老公出轨了怎么办？挽回婚姻的攻略技巧

 laogongchuguilezenmeban？wanhuihunyindegonglvejiqiaohunyinzhongfaxianlaogongchugui，qizidouhuihenmimang，shifangqihunyinhaishiwanhuihunyin？benwenfenxiangjigemianduilaogongyouwaiyudezhengquechulifangfa。

一、找到直接证据

 jiarufajuelaogongyouhunhouchugui，wubiheqinghelidezhaodaolaogongchuguidegezhonggeyangzhijiezhengju。liru：tongxunjilu、luyintonghua、duanyin、suishendaideyifu、qqweixinliaotianjilu、gongzuozhonggongzuozhuangkuangzheixie。shikeyiyongyingxiangjiluzhijiezhengju。neiyangzhenduilaogongeryan，quanshizhimingxingdeyanlidaji。

二、提升自己

 laogongyouhunhouchuguizenmechuli？laopoyexuyaotishengzijideyouhuoli。xuduolaogongyouhunhouchugui，dabufenquanshifuqirichangshenghuobuhexiedaozhide。

 zhenduizishendelaopobumanyi，yibianxunzhaocijixinghekuanwei，yincicaijiaoxingbaituozheiyibu，yinci，zuoweilaopo，wubicongjingshenshizhishangherongmaoshangmianyaozhongshitishengziji。tishengzishendeyouhuoli。

三、立即挑明

 jiarulaogongqueshiyouhunhouchugui，zhaodaozhijiezhengjudelingwai，lijitiaoming，bubirennai，yaoburanbuliangyingxianggengweibijiaoyanzhong，wubiguoduanquanzulaogongchugui，yonggezhonggeyangfangshiquanjiehequanzuzheileigerenxingwei。ranglaogonggaoqingchuwaiyushibixuchengbende。

四、提出要求

 zhenduilaogongwaiyu，jianxinxuduolaopodoumeifajienazheiyishiji。zheishi，wubimingquetichuzishendeguiding，yaobuliyi，zenmelihun，genjufeifashouduanchulizheishi。

要不再次过下来，可是应该怎么办，假如再出現越轨行为，如何去处罚这些，务必下结论。不可以给出轨者过多机遇。