让变心的前男友后悔 如何快速挽回恋人的心？

 dangnanrenchugui，chuguixingweishi，nvxingzenmecainengwanliuqinglvdexin？nanshenghuiyiqingbielianyubiedenvxing，rangbianxindeqiannanyouhouhui，ruguonizishenxiangyaogengxingaizao，zuihoutadexinyiranhuilikainideshenshang。

一．挽留情侣要正确认识自身

 nvrenhenanrenduiaiqingdeyaoqiubuyiyang，bicideshichangdingweiyedabuyiyang。zuoweiqingganzhongjiaoweiruodeyifang，nvshiyaoxuehaotuxianbenshendenvshiyoudian，caikeyibawozhunanrenxin。danxianshishenghuozhongxuduonvhaiquebukeyizhengshizijidejingzhundingwei，zaochengqingganyibuchenggongjieshu。

1.沟通方式太强悍

 shijishangzailianaizhong，liangrentandeshiqing，yincibulunshishenmeshiqing，zaiganqingyanqian，quanshiwufenduiyucuode。eryouyixienvxing，quehenxihuanzaiyixienantishanggennanshengchaogebuduan，yidingyaoranglingyifangrenketamendejianjiecaisuanwanbi。jiaruyushangyigeyeshihenguzhidenanrendehua，neimabianshihuoxingzhuangdiqiu，changjingjilie，erqingganjiujiaqiangle。zheierbingbushishuonvxingbunengjianchibuxiezigedejianjie，fanershinvxingzaibiaoshuzishenjianjiedeqingkuangxia，yingdangzunzhongzijidexingbie，yongyizhonggengweiwenhedefangfalaibiaoshu。

2.喜爱操控

 zaiyiqiezhengchangdelianaizhong，nanshengyinggaishizaizhudaoxingde。suoyishuo，zuoweinvxingdeni，jiaruchangshiqubawoyiqie，neimazheibushishuonidegongzuonenglihenqiang，fanershinitaiyumeile。zaigennanshenggongchuzhong，jiaruniyizhiyaoxiangbayincishierdoucaozongyinei，rangnidenanrentingyitinghuahua，neimayaoshilingyifangdadaolenidehua，nidenanrenjiubianchengleyigezhenzhenzhengzhengdefeiwule。caokonggushidejiushini，jiejuekunnandeyejiushini，neimatayouheyong？

3.过度大大咧咧

 xuduonvxingzaitanlianaideqingkuangxia，xiaijingchanggennanpiaoshuo“woxihuanni”，“gujini”zheileidehua，bingqieyizhihuidianjizhezuoxiexiaotiandianzuoyigefanzengjitazheileidewennuandeshier。danyeshiyouyileinvxing，zaixianglianshishifen“haofang”，genqinglvxianliaoyizhiyoujishishuoshier，younaxiefanganlingyifangdejiulikeshifenlijidishuochulai，gaiyiqiwanjiuyiqiwan，gaiyiqichifanjiuyongcan，congbu“daqingmaqiao”。

二．挽留情侣要减少要求

 yibanlaishuo，xuqiugangaoderentongchangshiyongjiazhidi，feichangrongyiranglingyibanbuaixiyiduanqinggan。youqishizaiwanliuzhong，jiaruniyizhixianchuguogaodexuqiugan，neimaniyejiuyiranzaizheiliduanqingganzhongchuzaiquedian，meiyouzhudaoquan。zaibenshenxintaixiadewanliuguocheng，henrongyiyouyuhusiluanxiangerbuchenggong。

 yijuhualaimiaoshu：wobuzaizheibandixiangyaonile。neimagaizenyangjianshaoxuqiuganni？jiuxuyaoyingyongdao“xiangmutouzi”jibenyuanli，congzhiqianjizhonghuaxiangmutouzidaobierendeshenshangzhuanhuachengduoyuanhuatouzi，bianshi“fensanhuazhuanzhuli”，xiangmutouzidaofujianzigederichangshenghuo，rangzishenderichangshenghuojingcaifenchengqilai，kuozhangshejiaoquanzishang。nenggoucanzhaoxialiefangshi。

1.复建自身日常生活

 bukeyizaixiangzhiqianneibanxiaochendeguorizi，fenlihounishiyouziyiderichangshenghuo，yigerenyehuichuxianyouyigerendekuaile：nenggougengweifengkuanggouwushi，nenggoufangkuanfubujinshi，nenggouqukankanzishenganxingqudeyingpian，nenggoujingjingdiyigerenshangxigequ，qukanshu。manmandezhengnengdecaijiushiniyingdangfujianderichangshenghuo，genghekuangmeirenxiangheyigediluo，fumianqingxunongnongderenzaiyiqi。

2.扩张社交圈子

 xuduorenmenzaishilianleyihoudoushitiaoxuanfengbiziji，naizhichedibuherenxiangchu，neiyangjiuhuirangziyibiandegengweigudujimo。yinciwubikuozhangzishendeshejiaoquanzi，duoqucanyutuantihuodong，duojiaoyixing，dangtamenjiandaonifujincunyouzheimeduoyixing，jiunengrangtarenganshoudaonishineimeyoufengcai，lingyifangdexuqiuganyehuisuizheshenggao。

3.让自身日常生活精彩纷呈

 zaifujianzishenrichangshenghuozhiwai，haixuyaomeiwangjijiangzishenderichangshenghuojingcaifenchengfengfuduocaiqilai。woganquexinhuichuxianyixielixianghuoshizhuiqiuwanmeixiangyaoqujinxing，danyizhimeiyouquzuo，rujinbianshijiyu，jinliquzuo，wanyicijidongrenxindegaokongbengji，shenshangkuabaoqulixiangdediqudujialvyou，shizhezaojiuxindecaipin......rangzishenderichangshenghuojinkenengjingcaifenchengqilai，yucitongshibadiandiandidigongxiangchulai，lingyifangshihaikeyijiandaode，bianhuizaochenglingyifangdehaoqixinheguanxin，yucitongshilingyifangxuqiuganzaishangsheng，dannixuqiuganzehuijianshao。

三．挽留情侣之提升另一方资金投入

 yigerenshibushiyouyouliangdeaiqingganshou，jiuzaiyutaweizheiyiduanqingganzijintouruleshiduoshaohuoliheshijian，huaxuewuzhi。yaoxiangwanliuyiqingbieliandenanpengyou，jiuxuyaozhengqueyindaotajinizijintourudaliang。

 ertishengzijintourudejiaohaofangfabianshitigaozijideyouhuoli，shitaxiangyaozhudongdijinizijintouru。huoshiyiyibanpengyoudeyuanyinweituoci，yaoqiutazhaorenzuoyixieyouyiyideshideshier。biru：zhiqiannimenyiqiqulvyouquanshitazuodeyouwangonglve，rujinniyaoduliquyiqiannimenyizhixiangyiqiqudanmeiyouqudemouyidiqudujialvyou，dannimeishanyuzuoyouwangonglve，nenggouqingtazhaorenzuoyouwangonglve；haiyou，zhiqiannimenzaiyiqishi，nidediannaosijile，huoshibixuzhongzuoxitongdeng，quanshitanonghaode，rujinnidediannaoshanghuranyoufashengnantile，nihaikeyitongdianhuaqiujiaota，zenmejiejue，huoshilijiyaoqiutanayitianyoushijianshangmenfuwubangnikanyixia。zhixunimendeyingxiangmeinaodeyouqijiang，huoshiyibanpengyoudewendu，neimazheizhongsuanbushangyouqitaiguodeyaoqiu，tashiburongyihuijuebangzhude，zheiyangzi，nimenjiuzengduolexiangjiandejiyu，ertayoubuzijuedijinizijintourule。

四．挽留情侣之发展趋势长期性关联

 duibiyuwanliu，shijishangzhangqixingguanliandebaochigengzhongyao。nibudanyaozhidaobicizhijiangongchudezuipingwenfangshi，yexuyaolijielingyifangdeyaoqiu，chixutigaozijideyouhuoli。

 zhangqixingguanlianzhongyouhuolideweichizuizhongyao，jinyouyitongtigaodeliangzhongrennengyouyuanmandeqingganganshou。laijiangyuxingweichiyizhixingzaitanlianaidequanguochengzhongyehenzhongyao，ranglingyibanganjuenishiyigeyoushouxinderen，nimendeguanliannenggengweidelaogu。

 zhixuyingyongqiadangdegongzuotaiduhefangshi，wanliuqinglvdesulvnenggouxunsu。rangbianxindeqiannanyouhouhui，danguanjiandehuoshizhangqixingguanliandefazhanqushi，zheicaisuanshizuizhidexuexideketiyanjiu。