婚姻中发现老公弄出轨女人的自救策略！

 hunyinshenghuozhongdangzaoyulaogongchugui，zuoweishouhaiyifangdangxiayaolengjingmianduideshiruhezaihunyinzhongzijiu，chuguidehunyinshiwanhuihaishifangqiniyaojiehezijideqingkuang，benwenfenxiangyixiezhengjiuhunyindefangfa。

1、转移注意力

 jirancunyou，tazaoyicunyou，jiarubuhuiyou，womenyemeibiyaoshenjingdatiao。zhengjiuhunyinjiaruyouyuzheileinantichafanbusi，neimagankuaitingzhizishendeniantou。

 youyuneiyangxiaochendeniantouhuijinimaixiangyajiankangzhuangtaidelumian，yincizhengliqingxu，zhaodianzishenhenganxingqudeshierzuoba。yexushizishenyiqianhenganxingquyouyujiazhongdanwude，yexuzishenyizhihenganxingququemeidouhaimeizuode。

2、不必当众斥责老公出轨

 dangfaxianlaogongchuguibubiguoduodangzhongtichuzhiyitadegerenxingwei，zhishiyingdangqiaoranwushengdezhengjudiaocha。neiyangjiusuanshimeiyouchachulaitayouwaiyudegerenxingwei，haikeyifangzhixinlaiganyuqinggandehuihuai。

3、好好爱自己不必自甘堕落

 weihunyinshenghuonuliqifenchengzishenbaocunsanfen，bubibushedenanshengchikunailao，niyueguanzhenansheng，nanshengjiuyuefeichangrongyihushini，yuefeichangrongyiwaiyu。

 bubiyibianhunyinshenghuobazijidangzuozhengqiandeshebei，kongchusanfenlaishandaiziji。youkongjian，youzishen，youjiaoaogandenvxing，caigengnengzhangqideyingdenanrendexin。

4、和丈夫当众做有效沟通

 goutongjiaoliushinenggoudadacabianqiu，youshihouwenyiwentachangchanggongchuduitayounaxieweihai，shifouhuipanbianzishen。tongguoguanchatadexintai，guanchatadefanying。

 jiedawentishisulvyuelaiyuekuaidenansheng，jiuyuenengbiaomingtaxinlidejiaolvbuan，sanyanliangyufuyanleshizhuanyihuatidenansheng，jianghuineixinjiuyueyougui。

5、注意日常生活丈夫跟你开的玩笑话

 chuguidehunyinzhuyirichangshenghuotagennikaidewanxiaohua。liru，nizaibuhuijiawoyechulaizhaoqingrenle。tongchangnanrenshiyiwanxiaodexintailaiguanchanvxingdefanying，suihouzaijinxingxiayibufangan。

 leixuedejingyanjiaoxungaozhichengqianshangwannvxing，nanshengwanxiaoshuozishenwaiyudeqingkuangxia，shiyoubajiubianshichuguile，yaobubianshishenpangxianyouzhiji，zhidengtazheshoule。

6、提早给自己的未来做准备

 caiyilaogongchuguishi，yingdangtizaojizijideweilaizuozhunbei。jiarunanshengdequewaiyu，danniyeshizhelewanliu，ketadexinqueyiranmeifazhongguijiazhong。

那麼在猜疑他外遇时就刚开始给自己搞好准备，算不上一件错事。女性就应当保持清醒点活著，有时不断宽容外遇男，总是一次次的遗失自身的自尊，最终放纵自己单独的性情，害自身和小孩一生。