男人变心，女的需要如何开始找回对方

 youdepengyoujiehunhouhaibushangqinian，jiuzaojiuyouqinianzhiyangle。nanshengzhenduimeiyoushenmigandelaopozaojiuyanfan，nanrenbianxinchizhewanlichouzheguozhongde，genbiededenvxingaimeibuqing。xiangwanhuilaogongwanhuihunyin，niwubibawoyidingdefangfa。aiqingshishenmeyangdenvxingneiyangzuo，wanhuilaogongchenggonglvjiaogaoda95%。jiaruniyijingweizenyangwanjiuhunyinsuoraonao，dianjizheyidinghuiduiniyouyidingdexiezhu。

一、终止低贱的行为

 xiangwanhuilaogongnenggou，danbukeyidijiandiwanhui。leiliuchenghe、qianxinwankujiuchanbuqing、yiaiweimingdeshengzilaikunfuta，laoxiangbatalaolaodizhuaizhu。zaicijiuchanbuqingxialai，zheiduizishenyouyime?nijinjinzaixiaohaozishendeqingchunnianshaobale。nidedijianwanhui，yiweizhezhegaoyaoqiu，zheizhengshinideshiyongjiazhizaoyijidi，xiangwanliuquebururenyi。

 qingzhongzhizheixierangzishenkanqilaidijiandexingwei。xiangwanhuilaogong，bibushangjiuxiansongdiaozishendeshou，baguishuyutadesuiyiguihaita。jiarubeinizhuaidelaolaodide，tanengzouduoyuan?yuefaaita，yuefayaofangkaishou，bubituonanshenghoujiao。bujitamenjiban，bubianchengtadefulei，tadangranhuigaoqingchuniduitashizhenzhengdeaiqing，erbushijiuchanbuqing。

二、别再去损害他

 gennanshengfenlihou，bubisichusanbuyouguannanpengyoudeshuoxianhua，jiemitade“zuixing”，maiyuantadejueqing。nanrenbianxinnineiyangzuozhenshibianshipofu，zhiyourangzishenkanqilaiyufakeling，rangshenpangzheixietingnixuanxiederen，juedenijiushixinshidaidexianglinsao，lingrenganjuetapaoxialenifandaoshiyizhongmingzhidexuanze。

 jiaruniyaoxiangwanhuilaogong，neimejiubiaomingtashiyigefeichangzhidenilaizuiaideren。biebaquanbudeguoshidoutuidaolingyifangdedeshenshang，nijuedeneiyangnenggouhuanjiezishendetongkuma?zheishijishangbianshizaimengpianzishen，buyuanyiquyingduiyuanbenhaibucuodenansheng。jinyouxuehaorenkezishendebuzhengque、mingbaiqushangxinansheng，jibian nanshengfancuowuyekeyiqianjiuhebaorong，nicaikeyijiejuexinlidezenghen，qingchutongteng。

三、写不正确法

 henxihuanyijuhua：quanbudenanti，shijishangquanshinizishendenanti。yanliyoushi，kantarenbianshishi，xinzhongyoufo，kansheiquanshifo。yiduanqingganchuxianlenanti，nanguaitaren，jiushinizishengongzuonengliyoushenmewenti。weihenipengdaodenansheng，yizhicuoguozheifenai，keqitanvxingquehuizaoshouyongdai?yaoxuehaolejiebenshendebugou，duoxiangcongmingdenvrenxuexipeixun。

 ninengxieyipianzishendebuzhengque。zaiaiqingrijizhong，xiechengzheixiezaocheng lingyifangyanjuandedian，rangzheixienanti，zhuyiyouhuarongjie。duoxuexipeixunyixieyouguandezhuanyezhishi，suihouyixiangxiangdizhaofangfancuoshi，zairichangshenghuozhongkaizhanguancheluoshi。ruguonirenzhen，wanliunanrendehaofangfaxuduo 。niaita，jiuyidingnengxunzhaoganqingdejieduyao。

四、让一切意想不到

dangnanrentingjianshengyinjiulejienishisheiya、tingjiannijianghuajiulejienixiayibuzuoshenmeshi，niduitazaozaoyimeileshenmigan。

 ruguoniyaoxiangwanliuyigenanrenshi，niyinggaiyigaichangtaihua，yiyizhongquanxinshengjidewaimaochuxianzaitadeyanxia。nidefanyinghezhuyaobiaoxianchedichaochutayuliao，tabenyiweininengzaicisipilailian，zaiciyiweideqiufuhexing。aiqingshishenmeyangdenanrenzaichayidelingwaihaihuijixuzaiciduinihaoqixinqilai，yuanlainiyeyouneiyangdeyimian，jiushiwoweicengzhangwode。tongchangcikenanshengbianhuigangkaishitichuzhiyizishendetiaoxuanshifouqueshibudui，shijishangzishenbingbulejieyanxiadezheiyinvxing。