女生如何向男生告白？

　　nanyoushuowowuzhiyaofenshou，zaizheiyangyigejianshuzhong，womenjiangxushunanyouzenyangjiuwowuzhiweiliyou，mingquetichulefenshou。zheigexuanzeyexushilaiyuanyuduiyuwoxiaofeixiguanqiangliebuman，huoshiduijinqianyishilidemaodun。buguanshenhoushiyinweishenme，nanyoujuedewoguoduwuzhi，bufutadejiazhiguan，yinerzuochulezheiyijiannandexuanze。rujin，womenxuyaopingdingzijidejuexinyuxingwei，yucitongshizhongxinsikaodajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanxishibushizhendenenggouhewuzhibuxianggan，xunzhaochushihebicijiejuefangan。

　　存在的不足：

　　nanyoushuowowuzhiyaofenshou，nanyouzailiangrendeguanxizhonghuranmingquetichulefenshou，yuanyinshitajuedewoguoduwuzhi。zheizhongqingkuangrangwoganjuedaoyihuoyutongku，youyuwocongmeixiangguoziyidexiaofeixiguanjianghuichengweidajiafenshoudedaohuoxian。rujin，womenxuyaoxixinsikaozheigewenti，ranhouzhaodaojiejuedebanfa。

　　我的心态：

　　dangmianduinanyousuotichudewuzhiguidingfenshoushi，wogandaohenxiaochenheshiwang。woyizhiyilaidoujinkenengzaizhengzhishangdandu，bingconglaibuyilaitadecaiwuzhichi。danshi，nanyouqueduiwoxiaofeixiguanyouyidingdebumanyi，juedewoguoduwuzhi。zheijianshirangwozhujianshenshizijixingweibiaoxianjiazhiguan，bingkaishicaiyizheigeguanxishibushizhendekeyichaoyuewuzhidebianjie。

　　价值观的矛盾：

　　fenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinyibanlaiyuanyubicizhijiandejiazhiguanmaodun。nanyoukenengjuedewoguoduzhongshiwuzhi，keshiwozeyoukenengjuedetaguodumiantianheqinjianjieyue。bicizhijiandelinianheshenghuofangshichabiemanmanbianda，jinerdaozhilefenshoudexiangfa。danshi，jiazhiguandechabiebingbuyidingshiwufadiaohede，dajiakeyishizhegenjugoutongyulejiequzhaodaotuoxiedefangshi。

　　重新审视：

　　zheishi，womenxuyaozhongxinsikaozijidejuexinyuxingwei。kenengzaiyiwang，wodequeduiwuzhiyouguoduzhuixun，zheiyedaozhilenanyouqiangliebuman。wogaishenshizijixiaofeixiguan，pingdingneixieshizhenzhenzhengzhengjiweizhongyaode，shenmeshinenggoujianshaohuobianhuade。yucitongshi，wojiubixumingquezijiduiyujinqianhewuzhidexintaijiqiduiweilaigouxiang。

　　探寻解决方法：

　　mianduizheiyangdekaoyan，xiwangnenggouhenanyoukaizhanzhenchengershencengcidejiaoliu。womennengshenrutantaoduiwuzhidegainian、duijinqiansixiangdeguandian，jiqiruhebawozishenxuqiuhebicizhijiandeguanlian。tanxunduibicidoukeyijieshoujiejuefanganshihenzhongyaode，bulunshigenjurangbuhaishiyongzhongxinguihuabicizhijiandeqidaierqiudachengyizhi。

　　自我提升：

　　zheiyifenshouwentiyeshiyigejiyu，rangwochengzhangheyouhuazishen。genjusikaoyuxuexipeixun，wokeyigenghaodelejiezijijiazhiguanhejinqianyishi，suzaojiankangdeshenghuoxiaofeixiguan，jinerjianliyigegenglaoguzhijiandeguanxi。zuizhongyaodeshi，woshizhongbaochilianghaodexintai，yijijizhudongdefangfajiejuezheixiekaoyan，chixujinbuyuchengzhang。

　　结束语：

　　nanyoushuowowuzhiyaofenshou，nanyoujiuwowuzhiweiliyoumingquetichulefenshouwenti，duiyuwoxingchenglejiaodachongji。danshi，yingduizheizhongqingkuang，woyuanbaochilianghaodexintai、duiwaikaifangdesiluhezhenzhidegoutongjiaoliuqujiejue。genjuzhongxinshenshiziyidejiazhiguanhetanxunjiejuefangfa，wojianxindajiadoukeyizhaodaorangbu，bingyiqichengzhang。buguanjieguoruhe，zheiyiqinshenjinglijiangchengweiwomentuibiandeyibufen，rangwogengcongminghekeguankeguankandaiwuzhiyushenghuo。