老公有外遇该如何处理？不要太快原谅对方

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 １、bubitaikuaikuanrong，bubiqiqiutahuijia。laogongyouwaiyugairuhechuli？taikuaikuanrongdebuliangyingxiangbianshijilibushiqudenanshengzaicilaogongjingshenchugui，nimeiyoudixiandedebaorongduizhangfudewaiyushiyizhongfangrenhemoren，tahuimingmuzhangdandeganchengyixieshinimudengkoudaideshierlai。

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 ２、wubiyouyidingdegoutongjiaoliu。zhangfulaogongjingshenchugui，zongshihuiyouneimeduoyuanyin，bingbushiguaixifubuzuwenwanbianshiyuanrichangshenghuotaileile，zongeryanzhizhangfumenhuichuxianyiwangeliyoubaifangzaineili，qiewangzizunda。jiusuanshineiyang，niyeyaohezhangfugoutongjiaoliuyixia，biejixiwangyulaogongjingshenchuguidezhangfuhuibeinideyijuhuayingxiang，nijinjinshitagaoqingchubiejiangnidangshaziqipian。dangran，yeshiyouyishaobufenzhangfuhuiyouyidingdeshoulianxing，zhongjiuxifuxiaohairekangtoucaisuanshishengmingzhongdexingfukuailesuoshu。

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 ３、yizhizishendexintai。jiaruniyigujiajiajudezhangfulaogongjingshenchuguiweiyouliyi，henyoukenengnidezhangfuyeyoubierenhuijuedeniwukejiuyao。hunyinshenghuolimeiyougongpinggongzhengketan，pengdaozhangfulaogongjingshenchuguishi，xianyazhizishendexintai，suiranneibanhuinanyi，danjiusuanshizhaoyigejiaoluolixuanxieyebuxusuoyourenjiandao，zhongjiuyigenaonubuji，huoshiyoukuyounaodenvxinghuirangrenherenyanjuande。

 ４、hezhangfuqinrenweiwanjianggaoqingchu。nizhixudagaidebiaomingyixiajiuhaole，zhishaorangzhangfuqinrenlejie，jiarudajiadehunyinshenghuodengliang，neijiushinizhangfudaozhide。jinjinhaijideliuyijutifangfa，bubijiangnideyuanhenxuanxiedaozhangfuqinrendedeshenshang。

 ５、xinlairutongliangrenzhongjiandeqiti，tacunyoudeqingkuangxia，nitongchangmeiyoushenmejuede。eryidanmeiyouta，niyejiuhuishifenbushufu。laogongjingshenchuguiheroutichuguiyiyang，quanshiwaiyu，doushihuicuihuifuqijiandexinlai。meiyouxinlaidehunyinshenghuojiumeiyouxingfukuaileketan，neikenengshishifentongchude。

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