成功挽回婚姻的关键是什么？该有怎样的心态？

 chenggongwanhuihunyindeguanjianshishenme？gaiyouzenyangdexintai？zaihunyinzhongzaoyulaogongchuguile，qizixiangwanhuihunyinshenghuo，shouxianyaoyouyigehaodexintai，yixiexiaojijiduandexintaidoubuliyuwanhuilaogong，xiamianwomenyiqilaikan。

一、不要过分憎恨第三者。

 faxianlaogongchuguihou，disanzhebushiweiyiyinggaifuzerendeduixiang，niheairendexiangchufangshichulewenti，caishidisanzheyoulekechengzhiji；nideairenwufadidangwaijiedeyouhuo，yingfuzhuyaozeren；disanzheqinfantarendeganqing，ziranyaoshoudaodaodeshangdeqianze。

 danyaoxiangjiejuewenti，jiubunengzhibachouhendemuguangduizhundisanzhe，ergengyinggaibaochiyikepingchangxin，kankandisanzheshenshangyoushenmedongxizhidezijixuexi。disanzheyangdewenrou、meimao、xueshidengdenghuoxudoushinanrenchuguideyuanyin，yuqizeguaiziji，buruxuexijinbu。

二、不死不休的拉扯丈夫。

 haoxiangtuoguishiyizhongchouma，jishiwanhuileyixierenyehuixiguanxingdejiequshangba。zheizhongxintaishiwufarangzijikuailede，ruguobukuayuezheidaokan，ganqingjiuhuiyizhichuyubupingdengdezhuangtai。

 yaojindeshiwanhuihunyinjiqiao，disanzhedechuxianhuoqitadehunyinwenti，doubiaomingganqingxuyaozhuanhuanxiangchumoshi。zhiyaozhengshizheigewenti，yeleyucongzijishenshangzhaodaozhengjie，jiuhuimingbaiduifangchuguiqishibingbuquanshitadecuo。xuexibaorongyulijie，duishuangfangdouyouli。

三、不要自暴自弃。

 lianrenchuguihuirangrenganjuezijibeiyiqi，henduonvxingzaizheizhongdajixiazhujianduoluo，renweizijishiqulebeiaidequanli。shishishangqiaqiaxiangfan，laogongchugui，shuomingnizanshichuyuyizhongquefaxiyinlidezhuangtai，conglingyigejiaodulaishuo，nidetishengkongjianzhengchuyuzhi。

此时要做的就是努力做到自我提升，从内到外改造自己。挽回老公不要因为一次失败就放弃自己的魅力，不要因为一个男人的负心就放弃自己的人生。迷人的女人比美丽的女人更有吸引力，努力培养自己的性情，使自己有权得到幸福。