在婚姻中要有善解人意的能力

　　nanrenruheshuofenshoushiyigeguanyuqingganhexuanzedezhuyaohuati。zaimianduiyiduanbuhuizaixingfukuailedeguanlianshi，nanrenmianlintiaozhangongzuoyali。tamenyidingyaodongdejunhengzijideqingxuheduibicidezhongshi，yucitongshizhaodaogenghaodefangshilaichuandifenshoudexiangfa。buguanshigenjulijizhenchengdeduitan、xiechuzhenchengdexinhan，huozhexuanzeyuzhuanyerenyuanqiuzhu，nanrenbixushenzhongkaolvtadetihuiheduibierendeyiwu。yiner，ruheshuofenshouchengweileyigenanrenwubiyingduidezhongyaowenti。

　　挣脱与真诚：

　　nanrenruheshuofenshou，yingduiyiduanbuhuizaixingfukuailedeguanlian，nanrentongchangshenxianneixinshenchudezhengtuodangzhong。tamenhenyoukenenghuisisuofenshoudefangshihejihui，bingqieyejiaolvzheduibicidesunhaiyuzijidefuzuigan。zaizheiguochengzhong，zhenchengyuelaiyueyouweizhongyao。youyuwulunnazhongfangshihejihui，nanrendouyingyongzhenchengheqingchudeyuyanbiaoda，chuandachuzijidexiangfahequeding。zheileizhenchengbudanbicizhijianchengdan，yeshibicikeyigenghaodilejiehelijiefenshoudeshishi。

　　选择适宜的方式：

　　nanrenzaifenshoushi，xuanzeshiyidefangshiyefeichangzhongyao。youderenkenenghuixuanzelingjulidejiaoliu，yinweizheiyangdefangshikeyirangshuangfangkandaoduifangdeqingganbiaoxian，jiangdiwuhuidekenengxing。erlingyixierenzeyoukenenggengpianzhongyuzhuanxiexinhanhuoxuanzedengfeimianduimiangoutongfangshi，yinweitamenzuonengdaijitamendaliangshijianyukongjianlaishulizijideguandian，bingbimianxintaiguoduxingfen。buguanxuanzenazhongfangshi，nanrendouyaozaijiaoliuzhongzhongshibierendeganshou，bingyuyichongzudelingtingyulijie。

　　找专业的的大力支持：

　　youshi，nanrenyehuifaxiantazaifenshoushibunengjiejuezijidexinqinghehuihua。cike，zixunzhuanyerenyuandedalizhichijiangbiandeshifenguanjian。tamennenggoutigongjingshencengmiandeshiyongheyindao，xiezhunanrengenghaodilejiehejiejuezijidexiangfa，yucitongshiweitamentigongzaifenshouguochengdetiyiheyindao。zheileigengzhuanyedeshiyongbudankeyibangzhunanrennenggougenghaodibiaoshuzijidexihao，yekeyijianqingzheixierenzaifenshouhuanjiezhongkenengchuxiandexiaojiqingxuyuyali。

　　尊重和完善：

　　nanrenzaifenshoushi，yingdangchixubaochizunzhongyuwanshan。bulunshizaibiaoshuzijidexihaoshi，haishifenshouhouzhijiandehudongzhong，nanrendouyingjinliangshiyonggongjixingyanyushenzhizaochengwuyiyidezhengzhi。fanguolai，tamenyingjinliangbaochilixinghelixing，yibaozhenglingyifangkeyiganshoudaotadezunzhongyuwanshan。yucitongshi，nanrenyeyingdangduizishendequedingchengdan，bingqieyuanyiweizijixuanzechengdanhouguo。

　　后面关怀和自我疗愈：

　　fenshouhou，nanrenyexuyaokaolvzijideqingxuheshenxinjiankang。tamennenggouxunzhaoqinpenghaoyoudedalizhichiheqingtu，keyikaolvzixunzhuanyerenyuandeyijian。yucitongshi，nanrenyekeyitongguotanxunshidudeziwoliaoyufangshilaihuanjiezijidexinqing，lirujianshenyundong、chuangzuo、mingxiangxunliandeng。zheileihoumianguanaiheziwoliaoyudeyigeguochengjiangyouzhuyunanrenzhongshishuyuzijipinghenghexingfukuaile。

　　nanrenruheshuofenshou，nanrendangmianduifenshoushi，bixuyonggandemianduikaoyan，bingqieyichengxinyuzunzhongdefangshibiaodaguandianhequeding。genjuxuanzeshiyidegoutongjiaoliufangshi、xunzhaogengzhuanyedeshiyong，jiqiweichizunzhongyuwanshan，nanrenkeyigenghaodejiejuefenshoudeyigeguocheng，tongshiyeweizijichengzhangyuxingfupupingjianshijichu。suiranfenshouhuiyinfatongkuyuzhengtuo，danqinshenjinglihoumianguanaiheziwoliaoyuyihou，nanrenzhongjiuhuikeyijixuqianjin，yinglaiyigexinderenshengzhilv。