那些婚姻幸福的夫妻都做到这几点

　　fenshoudenvrenzuipashenme？huidayexujiuqianzangzaitadeneixinzuishenchudeneijiu。danghunyinzoudaozuihou，wulunshichuyucaiyi、fenqi，huoshibicizhijiandeyijianbuyizhi，daobiedeyinmaihaoxianglongzhaozhetamenshenshang。tamenhenyoukenengmaiyuanzijibingmeiyouqinfenweichi，huobeiganlingyifangdeshangtong。neijiushitongchu、kuijiuyuhuihendejiehe，qiaoqiaodesipozhetadeneixindepinghengyupingjing。fenshouhou，guoyuzhizheqingganshangdenvrenyexuhuibuduanshouzhiyuzheileineijiuzhixin，wufabaituoaideyinying，zhenfenqilai。danshi，duiyuyixiekeyijiejuexinlizuiegan，xiangqianzoudenvreneryan，fenshouyoukenengshiyicifazhan，yicitanxunzhenzhenzhengzhengxingfukuaile、zhongxinlejieziwojiyu。

　　分手的女人最怕什么

　　放纵自己，找不到方向

　　dangyiduanganqingzoudaozuihou，fenshoudenvrenhaipadeshifangzongziji，bingmishileqianxingdefangxiang。zaiyuairenxiangchuzhong，nvrenchangyiduifangdexuqiuyuqidaiweizhu，bazijidebiaozhunhejiazhiguannianfangzhiciyaoweizhi。danshi，fenshouhou，tamenkenengganjuemimanghejuewang，qishitamenbuzaiyonglingyifangdeshijiaolaihengliangzishen。zheishihou，guanjiandeshimanxialaisikao，zhongxinxunzhaozijideaihao、reqinghezongtimubiao，zaicijianliqizijidezhenshishenfenyuzixin。

　　孤独与丧失借助

　　lingyigefenshoudenvrenhaipadeshiguduyusangshijiezhu。dangtamenxiguanyuairenzaiyiqishenghuo，gongxiangbicizhijiandelequhekunjingshi，huranyingduidulirichangshenghuodeshiji，huigandaokongxuhefali。meileairendedalizhichiheshouhou，tamenjianghuishenxianjimodexuanwozhong。danshi，gudanyeshiyizhongjiyu，tamennengxuehuizili，zaicichajuezijineizaideliliangyuziyuan，suzaogerenxingquaihao，jieshixinpengyou，manmangoujianqishuyuzijijiaojiquan。

　　恐惧与不敢再爱

　　fenshoudenvrenhaipadeshikongjuhebuganzaidutouruaiqing。jingliyicibeishangdefenshou，tamenyehuibiandedangxinhemingan，danxinzaidushoushang。kongjukenenghuishitamenzusaixinxian，haipadakaixincunqumianduixindelianai。danshi，jinyouyonggandemianduineixinshenchudekongju，cainengzhongxinduiwaikaifangzishen，jiyuaiqingdejiyu。genjuziwotishenghexuehuiziwobaohudejiexian，tamennengzhujianhuifuduiganqingdezixinxin，zhaodaozhenzhengshuyuzijidexingfu。

　　生存压力和批判

　　fenshoudenvrenhaipadeshilaizishehuideyalihepengji。zaiyixieshehuifazhanhuanjingli，nvrenfenshouhoujingchangbeitieshangshibaizhedebiaoshi，beichengzuoruanruowuneng、wufengcai、haowujiazhi。zheileipengjihechaoxiaokenenghuishitamengandaozibeihefushang，zulantamenzhaodaoxindejihuiyuhenyoukeneng。danshi，tamenxuyaomingbai，fenshoubingfeibuchenggong，gengshiweilezijichengzhangyuxingfuzuodejueding。tamenyinggaijianchizijidedaolu，buhuishoudaobierendepingdingheganrao，xiangxinzijishiyongjiazhiyunengli。

　　丧失信任和被背叛

　　fenshoudenvrenhaipadeshisangshixinrenhebeibeipandeganjuele。danghunyinpolie，benlaichuangjiandexinrenshoudaopohuaishi，tamenhenyoukenengjuedejidadekuchuxingshanghai。zheileixinliyinyinghuiyanzhongyingxiangtamenduiyurenjiguanxiguandian，erqieduiweilaiganqingtigaojingti。danshi，ciwai，tamenyexuyaoxuehuishifangchulaiyiwangdeshangtong，tanxunzhiyudexingshi，zaicigoujianqixinrendeqianti。genjuhezijihejie，bingyuyibierenxindejiyu，tamennengzhonggouzijideneixin，houzhongxinzouxiangxingfudelu。

　　fenshoudenvrenzuipashenme，fenshoudenvrenhaipafangzongzijihefangweigan，danzhongxinfaxianzijideguochengzhong，tamenyehuodechengzhangyudandu。tamenzuipaguduheshiqujiezhu，danshitongguoxuehuizilihezhongxinjianliwangluoshejiao，tamennengmanmanxunzhaozijicunzaigan。tamenhaipakongjuhebuganzaiai，danshitongguoyonggandemianduineixinshenchudekongju，tamennengzhongxinzhaodaoaideyongqi。tamenhaipashengcunyalihepipan，danshitamenyingdangxiangxinzijishiyongjiazhi，jianchiziwo。tamenzuihaipashiquxinrenhebeibeipan，danshitongguoshifangchulaiyiwangdeshangtong，tamennengjianlixindexinren，bingxiangqiantuijin。fenshoubingbushizhongdian，fanershixindeqidian，shiweiletamennengzhaodaogengshihezijideaiqing。