花镇情感咨询：如何对付男人的冷暴力？

　　fenshouhouweishenmeyaochuangzaojianmiandejihui？suiranfenshouchanshengdeshangtongrangrentongkubukan，danchuangzaojianmiandejihuiqueyouzhezhongyaodeyiyi。genjujianmian，womenkeyibicizhijiansushuoxinshi，qingchuwuhui，zhongxinsikaocongqiandenanti。zheileigoutongjiaoliuheduihuanengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejielingyifang，zhaodaoshangxindeaiyuxinren。yucitongshi，jianmianhainenggoujiwomentigongjihuiqupingguzijideqingxufanying，congguoqudetongchuzhongjiefangchulai，weiweilaishenghuochongfenzhunbei。fenshouhouchuangzaojianmiandejihui，daibiaozheyoujihuixiubupoliedeguanlian，zaicifuwuchengnuobicizhijian，zaojiuyiduangengjiajianguhechengshudeaiqing。

　　复建情感联结，连接未来很有可能

　　fenshouhouweishenmeyaochuangzaojianmiandejihui，fenshoushiyiduanganqinggushilidetongkuerzaisuonanmianyibufen，danshi，fenshouhouchuangzaojianmiandejihuiweiwomendailaileyigefujianqingganlianjie、zhongxinshenshihelianjieweilaibuquedingxingdejihui。

　　解除误会，清除误会

　　fenshouyebansuizhetongchuhebujie，danshitongguochuangzaojianmiandejihui，womenhuiyoujihuiqingtuneixinshenchudezhenshitiyan，jiechuwuhui，zhudonggoutong，qingchuxianghuzhijiandewuhui，jinerweifujianguanliandaxiajichu。

　　面对过去，学会放下痛苦

　　jianmiandejihuiyerangdajiayoujihuimianduiguoqu，mianduitongku。genjulingtingbicizhijiangushi，womenkeyigenghaodilejiebierendeganshouhedongyin，bangwomennenggougenghaodiwangjiguoqudeshangtong，qingchuneixinshenchudexiaojiqingxu，wanchengqingganshangdezhiyuhezhengzhigaige。

　　重新思考关联，彻底改变爱

　　fenshouhoudejianmian，bujinrangwomenyoujihuizhongxinsikaoyiqiandeguanlian，yucitongshiyejilewomenchedigaibianaiqingdejihui。womenkeyifansiyuzongjieguoqudejingli，fajuebicizhijiandeyoushihebuzu，jianbiewentidebenzhi，jinerzaicongtoukaishidaolushanggengqiadangdixiangqian。

　　自我提升，提高情绪聪慧

　　chuangzaofenshouhoujianmiandejihui，bingqieyeweiwomendailaileyigeziwotishenghetigaoqingxuyouzhihuidejihui。womenkeyigenjuheduifangdeduitanyujiaoliu，renshizijizaifenshoulidewentiheguoshi，shenshizijigerenxingwei，gaishanzijideqingxuyuyanbiaodanengli，bingzaiweilaiganqingshenghuozhongzuochujijizhudongdegenggai。

　　修复关系，重建信任

　　jianmiandejihuiyeweiwomendailailexiufuguanxi、zhongjianxinrendejihui。zaimianduimiandejiaoliuzhong，womenkeyitanchengdibiaoshuxinlidexiangfahetihui，tongguogoutonghetuoxie，zhongxinjianlixinrenjichu，weiguanlianjinhoudefazhandaxiajianshidejichu。

　　再次服务承诺，完成深层次的爱

　　chuangzaofenshouhoujianmiandejihui，yeweiwomendailailezaicifuwuchengnuo、wanchengshencengcideaiqingdejihui。genjufansiguoqucuowuyubuzu，womenkeyigongtongfendoujiuzheng，zaiciquelibicizhijiandeqidaiyuxuqiu，bingqieweichuangjiangengjiankang、laogudehunlianguanxierfendou。

　　fenshouhouweishenmeyaochuangzaojianmiandejihui，zongeryanzhi，fenshouhouchuangzaojianmiandejihuizhenduifujianqingganlianjie、qingchuwuhui，mianduiguoqu、chedigaibianai，ziwotishenghexiufuguanxi，zhongjianxinren，wanchengshencengcideaidengfangmianjunjuyoushifenzhongyaodeyiyi。tongguozheizhongjianmian，womenkeyiweifenshouchanshengdeshangtongxunzhaojiejuefangfa，jingyanjiaoxunyujingyanbangwomennenggougenghaodimianduitiaozhanyuaiqing。