恋爱中的女人没做好三件事，再多的爱都会消失

　　duanlianhefenshoudequti，dangliangrenlaidaoqingxudejintou，duanlianhefenshoubianchengnanyibimiandetiaoxuan。duanlianyiweizheguandiaolianxidianhua，duankaibicizhijiandeqiaoliang，erfenshouzeyiweizhewanbicengjingdeaiqingguanlian。zheiliangzhezhijiancunzaixiweiyouhenzhongdadechabie。duanlianhenyoukenengzhishizanshide，weilenengziwotishenghuozheduifangyuzijideyichu；erfenshounaishijuerande，daibiaozhebicizaiyewufagongtongfendou。bulunshiduanlianhuoshifenshou，doubansuizhetongkuheshiwang，tongshiyeyiweizhexindeqidianhefuhuodejiyu。

　　不舍断联，无情分手

　　duanlianhefenshou，yaozaiaiqingzoudaozuihoushi，dajiasuoyudaode2gejiannanxuanze。duanlianyiweizhewanquanduankaiheduifangdeguanlian，jiangbicizhijiandeshenghuochedifenlikailai；erfenshouzeyiweizhewanbilianggerenyiqianmeihaodelianaiguanlian，fangxiaguowang，yinglaiyigequanxindeshenghuo。zheiliangtiaoxuanbuguanzenyangdoubuhuiqingyi，tamendoubansuizhelingrenjiuxindetongkuhemimang。

　　断联，为自己着想

　　duanlianshiyizhongziwobaohudefangfa，tanengrangwomenzanshibikaicitengneixindemeihaohuiyi，rangniyoujiyuzhongxinguihua、zhongxinrenshiziji。dangyiduanganqingzoudaopibeibukandebianyan，womenwangwanghuifajue，duanlianshiyizhongjietuo。duanlianbudanshizishen，qishishiweilelingyifang，rangtamenyoushineikongjianquchengzhang、tanxunzijideaiqing，tamenzhijianbuhuizaibicilianlei，shifangchulaibicizhijiandezhigu。

　　分手，担心无情

　　erfenshouzegengweijieshu，tadaibiaozhezheifenganqingzaoyiwufajixuxialai。fenshoubudandanshilianggerenzhijiandexiaochu，gengshiyizhongxinlingshenchudegeduan。zaifenshoudeyishunjian，renmenchangchangbeiaohuihetongkutunmei，xunwenzijishibushizuochulezhengquedejueding。danshi，buguanwomenzenyangzhengzhahedanxin，fenshoudedamenyijingdakai，womennengzuodejiushijieshouxianshi，wangjiguoqu，xiangqiantuijin。

　　道别，寻觅新的起点

　　bulunshiduanlianhuoshifenshou，tadoudaibiaozheyizhongwanbihedaobie。dajiazaigaobiedeqiantixia，tongyangzaiyinranxindeqidai，dajianenggouquzaicichajueziji，xunmixindeshenghuoqishidian。zheigeguochengshijiankude，tongkude，danyeshibixude。duanlianhefenshoujinguanzengtianlewaishangheshiwang，queyeyiweizhefenleizhenglihezhongjian。

　　从断联到分手，独立成长

　　duanlianhefenshou，jiushiwomenaiqingshenghuozhongtongkuyouhentuibiandeyibufen。zailianggedoubuzaisishoudeyike，dajiayeyaodongdeyigerenmianduishenghuodekaoyan，dulichengzhang。duanlianhefenshoubingbushiwomenzijidebuchenggong，fanershijiwomendailailexindejiyuhegailv。genjuduanlianhefenshou，womenkeyizhongxinshenshizijideyaoqiuhejiazhiguannian，xunzhaozhenzhengshihezijideganqinghexingfukuaile。

　　断联和分手的区剔，改变的机遇

　　wulunshixuanzeduanlianhuoshifenshou，tamenshigaibiandejiyu，jiushiwomenzaicizhenshiziwohezhongxinshenghuodejihui。genjuduanlian，dajiakeyibaituoguoqudeheiying，zhongxinlejiehezhuangdaziji；genjufenshou，womennengshifangchulaishouyueshudeneixin，zhuixungengzhenshihexingfukuailedeshenghuo。zheiyiguochengjinguantongku，danqueshishiwomenchengzhangdebijingzhilu。

　　duanlianhefenshoudequti，zuizhong，wulunxuanzeduanlianhuoshifenshou，douxuyaowomenyingyongjieshouxianshi，jianchibuxiebaituotongku，jieshouxindegailv。suiranqubieduanlianhefenshouyoushihoujubuweijian，danwomentongguoshiduxingdetiaoxuan，zaitongkuzhongtansuoxindeqidai，zaicixunmixingfudeshenghuo。