放不下一个已婚男，我该怎么办？

　　fenshouhounanshengxinggechedibianle，zheishiyigechongmanbianshugushi。zaiaidecanrenmolianxia，fenshoubianchenglebidingzuizhongdejieju，ernanxingdexinlingyefashenglehendadebianhua。tacongcengjingdewenwenruyayuelaiyuewuqingwuyi，congkailangxiangxiaochenbianhua。tashangtoulexin，diushileduirenxingxinlai。zheiyangdebianhua，bujinjinshiduiyiwangjingliguodeyizhongdiyu，doushixinlideyigesuoying。fenshouhoudenanshengxinggezhiliposui，taxiangyaoshijianhejihuilaizhongxinzhaohuizijidezhenshimianmao。

　　藏匿疼痛

　　fenshouhounanshengxinggechedibianle，dajiacengjingyiwei，yiduanlianqingdezhongjiejinjinlianggerenzhijiandeshi。fenshouhou，nanshengdexinggechuxianlechedidizhuanbian，haoxiangtachenglelingyigeren。biaomian，tayexukanshangquwanqiangyulengkuwuqing，danyezhishitaxinlingshenchusuoyinzangtengtongganxiangbei。

　　zaiguoquganqingzhong，nanhaiziqingzhulebushaoaiqingyujingli，jiejinquanlidilaijingyingheweichizheiduanganqing。danshi，zhongguizhengbutuofenshoudexiachang。cicifenshouhaosiyijimengji，rangtadexinlishoudaolejidadesunhai。tabuyuanmianduizheiyifentengtonggan，yincishituyonggenggaizijidegexinglaiwangquecongqiandeyiqie。

　　无处安放的失望

　　fenshouhou，nanshengdexinggefashenglehendadebianhua，tacongyigeruyaderenyuelaiyuelengxuewuqing。tabuzaiyuanyijieshoulianaidemeihao，duirenxingchanshengzhiyi。zheizhonggaibianlaiyuanyutaxinlingshenchudecuobaigan。

　　tacengfuchuguozhenxinshiyiyunuli，quehuanlailefenshoudexianshidecanku。shiquyiqiangongtongjianlizuimeihaodehuiyiheqiwang，nanhaizijuedeshouzuwucuo，cuobaigankuosandeshitawuchuzhifang。tashituyonggenggaizijidegexingquduobizheiyifenxinlingshenchudeshiwangyushanghai。

　　迷途的身份认同

　　fenshouhoudenanshengxinggefashenglehendadebianhua，tajiukaishibiandezibeihexiaochen。duizijishiquzixinxin，buhuizaixiangxinzijishiyongjiazhi。tamishilezijirenke，buzhidaoyinggaishishenmeyangderen。

　　cengjingdetashikailang、zixinxinerwanqiangde，danshixianzaidekeshitabuzaishineigemoyang。tashituyonggenggaizijidegexingqushiyingganqingshoushangyihoudeshenghuo，danzheizhonggaibianzhishiyizhongmitubiaoxian。taxuzhongxinzhaohuizijidezhenshimianmao，jianlixindeduizishenderenke。

　　不顾一切的维护

　　nanshengxinggedewanquanzhuanbianyuanzitacengbeishanghaiqinshenjingli。fenshouhou，bianjuedingbaohuhaoziji，buhuizairangqitarenjiejin。tabiandewuqingwuyi，duiwaijieyiqieshizhongbaochizhedangxinhefangbei。

　　zheileifangyujizhilingqirenjijiaowangyuelaiyueshuyuanhenanyijianliqi。tapazaidushoushanghai，yinciyingyongzishengenggaidegexingzuoweitianranpingzhang。danshi，zheileiweihubushitazhenzhengxiangyaode，taxiangyaoxuehuimianduibingjiejueneixindetengtonggan，cainengzuodaozhenzhengbaituokunjing。

　　重新寻找真实的自己

　　fenshouhounanshengxinggedewanquanzhuanbianshiyishide，jiushitachangshijiejuetongkuyushiwangdeyizhongfangshi。taxuyaoshijianlaizhishang，zhongxinxunzhaozhenshideziji。zaihuifudeguochengdangzhong，taxiangyaoyishidaogenggaibingfeichuliwentideweiyitujing，fanershilaimianduibingjiejuexinlideshangtong，caikeyizhongsuzijihejianlixindeduiganqingdezixinxin。

　　英勇追求幸福的信心

　　fenshouhounanshengxinggechedibianle，jinguanfenshouhounanshengdexinggefashenglejudadezhuanbian，dantabingbuyingdangchenjinyutongkuyushiwangzhong。taxiangyaoyonggandemianduiyiwangdeshangtong，bingxiajuexinzhuiqiuzijidexingfukuaile。zaicizhaohuizijideshijixingqing，jianlixindeduiganqingdezixinxin，tacaihuimaixianggengmeihaodemingtian。jinyouyongyumiandui，cainenghuodeyifenzhenzhenzhengzhengshuyuzijidexingfu。