和已婚男同事暧昧一年了，我该争取已经离婚的他吗？

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　　fenshouhouzaoshoubuduangenzong，bixucongrongyingdui

　　掌握现实状况

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　　法律援助中心与警报器

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　　采用安全防范措施

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　　寻求亲朋好友支持

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　　心理疏导与防范意识

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　　与跟踪者深度沟通？

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　　积极主动创建美好生活

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　　fenshouhouyizhibeigenzongzenmeban，suiranfenshouhoubeibuduangenzongshiyizhongtongkudejingli，danshitongguocaiqujijixingdong，quebaozijideanquanyuyinsi，zhongjiuhuikeyijiejuezheiyikunhuo。zuizhongyaodeshi，yaojizhuninyouzhipeiquanbaohuziji，xunqiufalvyuanzhuzhongxinhezhichi，bingshizhongqinfenweihuzijianquanyushenxinjiankang。