夫妻情感：做出结婚的选择应该只与爱有关

　　nanrenruheshuofenshoushiyigejingchangbeitaolundehuatitaolun。zaimianduiaiqingchedijieshu，nanrentongchanghuicaiyongweiwandifangshilaichuandifenshoudejuece。takenenghuixuanzeyongrouhedeyuqi，zhenchengbiaodachuzijidexiangfahekanfa。youyixienanrenkenengxuanzenengrangduifangtihuidaotadejiandingjuexinhuibuletoudexintai，erlingyixiezehuixuanzeweichiyoushanyuzunzhongdexintai，congerjianshaoshanghaimaodun。buguannanrenruheshuofenshou，qibeihoudouyouduiaiqingdezunzhongyuzhenxidetixian。

　　苦衷

　　nanrendangmianduifenshouzheiyikunjingshi，jingchangshenxiankuzhongdejiongjing。tamenyexuyinweipashanghaitaren、zaiyizijidepinpaixingxianghuozhegulvdaotamenzhijiandeyouyierxuanzemanbaozhenshitihui。danshi，zheileimanbaotongchanghuijiduifangdailaigengduokunhuoxingshanghai。yiner，nanrenbixuyonggandequmianduizheiyikaoyan，zhaodaogenghaodefangshilaibiaoxianfenshoudejuece。

　　用言谈举止信息传递方式

　　nanrennengtongguoyanciyuxingweilaichuandifenshoudexinxi。tamennenggouxuanzezhenchengdibiaoshizijineixindexiangfahekanfa，danyaozhuyideshi，zaiyuyanshiyaozhongshibierendeganshou，jinliangshiyongshangrendeyanyu。chucizhiwai，nanrendejudonghaikeyichuansongfenshoudexinxi，birujijijiangdipengmiancishu、taobiqinmijiechu、genggairichangdexintaideng。zheileifangshisuirangengweihanxu，danduiyuyouxienanreneryan，zheishiyizhongshushidefangshi。

　　友好分手

　　zainanrenxuanzefenshoushi，youderenhuixuanzeweichiyouhaoyuzunzhongdexintai。tamenhuirenzhendiheduifanggoutongjiaoliu，bingchangshidachengyizhihechulifenshouguochengdenanti。zheileiyouhaofenshoudefangshinenggoujilianggerendoudailaiyizhongxiangduixingpinghedebaituogan，fangzhilebubiyaoshanghaimaodun。nanrenzaixuanzezheileifangshishi，bixuheduifangweichibaorongdexintai，xiangyaolingtingbicizhijiandeniantouyuxuqiu。

　　追寻调解

　　youyixienanrenzaiyuyanfenshouquedingshi，huicaiyongjijidexintai，xiwangyonggoutongyuchuliwentilaizhengjiuaiqing。takenenghuibiaodazijiyoulvhedanyou，qidaizhaodaoyizhonggengqiangjiejuefangan，fangzhifenshoudechansheng。zheileifangshizhanxianlenanrendezhizheyufuchu，tongshiyeweilelianggerenzhongguiyuhaodehaojihui。danshi，zheijiuxuyaobicizhijiandegongtongfendouyulijie，buranhenyoukenengzhongjiuhaishitarufenshoudedaolu。

　　寻找技术专业协助

　　dangmianduifenshouzheiyifuzadeqingganwentideshihou，nanrenhaikeyixunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu。tamennenggouxuanzeyuxinlixuezixunshihuoqinggandaoshijinxingjiaoliu，qingtuziyideyihuoshenghuozhongdemaodun，dedaojishuzhuanyedeyijianheyindao。zheileifangshinenggoubangzhunanrengengqiangzirandiliqingzijidesiwei，congergenghaodibiaoshufenshoudejuece，bingzaijiexialaideganqinglihuodegengduochengzhangyuxingfukuaile。

　　坚定地讲出

　　nanrendangmianduifenshoushi，zuizhongyaodejiushiyaojiandingdijiangchuzhenshidexiangfahetihui。suiranfenshoushiyijianjiannandexuanze，danweichichengxinhetanchengshiduiyubicigengweiyouzerenxindezuofa。nanrennenggouxuanzeyigeheshideshijianhefangshiqubiaodazijiqueding，fangzhituichihemengmenglonglongdexintai。jinyouyonggandequmianduishiji，caikeyijizijigenduifangzhujiuyitiaogengjiaqingxihesuixinsuoyudelumian。

　　nanrenruheshuofenshou，bingmeiyoumingquedehuida。meigerendouyouzijideweirenchushifangshiyuyandebiaodafangshi。zuizhongyaodeshi，zaifenshoudeguochengdangzhong，nanrenkeyikaolvdaobierendeganshou，weichizunzhongyulijie，heyichengshuhefuzerendetaidulaimianduizheiyikaoyan。buguanxuanzenayizhongfangshi，zongtimubiaodoushiweilianggerendounenggoudedaobaituoyuchengzhangdehaojihui。