未能正视客观现实，导致大龄未婚女性脱单难

 jinliangnianlai，gezhongyishengnanshengnvweigushibeijingdeyingshijuposhouhuanying，ru《zanmenjiehunba》、《xianjiehunhoulianai》、《danshennvwang》deng。zhimingnvxingqingganzixunjigouhuazhenqingganbiaoshi，“shengxia”zheihuatiyiranbianchenglerangrenbudebuguanzhudeshehuixianxiang。womenbunanxiangxiang，zheixiedianshijudezhuyaoshouzhongqunti，shinenggouyujuqingchanshenggongmingderen，jimuqianzhengdalingdanshen，huozhecengjingdalingdanshenderenshi。

为什么会被“剩下”？

 suizheshehuidefazhan，nvxingyuelaiyueduodicanyushehuijingzheng，bingzaizheigeguochengzhongrenshizijihezijidejiazhi。jingjishangdeduli，shidedabufennvxingbuzaixuyaotongguohunyinhuoquwuzhibaozhang；duiziwodekending，rangrenmenbuzaihuixiangfubeimenneiyang“jiangjiu”hunyin，ershidadandizuoziji，yongganquzhuiqiuzhenzhengdeaiqing。suoyixianzaidenianqingrenduiaiqinghehunyinyougenggaodeqidai，jinerduiyixingyegengjiatiaoti，zheishiyanxiashengnanshengnvyuelaiyueduodezhongyaoyuanyin。jinyibude，yeshishengnanshengnvaiqinggushiweibeijingdeyingshijurebodeyuanyinzhiyi。

 fanyingshengnvaiqingdeyingshijudouyouyigegongxing：nvzhurengongfeichangyouxiu，shidajiagongrendemeinv，youzhebucuodezhiye，wangwangtamenyeyouzhezhuliujiazhiguandourenkedeyouliangpinzhi：shanliang、wenrou、zhengzhideng，danqueshidalingdanshendeshenghuozhuangtai。bingqiezuizhongyaodeshi，gushidejiejufazhan，wangwangtamendounengdedaohaodeguisu，shouhuoxingfudeaiqing。ernanzhurengongzaixinggeshanghuodunhoushizai，huofengliutitang，danzheibingbushizuizhongyaodeyuansu，zuizhongyaodeshi，tamendoushenainvzhurengong，bingqieshiyechenggong。

幸福不止是好运气

 zheiyangdejuqingshezhi，wuyishiyingheledanshennannvduiaiqinghehunyindexiangxiang。dadadimanzuleguanzhongdexintaitoushe，keyizaijuqinggushilixiangshou“ruguowoshita”dekuaigan，shunbianjiaqiangjixudengdaiaiqingdeyongqihexinxin。

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正确对待才能脱单

 kewangaiqingdedalingdanshenzhe，yifangmianyaoshulizijideneixin，gengduodirenshiziji，weixiehoumeihaodeaiqingzuozhunbei；lingyifangmian，haixuyaoqurenshihelejieyixing，buduanxuexiaiqingdezhihui，duoaixiziji——zaiairenchuxianzhiqian，xiantitahaohaodiaiziji。zaizheigejichushang，duocanyurenjihudong，tishengrenshiyixingdegailv，zengjiaxiehouaiqingdejihui。