如何有技巧地顺利脱单

 buguandanshenleduojiu，kanleduoshaobeihuanlihe，jianleduoshaozhanandisanzhe，neisheisheiyoupitui，neisheisheiyoubeitai。woshizhongrenwei：shijieneimeda，haonanrenzhendebushao，huainvrenyezhendebuduo。woyeshizhongxiangxin，woderenzhishikeguande。ruheranghaonanrenyuhaonvrenxiangyu？

1 、不要被动等待

 buzaidengdaizhongcuotuo，jiuzaidengdaizhongshiluo，yaozhidaodengdaiyongyuandoushihuanbulaiaiqingde。xianzaidezhichangnvxingkenengyouyugongzuodeyuanyinsuoduanleshejiaoshijian，shiqulejiechuqianzailianaiduixiangdejihui。ruguocishishengnvmenhaibudongdezaijinyoudeshejiaohuodongzhongzhanxianzijidemeili，zongshibeidongdidengdaibeidashandejihui，zheijiurongyicuoshitaiduoliangjile。　　zaijuhuizhong，nikeyizhudongxunzhaohuatiyuburenshideyixingliaotian，zhiyouzheiyangnicainenggouyougengduoderenshihejiechuyixingdejihui，huozheniyekeyichangshicanjiayixiedanshenpaidui，youmubiaoxingdeshejiaohuodonghuijinidailaigengduoaiqingdejihui。zongyouyitiannihuizhidao，yigeyongganzixinderenyuanyuanbiyigemomodengdaimeiyouxingdongderengengrongyishouhuoaiqing。

2 、内外兼修

 lianghaodediyiyinxiangjuedinglexiayibufazhandekenengxing，yincinixuyaocongwaixingshangkaishigaibian。wulunshiquzuoyitouxingganwumeidezhangjuanfa，haishichangshihuayigeshensuideyanzhuang，doukeyirangduifangyoujinyibulejiejiechudeyuwang。ciwai，nihaixuyaodongdexiushizijideneizai，nikeyineixinqiangdajingjiduli，danshiyidingyaoyouwenroudexingge，bingqieyaotigaozijidexiuyang，zuoyigeyouneihanderen，zheiyangcaigengrongyidedaonanrendeqinglai，yegengrongyirangaiqinglaidezhangjiu。