenshoushiyizhongjietuo，shijieshuleyiduanbujiankanglianxideyingyongxingwei。dajiabuyaorangbeibaofusuozhiyue，ershiyinggaiyonggandemianduitongku，tanxunguishuyuzijideaiqingyuziyou。baofuzhinengchixusunhai，meifadaijiwomenzhenzhengyiyishangdedadaoheshifang。womenyinggaiguzuyongqi，wangjiguoquzaochengdeshanghai，congtoukaishizijideshenghuo。

　　六、重回幸福与快乐

　　huishouguoqudetongku，yerangwomenjianqiangdimianduitiaozhan。bunengrangyiduanbujiankangzhijiandeguanxijushuwomenzijideneixinyuchengzhang。zhaodaozijidexingfuyukuaile，erqiexuehuiziwobaohudexinling。zhongxinsikaodajiaduiaiqingdeqidaiyuzhuiqiu，shiwomennengzhaodaoyigezhenzhengzhongshi、lejiebingyuqixiangfudeairen。

　　结束语

　　nanyoushuotifenshoujiubaofuwo，zheizhongyantanjuzhilingrentanwan。danshiwomenbukechenjinyusunhaizhong，ershiyinggaimaibuxiangqian，tanxunshuyuzijixingfuyukuaile。fenshouzhishiyigebaituodekaiduan，jianqiangdimianduiguoqudetongku，zaicibianchengzijidezhuzaizhe，zhonghuoxingfudeweidao。