脱单秘籍：如何让男生主动接近你？

　　fenshouduojiucainengzouchulai，zheishihenduorenmenzaiganqingxiaochenhouyitiwendewenti。meiyigerenqinshenjinglifenshoudeguochengbuyiyang，danshijiandenengliangshibukehushide。fenshouzhihoudexiufubixushijianheziwoliaoyudeguocheng。yiduannanyiwanghuaideaiqingburongyiyichaoyixibeiyiqi，danshisuizheshijiandebianhua，chuangkouzhujianxiufu，neixinmanmanfuwei。fenshouduojiukeyizouchulaizaiyuyigerendechengzhanghemianduixianshinengli，danguanjianshileguanmianduibingxiangxin，jianglaihuiyougenghaoderenyujiyujingjingdedengdaidajia。

　　1. 不断呼吸时间

　　fenshouduojiucainengzouchulai？zheizhongqingkuangmeiyouyigegudingbudongdehuida，yinweimeigerenxiufuguochengdoushiduyiwuerde。danshi，congmouzhongyiyishanglaishuo，zouchufenshoudeshijianzaiyuyigerendexinliquanyuheziwotishengdejiaobu。youderenkenengzhixuyaojizhou，jiukepingfuwaishang，jixuqianxing；erlingyixierenkenenghaixuyaohaoduogeyueshenzhigengzhangdeshijian，laizhongshizishen。

　　2. 坚持不懈了解坚持不懈的努力

　　zouchuyiduanganqingdecanyutongkushibixunuliheshijiande。fenshoudaibiaozheheguoqudeyilaixingxingweixiguanchedibaituo，zheiyiqiedoubixumanmanshiyingbingjieshou。guochengzhong，xuyaobuduangaojieziji，fenshoushiyizhongjietuo，weilegenghaodejianglai。tongguolejiehekuanrong，dajiakeyirangzijinenggougenghaodixuehuifangxia，bingweijinhoudeganqingjileigengduodegongzuojingyanyuzhihui。

　　3. 探索新的身份

　　fenshouhou，nikenenghuijuedemituhemishifangxiang。zheishihou，womenyaobawozhujihui，zhongxinshenshizijishenfenhesixiang，tansuoyigexindegailv。keyishizheyixiexindegerenaihao，jieshixinpengyou，naizhijinxingyichangzizhulvyou。zheimezuobujinkeyifensanzhuyili，haikeyizhongshidulizizhuerwanqiangdeyimian。

　　4. 心理疗法的益处

　　zaifenshouguochengzhong，youshihoumeifayigerenmianduiqingganshangdechongjitongchu。zheishi，xunqiuzhuanyedexinliliaofakenengshiyizhongzhengquedexuanze。xinlizixunshijiangtigongyigeanquandeshenghuohuanjing，lingtingyulijienideqingxu，bingtigongyixiejianyiyujiqiaobangzhunizouchushangtong。genjuxinliliaofa，dajiakeyigenghaodejiejuetongchu，shifangchulaixinlideyali，bingjianliqigengyuyuedexinqing。

　　5. 重新开启的气魄

　　zouchuyiduanganqing，xuzhongxinyonggandemianduixindezhengcheng。jishicengjingdeshangtonghaicunzaizhe，danwomenbunengrangtazulandajiaqianjindejiaobu。yaoguzuyongqi，jianxinzijizhidezuihaodeganqing，yingyongtoushenxindelianaizhong。wulunguoqujinglileshenmeyangdefenshoutongchu，fenshouduojiucainengzouchulaidehuidazaiyuwomenzishen——dajiayuanbuyuanyijienayiwang，bingyongyujiyujianglaiyigexindejiyu。

　　结果：

　　fenshouduojiucainengzouchulai？zheibingbushiyigekeyijiangqijiejuedewenti，ershiyigebixugerenjiazhiheshijiandeguocheng。meiyigerendouyouzijidexiufushishikeke，danyaojizhu，zouchufenshoudeguanjianshiweichijijidexintai、qinfenquanyuxinlideshangtong，bingxiangxinzijizhidezuihaodejianglai。buguanqinshenjinglishenmeyangdefenshou，buyaowangle，shijianhuidaizoutongku，erwomenyaozuodeshishizijichengweigenghaoderen，weixindexingfufahuitezhang。