监视你身边的他是否拥有好男人的特质？

　　fenshouhounanrenduojiuhuizhaonifuhe？zheiyeshihenduonvxingpengyouxinzhongdeyiwen。fenshouhoudenanren，yexuhuiyouyusangshierxiangnian，danfuhedeshijianduanquebuqueding。youyumeigerendouyoubutongdechulifangfa，youdehaihuimashangzhuixunfuhe，eryouxiezebixuhenzhangdeshijianlaisikaoyufazhan。zhongdianzaiyubicizhijiandeqingxufazhanyugerentisheng，jinyoudangshijian、zuoshitaiduyuanfenmiqiepeiheshi，fenshouhoudenanrencaikenengjijixunqiufuhe。danbulunshenmeshihou，douyingbaochizhudanduyuzizun，buyaotuoyanqitarenqueding，fanershizhiliyutishengzijihexingfukuailedetanxun。

　　fenshouhounanrenduojiuhuizhaonifuhe？

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　　1. 断断续续联络时断时续的情绪纠缠不清

　　zaifenshouhou，nanrenkenengjiaqiangyuqianrendeduanduanxuxulianluo。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fuhedeshijianhuixiangduijiaokuai。genjubaochilianluo，nanrennenggougenghaodelejieqianrendebianhuahetamenzhijiandeguanxishifoucunzaizhongfanzhiqiandehenyoukeneng。

　　2. 个人反思与成长自我反省的复合机遇

　　youshihou，fenkaijinanrenyigejihui，rangtamensikaoguoqudebuzhengquehekunhuo。zheiyiguochenghenyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijian，youyunanrenbixuziwotishenghegerentisheng。dangtamenganjuexiangduichengshubingzhunbeihaoyingduiyiqianwentishi，takenenghuijijixunqiufuhe。

　　3. 新的恋爱亲身经历以另一段感情断开的复合

　　dangnanrenjinglileyiduanxindelianaiguanxihou，takenenghuiyishidaoleqianrenzaitamenxinzhongdezhongyaodiwei。zheishihou，takenenghuijijixunqiufuhe，bingyishidaoleqianrenjiushitamenzhendexiangyaohezhenxideren。

　　4. 沟通协商与理解复建沟通交流的机会

　　jiarufenshouyuanyinshigoutongbudaoweihuozhengzhijingchang，nanrenkenengyunyongfenlideshijianqusikaoyugaijinzheiyangdeqingkuang。yidantamenhuijuedezuishihedejihuilailin，takenenghuichangshijijixunqiufuhe，yifujiangoutongjiaoliubingchuliyiqiancunzaidebuzu。

　　5. 共通的目标和思想追寻一同目标的机会

　　jiarufenshouhounanrenheqianrenrengranyouzhegongtongdemubiaohesixiang，tamenhuoxuhuizaiweilaiyiqiwanchengzheizhongmubiaodejihuishangzhongxinranqiqidai。zheishihou，nanrenkenengjijixunqiufuhe，yizaiciyitongzhuizhumengxianghejianligenghaodemingtian。

　　fenshouhounanrenduojiuhuizhaonifuhe，huizong：fenshouhounanrenhuibuhuijijixunqiufuhezaiyuduozhongyinsu，baohanduanduanxuxulianluo、gerenfansiyuchengzhang、xindelianaiqinshenjingli、goutongxieshangyulijie，jiqigongtongdemubiaohesixiang。jilao，zheixiezhishiyixiekenengxingdezhuangkuang，meigerendeqingkuangquanshiyuzhongbutongde。dengdainanrenjijixunqiufuhedeqiantixia，yeyaoguanzhuzijichengzhangyuxingfu，buyaobafuhezuoweiweiyidemubiao，fanershizhiliyutigaoziji，tanxunzhenzhenzhengzhengshuyuzijidexingfu。