老公出轨怎么办？妻子如何拯救婚姻生活？

 laogongchuguizenmeban？qiziruhezhengjiuhunyinshenghuo？zaihunyinshenghuozhongyudaolaogongchuguibuyaohuang，lixingkandaizheiduanhunyinshijuedingfangqihaishizhengjiuhunyin。ruguoxiangzhengjiuhunyinjiuyaozhidaolaogongyouwaiyuhou，shouxianyaoweizijikaolv，yonggaojiazhidefangfawanhuihunyin。

一、决定是挽回婚姻还是放弃

 shouxianhuiyiyixiataguoquyoumeiyouchugui，zheizhongxingweiyidanchengweixiguan，jiuhennangaidiao，yejuebunengzaifasheng。sheshenchudixiangxiangruguoniyeshizheiyangdeqingkuanghuibuhuichugui。qici，tayoumeiyoujiniyigechengnuo，nizaichuguijiuyaoshoudaoyancheng？

 zuihou，zhengjiuhunyinyaoxiangxiangduifangchuguideyuanyin。tachuguideshihou，nimendeguanxizenmeyang，tayoumeiyougandaoyayihetongku？lingwai，tabiaobaihoudetongkushifoubiniduo，zizedebiaoqingshifouzhencheng？ruguonizuobudaozheiyidian，nijiububijitadiercijihui。

二、给自己留个退路

 nvxinghunhoubixuyouzijidulidegongzuohejingjilaiyuan。bupayiwan，jiupayiqian。wanyiyouyitiannilihunle，nikeyikaozijidenenglichifan，haohaozhaoguzijideshenghuo，buyifuyigenanren。zhiyouzheiyang，nicainengzaihunyinzhongyouyixizhidi，cainengzaiganqingzhongliyububaizhidi，cainengbupananrendefanpan，yinweinishinizuijianqiangdehoudunhekaoshan。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban？zairenhedifang，renheshihou，womendoukenengyudaorangwomenbaiganjiaojideshiqing。womenyanzhongdedashi，zaibierenyanlikenenggenbenbuzhiyiti。

 womenyudaodegezhonggeyangderenheshidoushiwomenchengzhangdejianzheng。zhiyouzhenzhengyudaolexiangyudaoderen，xiangyudaodefengjing，cainengbiandegengqiangda，gengduli。faxianlaogongchuguizenmewanhui？nanrenchuguihou，wulunshixiangfuhehaishixianghaohaoxiangchu，douyaoxianlengjingxialai。

三、了解男人的心理需求

 yinanyinvzaiyiqihenjiule，tamenduishentijiyiyanjuan，meiyouxinxiangan，xinlibianhuabuda，yangchengleyouzerenganheyingduinenglidelaoshijuzhi。

 danshi，mianduixindexingbanlv，nanxinghuijinglijudadexinliheshenglibianhua，huichanshengfengkuangdezhengfuyu，congerdaozhinannvxingfu。suoyi，chuguidenanrenshimeiyounaozide。zheishihouniduilaogongchangkaixinfei，zhenxinshiyidetanyitan，buyaoxinhuairenhepianjianhuofennu，fouzelaogonghennan“biaobai”。

 xinlixuejiagaosuwomen，zhiyouxiangxinbierenshuodeshizhende，bierencainengshizhende。xianzaidenvxinghenlei，zuobudaozheiyidian，yinweitamenzaigongzuoheshenghuozhongyaobanyanhenduojiaose。danshi，weilehuodelianghaodehunyinguanxi，tamenzaishenghuozhongbuyinggaizhizuo“baomu”danglaopo。

在这个角色中，一定要懂得不断给婚姻注入新鲜感，用自己的智慧营造爱的氛围，面对老公出轨要学会用高价值的方法挽回婚姻生活。