试着谈恋爱经常做这些事，你们会越来越幸福

　　duixiangxianqizijitailuosuofenshou，zaiyiduanganqingzhong，mubiaoxianqizijitailaotaoerxuanzefenshou，zheihaoxiangjiqirangrenwanxi。yexu，woyanciyizhiguodurongza，nengrangduifangnanyirenshouchenmowuyanyujianjieqingxin。yexu，wozongxuxutaotao，nengrangduifanggandaoyanfanhepibei。buguanyinsuzenyang，zheiyifenshouquedingdourangwomingbaile，youshi，dajiayidingyaozhaodaojunheng，dongdeyongzijidehuachuandizhenshideganshou，buhuizairangdandiaodeyujutunmeizhenchengdeqinggan。

　　阻拦爱情：少说话多做事

　　duixiangxianqizijitailuosuofenshou，zaiaiqingdeshijiezhong，womenchangshuo“hezuoshizhongyao”。danshi，youshi，goutongjiaoliuyekenengchengweiyiduanlianqingdefenjiezhe。tebieshidangyigerenzaiqinggangoutongzhongguodulaotao，lingyifangyexuhuizaochengzhiyejuandai，naizhitiaoxuanfenshou。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womenbixuyaosisuo：weishenmemubiaoxianqizijitailaotaoerfangqiaiqing？

　　暖心情话成恶虎，絮絮叨叨讨人嫌

　　yiqian，woduilianrenkankanertandiqingtuqingyi，juedezheishibiaoshuzhenshitiyandexingshi。danshi，manmandi，wofaxiantazhujianduiwoyimeizhicizaochengyanjuan，naizhixianqi。wobuyoudesikao，nandaowoguodulaotaolemeiyou？wokaishimingbai，aiqingxuyaoyongxinquhehu，danyanyuquexuyaokongzhi，buran，tamenjianghuichengweisunhaiaiqingdejianzhaehu。

　　思维的快乐：会话必须悦耳的和睦

　　wojianjianganwudao，heairengoutongjiaoliubingbuzhishishuotaxiangshuode，fanershiyaozhaodaobicizhijianzhijiandemoqihehemu。guodulaotaodebiaodafangshihenyoukenengshiduifangjingshenpibei，naizhirangtamenduihuatitaolunzaochengyanfangan。yiner，shidudibaoliuyixiesiweideshineikongjian，caozongzijideciyu，ranghuihuabiandeyuelaiyuedongting。

　　言语的显摆：自我表现的乱用

　　youshihou，guoduoyancihenyoukenenglingrenbazhuyilizhuanweiyancizishen，erhushilezhenshiqinggan。guodulaotaodebiaodafangshihenyoukenengbeishiweiyizhongxianbaigerenxingwei，nengrangduifangzaochengpibeihedichu。dajiaxuyaoxuehuiyizhizhuzijidebulizhi，yongjianjieerzhenshiyuyanbiaodachuandineixinshenchudeqinggan，cainengrangaiqinggengweidanchunyumeihao。

　　情感的实际：倾听是爱的表达方式

　　zaiwomenhuozaizijideyancilishi，henrongyihulveleqingtingdezhongyaoxing。guodulaotaodebiaodafangshitongchangnengrangduifangjuedebeihulve，naizhiyanfan。yexu，lingtingduifangdexuqiu，weitamentigongbiaodachulaideshineikongjian，caishiyigelejieheguanaidebiaodafangshi。zaidapojiangjudeyike，shiwomenshizheyongjianjieerzhenzhideyuyanbiaoda，bicizhijianlingting，caikeyirangaiqingpengboshengzhang。

　　沉默能量：言多必乱

　　zaiyiduanganqingzhong，shishidichenmowuyanqishibiyanyugengrongyichuansongqinggan。zaiwomenguodulaotaoshi，duifangkenengjuedebeiyanmeierwufazhenzhengtingjianzijidexinlingxiangsheng。yuqishuorongzabiaodachu，buruyongjianduanjuzi，bazuizhenzhideqingganchuandachulai。chenmowuyanbingbudengyuwuyin，gengshiweilejibicigengqinsikaohehuifudeshineikongjian，zuizhongrangaiqinggengjiajianguhezhangyuan。

　　伸展描述：从唠叨中吸取教训

　　duixiangxianqizijitailuosuofenshou，fenshou，shiyouyumubiaoxianqizijitailaotao。zheiyijielushenhou，dajiaxuyaohaohaoshenshizijiyancihebiaodaxingshi。aiqingbixuqianxujinshen，yongjianjieerchengzhideyuyanbiaodaneixinshenchudeqinggan，zailingtinghejiaoliuzhijianzhaodaojunheng。weiyouruci，womencainengzaiaiqingwutaishang，huodezhangjiuertianmeideguoshi。