怎么才能找到合适的那个他呢

 woshiyigetiaojianyehenputongdenvsheng，xinggebijiaokailangleguan，suoyizaishangdaxuezhiqian，wolisuodangrandijuededaoledaxuehaishihuiyourenzhui。dangranyequeshiyourenzhui，zhishidoushiwobuxihuandeleixing。

 wojuedeyouganjuedenanshengmaosidoubuhuiguanzhudaowo，yizhiyuzaidaxuegaihaohaoxiangshouxiaoyuanlianqingdeshihou，woquedanshenlesinian。xianzaituranxiangzhaogenanpengyouganjuedoulibucongxin，buzhigaicongnalixiashouquzhao。zhouweidenanxingmeiyouwoxihuandeleixing，woyebuhuizhudongbiaobai，yemeiyoubiaobaidejingyan。woxiangzhidao，wojiujingshinalichulewentini？zenmecainengzhaodaoheshideneigeta。

冷爱的回复：

 kuodashejiaoquandewenti，dajiatidemanduode，wodasuanyihouzaizhuanmenzuogezhuanti。danshizaizheigezhuantidaolaizhiqian，woxianzaizheilifenxiangyixiakuodashejiaoquanzhongdabufenrenyudaodewenti，jinguanhenduodoushilaoshengchangtan，danshihaishibudebuzaiciqiangdiaoyixia：

第一，一定要提出切实可行的计划。  zheigejihuayaoyoumingquedeshijianjiedian，youmingquedeshulianghemubiao，ranhoubajihualuoshidaomeigejidu、meigeyue、meiyizhoushenzhimeiyitian。biru：nidejihuashiyaozaijiexialaideyibaitianzhineirenshiyibaigexinderen。genjuzheigemubiao，niyaoquzhidingzongtikuangjiabinglianghuaxihuajieduanxingrenwuyijimeiyitianderenwu。zheiyangnijiuhuizhidaozheiyibaitianneiniyaoxianzuonaxieshiqingyaoqucanjianaxiejuhui，zaiqujiangsuoyoukenenghuijieshimoshengrendequdaoquanbuliechulai，zuihoujiangtamenfenpeidaomeizhouzaidaomeitian。zheiyangnimeitianderenwujiuyoula；

第二，要把扩大社交圈当中所有的过程都记录下来，以天为单位做记录。 zhunbeiyigezhuanmendebijiben，yonglaizuoguochengjilu；

第三，给自己的行为设立一个奖惩措施，然后才能推动自己往前走；

第四，在扩大社交圈的过程当中，分线上跟线下两个渠道  ，yidingqiongjinsuoyouyiqienenggouzengjiayouxiaolianxirendekenengxing，lirucanjiahuozuzhixiaoyouhui、cishanzuzhi、xingquzuzhideng，jinkenengdiqurenshizugouduoderen。

 dangran，kuodashejiaoquanzheijianshi，guanjianshishuoyixingnan，yidingyaozhaodaorenlaituidongniqianjin。niyigerenzuoqishitingnande，nikeyiqingyigerenzhuanmenlaijianduni，zhuanmentuidongniwangqianzou。

 dabufenrenmeiyounengzhudongquzuochengzheijianshiqing，zhuyaoshiyinweimeiyouzhaodaoqiadangdefangfagendongli。suoyi，wozaizheiliyexiwangjiezheigejihuigendajiafenxiangyixiawodeganshou：woxiangzainianhouzhuanmenkaiyigelanmu，rangdajiaxianghuguli，yiqibangzhunimenweizijideganqingfuchuzhenzhengdexingdongli，zhenzhengdiqutuidongnimenzuozijixiangzuodeshiqing。ruguodajiayoushenmejianyi，yekeyipinglungaosuwo，meiyitiaowodouhuikan。