面对外遇，我们应该如何看待？

 mianduiwaiyu，womenyinggairuhekandai？zaiwaiyuzaoyibianchengchangtaihuadejinri，buguannanrennvrendoutaobutuozheiyiyinyou。bingbushixiangchuantongdingyishangjuededeneiban：lanqingshinanxingdezhuanliquan、waiyushinanxingdexingwei。shujudiaochabaogao，hunyinshenghuonvxingdewaiyuzhanbibubinanshengdi。

你的婚姻生活遭遇外遇的悲剧，你如何想呢?

 congshehuixintaixueshangeryan，nizenyangkandaizhixiqinshuwaiyuzheijianshiqing，juecelenidetihui，juecenikenengcaiyongnaxiedefangfancuoshi。huanjuhuashuo，niyongyounaxiedexinxin，jianglijizaochengdajiahunyinshenghuodemaixiang。

 jiarunijiangzhixiqinshudewaiyushizuopanbian，neimazheileixinxinshenhou，shishishangjiuyanzangleyizhongqianzaixingyishi——zhixiqinshushishuyunide，dajiacunyouzhucongguanxi，yincicaisuanshipanbian。shubuzhi，buguancongshehuixintaixuehuanshicongfalvxueshangmianmeiyoumingwenguidinghunyinshenghuoshizhucongguanxi，erdaliangdenannvliangxingderonghe。hunyinshenghuoshouyuxianghudedaliangdeshiyizhongxiezuo、gongxiangdezhipeiquanerbingbushilishudezhipeiquan。yiner，yongyouzheileixinxinderen，kandaizhixiqinshudewaiyuxintaijiuhaoxiangzishendaizideqianbeiquzoushiyiyangde。

如何理性看待外遇

 jiarunijiangzhixiqinshudewaiyujiangjiecheng“tabuaiwole”，neimaneiyangdexinxinshenhouyeyiyangyanzangshangxuzigezhengshudejiashe——tazhiyoushuoaiwoyigeren，dajiazhongjianshiyizhongfeibijici，huoshi“quanhuowu”deguanlian。youzheileixiangfaderen，pengdaozhixiqinshuwaiyudezhuangkuangdiyifanyingbianshi“tiantale”!naizhihaihuijixujinyibudexiangdaodaolingyifangzhiqianduizishendeaiquanshimengpian，huiwanquandefoudingyiqie，bukeyikeguanxingdeduidaixianjieduandeqingjing。shijishang，henduorendouqingxibuhuiyoushuobailede“shizhong”，danyiranbamuguangfangdaobumingdejianglai。

 zhixiqinshuwaiyujinguanlingrenjuedefushang，keshizhishangfeilixingxingweidexinxingengjiazhonglezheileitongchu。yinerwulunjiexiaqushiwanbihunyinshenghuohuanshiwanhuihunyin，feilixingxingweidexinxinduiyaocaiyongdexingdongquanshibuhaode。yongyouneibandexinxin，bianhuilingrenshenxianziwofouding、shenxian“shouhairen”dexintaizhuangtaifangshi，chukaiwaiyuexingshijianzishendetongchu，biedeshihoudetongchuquanshizishenewaishanglaide。huanjuhuashuo，luojisiweihuoshixinxincaisuanshitongchudegenbenyuanyin。