爱情中4个错误观念容易让女人爱的太辛苦

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　　fenshouhouhaipapengyouquanwuyin

　　丧失共同语言，心中无借助

　　fenkaishiyiduanganqingdejieshu，cihouqiannanyoubianchengluren，yiqianchuangjiandezhuduolianluoyemanmanxiaohaodaijin。pengyouquanjiushiwomenfenxiangrichang、kuaileyuqinggandequdao，erfenshouhou，dajiazuihaipadejiushipengyouquanyuelaiyueqiaowushengxi。womencengweilepaisheyizhanggengyouyiyideheyingerhuijuebiedefangan，dajiacengjingweilewenzibiaoshuxinliqingganerfanfuxiugai。danshi，fenshouhou，dajiazhonghuisangshigongtongyuyan，xinlishiquleyanyudejiezhu。pengyouquanbufa，zhiyoubazheifenwuyinyutongkushenmaizangzaixindi。

　　放纵自己的肯定，寻觅点赞的宽慰

　　pengyouquanbujinshiwomenzhanxianziworichangshenghuochuangkou，doushipingdingziwoyigebiaozhun。zaiwomengenqianrenfenshouhou，pengyouquandedianzanhepinglunyejinyibujianshao，nikenenghuiyiduhuaiyizijidemeiliyujiazhi。dajiahaipapengyouquanbufa，youyuzhiliyutongguoguanzhudianzan、heliuyanguanzhulaidedaorenke，congerrangzijiganjueyouyueganhexinxin。danshixianshihencanku，fenshouhou，benlairenshengdingfeidepengyouquanyuelaiyuexiaotiao，womenbuzaihuodebierendeguanzhuzancheng，danzheizhongfangzongzijidekendingshiwomenshenganmituhedanyou。

　　丧失内心的共鸣，挣脱于情感茫然

　　pengyouquanshihuxiangqingsudequdao，womenkeyifenxiangzijisuoyouxinuaile，nenggoushushuoneixinshenchudejiujiehemangran。danfenshouhou，pengyouquanbufa，dajiashiqubiaoshuqinggandetujing，shiqulexunzhaobierenzhichihegulidehaojihui。dajiazhengtuoyuqingganmangran，quenanyibiaoda，zhinengbaxinlidekuchuyizhimaizangzhe。bingmeiyoupengyouquandegongminghelejie，renmenchangchangbuqingchuqinggannantigaizenmejiejue，xinlidefannaohefanzayeyuelaiyuefanzahejuewang。

　　寻找新的归处，重新定义自身

　　fenshouhouzuipapengyouquanbufa，danshiyekeyiconglingyifangmianduidai。zaiwomenkaishizhongxinzhaodaoxindeguichu，zhongxindingyizishen，pengyouquanbufafandaoshiyigejiyu。womenkeyizhuanzhuzijidechengzhanghefazhan，buhuizaibeibierendepingdingyuqidaisuoyingxiang。womenkeyichangshixindexihao、jieshixinpengyou，zaicigoujianqishuyuzijijiaojiquan。danneixiezhenxinshiyiguanxinzhichidepengyoumen，haihuizaidajiazhongxindingyizishenyihou，yuanyiyuwomengongtongchengzhanghefenxiangrichang。pengyouquanbufa，bingbuyiweizhewomenderichangshenghuozhibubuqian，fanershijiwomenzhongxinkaishidehaojihui。

　　fenshouhouzuipapengyouquanbufa，buguanfenshouhoupengyouquanshibushifa，dajiawufamomieguoqudezhuiyi，danwomenkeyitiaoxuanzenmemianduihebaituotongku。pengyouquanbufabingbudaibiaowomenjijiangxiaoshibujian，fanershijiwomenzhongxinchajueziji、zhongxindingyirichangshenghuo、zhongxinsuzaogerenxingxiangdehaojihui。shiwomenbuyaozaidanxinpengyouquandekongdangdang，ershiyizheiyifenningjinghegudan，dakaishuyuzijixindepianzhang。