结婚后发现老公有外遇怎么办？

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1、接纳客观事实

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2、学会放下憎恨，解决困难

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3、提高自己

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挽回婚姻要留意的是，切勿将眼光盯在爱人的身上，越发盯住爱人，自身内心会越不舒服。因而，你可以取回眼光看自身，从自身的身上找缘故，寻找的存在的不足，去纠正。