情感咨询师：不想离婚怎么挽回老公

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，youshihouwomenhuiyinweiwuyihuoyouyideyanyuhexingwei，shanghaidaolingyibandexin，tebieshiduiwomendelaogong。neime，buxianglihunzenmewanhuilaogong？zaiwomenrenshidaozijidexingweiyijingranglaogongshoushangshi，womengairuhewanhuitadexinni?xialieliudianshiyigegaoxiaodezhidaokuangjia，bangzhunijiejuewentibingwanhuinidezhangfu。

　　一、保持冷静，分析问题

　　dangnilejietamendexingweiyijingshanghaidaolaogongdexin，shouxianyaobaochilengjing。bunengyouyuzijideguocuoerbiandeqingxuhuahuobengkui。qici，nixuyaorenzhenfenxiwentidegenyuan，sikaoweihetamendexingweihuiduilaogongzaochengweihai。zhiyouzhaodaowentidegenyuan，cainengyouzhenduixingdijiejuewenti。

　　二、诚恳道歉，悔过自新

　　xianglaogongchengkendidaoqian，biaodazijidehuiyihejuexingaibian。jiarunidexingweijilaogongzengtianleshizhishangdesunhai，nixuyaorenzhenduidai，gentabiaomingnideqianyi，bingchengnuoyihouhuijiuzheng。tongshi，niyexuyaozhanxianchuzijidejuexinhexingdong，ranglaogongkandaonidezhenxinyunuli。

　　三、尊重老公，防止逼迫

　　zaiwanhuilaogongdeguochengzhong，xuyaozunzhonglaogongdexiangfahepanduan。buyaoyinweizijidexuyaoerbipolaogongjieshouziji。tongshi，yewufatongguochengnuohuoweixielaidadaozijidemude。zheiyangdexingweihuiyanzhongpohuaifuqiganqing，zaochengwufamibu。

　　四、改变自己，提升价值

　　weilefangbianxiyinlaogong，nixuyaogaibianzishendequedian，tishengzijidejiazhi。zheibaokuowaizaixingxiang、neizaisuyangherenjijiaowangdengfangmian。tongguobuduandixuexiheduanlian，rangzijibiandegengjiachuseyuyouxiyinli。weiyouruci，cainengranglaogongzhongxinrenshini，zaiciduinichanshengxingqu。

　　五、借助外部力量，协助解决问题

　　youshihou，fuqizhijiandefenqixuyaotongguowaibulilianglaibangzhujiejue。keyixunqiuqinyoudexiezhu，huoshixunqiuzhuanyexinlizixunshidezhidao。tongguozhuanyerenshidexiezhu，rangwentidedaogengtuoshandechuli。

　　六、持续关心，温暖他的心

　　buxianglihunzenmewanhuilaogong？zaiwanhuilaogongdeguochengzhong，xuyaochixudiguanxinta，wennuantadexin。budanyaoyongyancibiaodazijideguanxin，gengyingyongxingdongzhengmingzijizhenxin。tongshi，yexuyaojitachongzudeshijianhekongjianqusikaohelizhi。tongguozhangjiudeguanxinyuwennuan，ranglaogongganshoudaonideaihezhongyaoxing，jinerzhudonghuijia。