老公家暴导致离婚，孩子判给谁?

　　bangongshilianqingzenmefenshou，dangbangongshilianqingzaoyufenshoushi，qinmideguanxibangongshichangjingyixiazibiandenankanerfanza。fenlidequedingxuyaoshenzhongsisuo，yifangsunhaibicizhijianhegongzuohuanjing。henmingquedehezuoshizhongyao，tanchengdibiaodaganshouyijixuyao，lijieduifangdejuece。xunqiuzhuanyexiezhuyekeyiyouxiaodezhangkongqingxuheshifangyali。zuizhuyaodeshiweichizhiyeleixinggengjiachengshudexintai，bimianercishanghaijingyingtuanduiguanxijigerenxinyu。bangongshilianqingfenshoubixulixingertimiandifenshoufangfa，zuihoushishuangfangkeyiyouyidijixushangban。

　　维持专业，解决分手事项

　　bangongshilianqingzenmefenshou，bangongshilianqingshiyibashuangrenjian，dangfenshoubianchengjinyibudexuanzeshi，zenyangbaochizhuanyebingtuoshanchuzhifenshoushixiangchengweiguanjian。zuixian，baozhengfenshoudejueceshijingguoshenzhongkaolvde，binghuxiangzhenchengbiaodazijideganshouyijixuyao。fangzhiwumie、pipinghezhengzhishibaozhangjiankanggongzuohuanjingdejiben。quelihuajiexian，zhichangshenghuohegerenganqingbixufenlichulai，lijieduifangdesimikongjian，quebaozaigongzuochanghetantaobenrenguanxinanti。

　　引导工作关系彻底改变

　　fenshouhou，wubijiaoyuyindaogongsibangongshiguanxidechedigaibian。heduifangjinxingyiduiyidejiaotan，mingqueshuangfangqidaicongjinyihougongzuoguanxishisha。shifouyoubiyaoweichihuligongying，yekeyixuanzelakaijuli，douyaolijieduifangdejuece。baozhenggoutongshunchang，jianshaobubiyaodegangahejinpogan，zheiyouliyuxiufubangongzhixuhezhuanzhuli。

　　寻求友军，获得适用

　　zaifenshoudeguochengdangzhong，xunqiupengyouhuotongshimendeshiyongshihenzhongyaode。fenxiangganshou、tingqujianyi，rangtamenlejiezijidechujing，nengjianqingxinliyali。qingtanshiyaobuyaoguodumaiyuanhuotaolunxiaojiqingxu，fanershixunqiujijizhudongfankuihejiejuefangan。youxierenjiyuninengliangyugulijiangshizhenggefenshouquanguochenggengrongyijiejue。

　　维持职场形象，不受影响工作效能

　　jibianfenshoushibai，yidingyaobaochizhichangxingxiang，bingzaigongzuoshangzhanshichuzhuanyexintai。wulunshikeshoushangbanshijian，weichigaoxiaohua，huoshijijikaizhantuanduixiezuo，quanshizhanxianzhuanyesuyangdeguanjianhuanjie。bunengranggerenqingxuduiyugongzuochanshengbuliyingxiang，yimianpohuaigongzuozhongguanxibingyingxiangzijidegongzuofazhanqushi。

　　寻求专业协助，管理方法精神压力

　　yingduifenshoudeqingganyaliheduoyuanxing，xunqiuzhuanyexinlishudaohuozixunyoukenengshiyigehaodexuanze。zhuanyerenyuannenggoutigongyouxiaofangshilaiguanliqingxuyuyali，bangzhuzijigenghaodiyingduifenshouchanshengdeyingxiang。tamenhaikeyitigongdalizhichihejutizhidao，bangzhuzijifujianzixinxin，xiufushenxinjiankang。

　　关爱自己，向前走

　　bangongshilianqingzenmefenshou，fenshoujinguantongchu，keshiguanaizijishizuiguanjiande。huajinglizhishang，ziwodiaozheng，zaicifazhanqushigerenxingquaihaohejiaojiquan。jianchibuxielianghaodeshenghuoxiguan，jiaqiangduanlian，weichilianghaodexintai。bunengrangyiduanbangongshilianqingchedijieshuweihaidaowomendezongtirenshengdaolu。xiangxinshijianhuiyiwang，ninengzaiciyinglaixindejiyuyuxingfu。