面对老公婚后出轨，妻子怎么拯救婚姻？

 chuguidehunyinjishiwanhuichenggongyezengjialehenduokaoyan，youqishixinrenweiji，xiangyaozhengjiuhunyinzuiguanjiandehaiyaozhenzhengjiejuehunhouchuguidailaidewenti。

1、接纳客观事实

 yaoxianghelidiwanhuichuguidehunyin，xiufuhunyinshenghuo，zuixianyaoguozishendexintaizhuangtaizheiyiguan，zhongjiuairenshixinshenwaiyu，erbushidanshixintaichugui，weifanlehunyinshenghuoyuanzexingwentibingbushizhengyizhiyanbiyizhiyanjiunengsuibianhulvede。

 yinci，yaochixudezaixinliquanjiezishen，zhengquerenshilaogongyouwaiyudekeguanshishi，suihoulizhidekaolv，pouxiliyubi，jianjuedezuochujuece，shibushiyaoquwanliuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。

2、学会放下怨气，解决困难

 hunhouchuguibingfeiwujizhitan，haowuyiwenyoutawaiyudeyuanyin，shiairenlanqing，huanshizainideshenshangwufadedaoxiangduixingyingdekaolv，zheizhongzhuangkuangnidouwubiyaobawodao。zhinengxunzhaoweihaidajiaguanxidezhengjiesuozai，caikeyimudexingdekaizhanzhengjiu，caikeyicongyuantoushangzhenshichulidajiazhongjiandenanti，fangzhiyicuozaicuo。

3、提高自己

 yibiandiaozhengshifangyalizishendeqingxu，zuochuxuanzehoujiuqianwanbiexiangdetaiduo，nixuyaobayanguangfangjintigaozijideshenshang，yaozhongshizishenyibiaomei，congchuanyidapeicaizhuangdengxiashou，quanfangweitigaozijibingguanlifangfahaozishendexingxiangqizhi。

 yaojiangdiduiairendexuqiugan，xuehaoguanzhuzishen，tishenggerenjiazhi，jiangzishenderenqizhitigaodaoyigexindeshuizhun，rangairenjuededaonidezhuanbian，yerangairenjuededaozaijiazhongzhongdewennuan，dangairenganjuehenizaiyiqishishushideqingkuangshi，wanhuihunyindezongtimubiaoyejiuzuodaole。

 cikeyaoliuyideshi，qiewujiangyanguangdingzaiairendeshenshang，yuefadingzhuairen，zishenneixinhuiyuebushufu。yiner，nikeyiquhuiyanguangkanzishen，congzishendeshenshangzhaoyuangu，xunzhaodecunzaidebuzu，qujiuzheng。

4、复建信赖

针对外遇这类事儿而言，要与爱人复建信赖的确是一件较为难的事儿，可是，也唯有拯救婚姻重建信任，才可以让家中真实重回平静。沒有信赖给相互产生的是心里的难熬，爱人做什么事情都是敏感多疑，心里无法得到平静。