恋爱宝典：建立正确感情观 让自己成为一个理性看待爱情的人！

　　fenshouhounvshenghuikaoyannima？zheishiyigeshenshounanshiguanxindewenti。zaifenshouhou，yixienvshengkenengtongguogezhongtujinglaikaoyanqianrendeqingganyuyizhili。tamenyexuyongdaolengmohushilaishuoshibushininengdaozhuitamen，huozheliyongsuoshilaiceshinidenaixinhetiexindu。danbingbudaibiaoquanbunvshengdoushihuikaoyanni，meiyigerenhezhuangkuangdoubujinxiangtong。zhongdianzaiyuzenyangchulizheizhongkaoyan，zhanshichuzouxiangchengshutitiedetaidu，caikeyidedaogenghaodefazhanyugongchujiyu。

　　分手后的考验

　　1. 爱情的残余

　　fenshouhounvshenghuikaoyannima？shijishang，fenshouhoudenvshengyoushiyehuigenjumouxiexingweiqutiyanzijideqingxushibushihaicanyu。takenenghuiyoushihouzhudonglianxini，huoshiouerjiechuyixieyitongdemeihaohuiyi，yiceshiniduicongqiandefanying。zheileikaoyanbujinyouyoukenengshiduinideqingganderennaidudeyizhongkaoyan，yeyoukenengshitaduizijideqingxuguanchahequeren。

　　2. 自我价值的认证

　　fenshouhounvshenghuikaoyannima？youyixienvshengkenenghuitongguokaoyanlaijianyanzijidemeiliheyouhuoli。tamenhenyoukenenghuiguyizhanxianzijidexingfukuaile、kaixin，bingyuqitarenweichihaodeguanxi，mudeshiweilekankannidefanying。zheizhongkaoyanjiushixiwangmingqueniduizishenjiazhihaishengxiaduoshaorentong，shifoujiuhuihouhuiliqutamen。

　　3. 忠诚和诚实守信衡量

　　fenshouhounvshenghuikaoyannima？youshihounvshengkeyitongguokaoyanlaiceshinidezhongchenghechengshishouxin。tamenhenyoukenenghuiguyixiyinzhubiedenanshizhuyili，kanzhenishibushidujihuozhuyaobiaoxianchulaibuxinlaidetaidu。shiweileceshinishibushizaifenshouhouyiranbaochiduitamendezhongchenghezhencheng，yehuibeibierenxiyinzhuerpanbiantamen。

　　4. 解释说明沟通的能力

　　fenshouhounvshenghuikaoyannima？youshihounvshengkeyitongguokaoyanlaijiancenidejieshihegoutongdenengli。tamenkenengyouyizhizaoyixiexiaoyiwai，neijiukannishizenmebiaoshuheyingduide。zheizhongkaoyanshiweileceshinishifounengyiwanshandetaidumianduikunnan，bingnenglijietamendejingshenxuqiu。

　　5. 大力支持和关怀的态度

　　fenshouhounvshenghuikaoyannima？nvshengyoushiyehuigenjukaoyanlaijianceniduitamendedalizhichiheguanaitaidu。tamenhenyoukenenghuiguyibiaoxianchuleminganhedanyoudeyimian，yikannishifouhuijijizhichihebangzhutamen。zheizhongkaoyanjiushixiwangmingqueniduizishendezhongyaoyiyiyuanbuyuanyifuzeren。

　　fenshouhounvshengdekaoyanshiyizhongtanxunheguanchanidejihui，tamenyongzheizhongfangshilaiguanzhunidezhenzhenggerenxinggeqingxusuyang。mianduizheiyangdekaoyan，zuizhongyaodeshibaochilixinghewanshandetaidu，jijizhanshichulejie、tiexinhejiandingbuyidezhiliang。weiyouruci，nicaikeyikaoyan，biaoxianzijishiyigezhidetamenzaidujiezhuhezhidexinlaideren。