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　　重建信任：修复碎裂的关系

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　　反思问题：自我反思与更改

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　　诚恳的道歉与理解：传递我们自己的真心实意

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　　给与空间和时间：均衡自身需求与共处

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　　再次建立联系：拾起浪漫与共同爱好

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　　长久勤奋：坚持不懈的付出与坚持不懈

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　　结束语

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