男友分手说他变心 男友欲分手你要做的几件事

nanrenzaishilengshiredeqingkuangxia，shijishangbianshixiangfenshoule。nanyoufenshoushuotabianxinzheitiaofazeqingnvhaimenshuji。

 zhenduinanshenglaijiang，jijishuofenkai，yidianyebutuotuolala，jiufangfojubujieshouxinghuiyiyang，shizaihuijuesonghuoshangmendefuli。yincidangtashuodaofenshouhou，niyidingyaopingjingxialai，xiangyixiangjiujingfashengshenmeshi，yingdangruhequchuli。

 yiyangyebaohanzailianaizhong，ruguonirenweitadexinzaoyizailinierqu，niyulaiyubawobuzhutadeqingkuangxia。xiabiandejigezuofayitongyongxing，ruguonikandaotajiaocailiangzhichuan，buyuanfenkaidanbugandeqingkuangxia，youkuyounaobingbushichulidefangfa，jibianniyongyoukuyounaolinshixiyinta，tazaowanyiranhuipaodiaode。

nanpengyouxiangfenshoudeshihou，nixuyaozuodeyixieshishi：

1.不必尝试折磨或是虐另一方 ；

 e.g.qianwanbiehetaouqi，qianwanbiediuyiqieshangrendehua，bubizaijiangnaxie“womingbainibuaiwo”“wojiuzhidaoniyiqingbielianle/kanzhongbiedenvshengle”“wobianqueshineimeshinifanganma？”“woyaoququshileniyeburongyinanguode”。danfannijuedehuiranglingyifangbuyukuai，huoshinengrangzishenjiehen，nengxiaochuzishenbiequdehuadoubuyaoshuo。

2.即便明知道另一方在骗你，也不必强调；

 e.g.taquhenvtongshiyongcanbeinibujingyifajue，taqueduinishuoneiyitianzaijiabanjiadian，niyejiuzhuangbuqingchujiukeyi，bubijiangnidezhimouyongzaichuochuanlingyifangshang，zishenneixingaoqingchujiuxing；jiarutachuaimoni，niyejiuxiaorong，yebuyaogaosutanilejiezheijianshiqing，chufeishinizaoyixiajuexinyaohetawanquanlaosibuxiangwanglai。

3.即便另一方胡编乱造地斥责你，亦全盘接受，不辩驳；

 e.g.jiarutazhujianxianqini“bingbushijiaoshi/guojiagongwuyuan”“wobabamamabuxihuanni”“kanqilaihenai”“feishaonv”“buhaokan”，bubifanchunxiangji。zhibixuhuanhuandeduitashuo：woweichangbuxiangxiangnijuededeneiban，danshijizheiban，wojieshourujindezishen。

4.打扮，去找被你冷淡已久的小伙伴们玩，让自已过得更高兴一些；

 e.g.fenpeilibaitianqutachun，suihoubashoujiyiguan，bubitongyitadelinshixingyouhui，jiarutayaoyueni，tadangranhuizhaodaoni，jiarutazhiquanni，tahaihuijixuzhaobiedeshijian，bubidanxincuoguoletadelianxidianhuahuoshiyouhui，wuxuxiangtataiduoshangbaonidexingji。

5.yingduita，yaorenrang，biaoshunidewunai，heduilingyifangdebixu。

 e.g.dangtachizenideqingkuangxia，chulifangfatongdi3tiao。duitashuo：wosuishuobingbushijizhide，danlaotianyehentaiaiwo，youjiwoyigefeichanghaodenanyou。shenchushoubudaxiaolianren，taburongyichixude。jiarutaqueshishaohuo，niyejiudiaoleishui。

6.biaoshuduitadeshangxi，yinengshitaganjueyukuaiweizongtimubiao。

 e.g.jiarutaduinitanqinidegongzuozhong，nixuyaozanyangta：shizhendema？pengyoulibianyingdangweiyounihuodeneiyangderongyaoba？jiarutabiaoshuxiaochenhuoshibumanyi，nixuyaoduitashuo：nizaoyizuodegouhaola。

 ruguoniyingduiyigezaoyiyaoxiangjuejiaodenansheng，niyuqishuoyoukuyounao，bibushangbatadangzuonideganqingxunlian，yongtalaimolianzishendexinnian，duanlianzishendexintaibakonggongzuonengli，changshitansuolingyifangdebixu，bianchengyigeranglingyifanglibulederen。nanyoufenshoushuotabianxin，zhidaotarenweinishifenyoufengcai，ganjuezishenshenaizheni，ganjuezishenfeinibuaideqingkuangxia，zhudaoquanjiuzainishoushangle。jibianmeinengwanliukunju，zheiduiniyuyixingpengyougongchuyedayouyichu。