前男友变心了 挽回男朋友的话感动

 xuduonvhaiyingduifenshoushidoumeifajiena，huikukuaiqiu，keshiyiranmeiyouwanliu。shijishangyaoxiangwanhuinanpengyou，yaoxuanyongshiyidefangfa，zhangwowanhuinanpengyoudehuadadong，rangnanpengyoujijimingquetichufuhexing。buqingchucongheshizhujian，taduinibuhuizaijiji，naizhibuhuizaiyounaixin，nimanmanzhinenggenjufaxieqingxu，fapiqi，quyingdetadeguanxin，genjutahongrenlaimingquetahaishiainide，naizhijianjiandinizhujiancaiyitashifouyiqingbielianle。jianjiandide，nimendefenqiyulaiyuduo，zhengchaodepinlvyeyulaiyuduo;tayecongyikaishidemeiyicidoushihuihongrendaozhihoudegehaozhangshijiancaihong，zuihoutatidaoleqiannvyouhuoshinitifenkaitayunxule。danshinijihudoumeiyouqueshitichufenshou，qiannanyoubianxinlenijinjinxiangrangfentagengaizheni，yincifenkaidejieguoshinishouzuwucuo。

一.实例自诉

 woyuxiaoyuanlejiexuduonianle，congyikaishidejiyoudaoxianzaideqinglv，zhengzhongjianyeshijinglilexuduo。zaiwoyanzhong，tayizhiquanshiyigezhizheeryouqingshenderen，zhizhedaoxiaishangyigerenjiuburongyiqugenggai，yejiushiyouyuzheiyicaigentazaiyiqide。danshixiangbudao，zuihouqueyeshiyouyuzheiyieryagenbubangwowanliudejiyu。xiaoyuanzaihewozaiyiqiyiqianshitanguoyicitanlianaide，taduineiyigenvshengfeichanghao，keshizuihouyeshibeisunhaile，danshitaduizheiyinvshengduizheiyiduanqingganyizhiwangbudiaolehenduonian。congzheijianshiqingwokandechuletadeqingshen，worenweizheizhongnanhaizifeichangshaole，duiyuwohuoshihenyouganranlide，yinciwoxuanzelegentazaiyiqixiubutaqinggandewaishang。jinguanshuojiushiwojijizhuiqiuwanmeideta，danshizhihoukeguanshishigenwoshuowomendexuanzemeiyoucuo。tashiyigehenzhongganqingderen，zaiyiqiyihou，taduiyuwohenhao，chedishineileijiangwopengzaishouxindeneileihao。zhenduiwodeguidingtajibendoushihuidadao，xiaodaorichangguanzhu，dadaogezhonggeyangjieriliunianridelipin，congwaimaisongcandaokouhongbaobaodengdoushihuimaibangwo。

 jinguanshuoyouyixieqingkuangxiatayouyixiezhizhe，liruyouyixieqingkuangwojiujianglekeyibusong，keshitahuoshijianchibuxiesong，youxieshiwojiangnenggoubuzuotayeyiranhuijianchibuxiezuo。fangfozheiyiduanhunyinyinggaishihenjizhide，shubuzhi，henyoukenengyejiushiyouyutaduiwomendezheizhonghaozaiwoxiguanyihou，yaowozhujianyulaiyutanlan，duitadexuqiuyulaiyugao。wojianjiandizaochengleneiyangyigezaiqianyishizhong，ganjueyiqiewoyaodetadoushihuibaozheng，taxiangyaoweiwobaozhengyiqieshier。chukaiyaotaduiyuwoyizhineimehaozhiwai，wojiuguidingtagengqinfengengqinfen，guidingtawubizaigongzuoshangyushenghuoshangzuodegengqiang。yejiuzheiyang，bicizhijiandefenqizhujianzaochengle，tazhujianfashengyouyugongzuozhonghushidaowodeshoujiweixin，zhujianfashengjiabanjiadianmeikongpeizhewodezhuangkuang，naizhizhujianfashengchulaijiaojihezuilehulihutubangwomaiyuanyali，yaolejiezhiqiantaburongyineiyangde。suihou，wojianjiandizhujianshengqile，zhujiantamangbuliwo，mangwanzhaowoliaowobianmeilita，dengdaitalaihongwo。danshijianjiande，tajijilaihongwodeshijieyulaiyumanle，zhizhishiyiguoqingyihoudediyigexingqiliu，wodengniletayizhengtianmeizhidaotadexinxi，wozhengjinbuzhuyaonaopiqideqingkuangxia，tatidaolefenkai。

 woshizhangwotade，yincidangtamingquetichufenkaideneiyishunjiandeqingkuangxia，wokaishihuangle，womingbaitayidanzuochujuecejiunanyigaile，zheigeshihoutadezhizhe，shitaoyanyigerenjiunanyigenggaile。yinciwoyigaiyiqiandexintai，zhujianjijichengrencuowu，dixiatouzhiqian，danshijiufangfowojuededeneiban，tahenjiandingbuyi，shuotahenlei，rangwoyaoquzhaogengqiangde。wogezhonggeyangqiuta，douyushiwubu，womingbaiwonengxunzhaoxinnanyou，keshiwobuyuanyizaizhaole，bingqieyebuyidingzhaohuodegengqiangde，wodexingzizaoyibeitachonghuaile，zaineiyangbenkuiwunaideqingxingxia，wochangshilianluojiaoshi，xiangbudaoyejiushizheigeshizhedexingwei，yaowodedaolezaisheng。

二.老师确诊

1.只能根据“作”来获得归属感

 tingwanwodemiaoshu，shijishangbuhuitainanfajuewozhenzhenzhengzhengdenanti，shijiangzishenxinshendezhongxindiandouguodufangdaoleqingganshang，zheizaochengtayouqifeichangrongyiyouyuyigenanrenerminganduoyi。tayiqiankanqilaishibangxiaoyuanxiufuganqingwaishang，shijishangquejixiaoyuandailaidaodaliangdesunhai。zaixiaoyuandejuedeli，shijishangyizhiquanshizishenzaitouru，wozaisuoyao，bingqiewoyecongbuzaiyitadetihui。xiaoyuanjinyouzaihezuiyihoucaiganmaiyuanyali，danshihuodedebingbushiwodeguanzhuhelejie，fanershijiatinglengbaoli。xiaoyuanshifeichangaiwode，keshineiyangdejiaowangfangfaqueshishirangxiaoyuanhenlei.yetaimeianquanganle。errucideaiqingshijishangzhenduixiaoyuanbianshiyizhongsunhai，youyutayaodecongtouzhiweiquanshiyigedongtaderen，erhenxianzhu，woyikaishishi，yihoujianjiandibingbushile。shijishangnvhaizidexinlixuqiubingmeiyouneiyangfanza，zhibuguobianshibeirentong，beilejie，beizhongshi，beiqinpei，shuojiandanyidianbianshilejietaguanzhuta，shouhoutaxinlaitayuzanyangta，zheizhongyebushisuoyoubixuyixiazidadaode，zhibixuqiadangjiyuerzhongzhishangjiukeyifeichanghaoderangnanhaizihendadaole。

2.不会聊天，控制情绪能力较差

 wodebuhuiliaotianshijishangguanjianhaishibiaoxianzai2gecengmian，diyigebianshikongzhiqingxunenglijiaocha，youqishizaixiaoyuanmeiyoudadaodaozishendeqingkuangxia，wodeyixiefumianqingxushikongzhibuzhude，naonu，youshangdengxintaiquanshinanyikongzhizhude。erzheizhongxintaidexuanxiemubiaoquanshixiaoyuan，xiaoyuanbenshenyuanbenjiuyalifeichangda，yeyizhiweiwotouruxuduo，yinciwodezheizhongxintaishihensunhaixiaoyuande。wobuhuiliaotiandediergezhuyaobiaoxianshiqingganjiejuegongzuonengli，woyouyuzaizheiliduanqingganlichuliganqingnantidefangfazhibuguobianshifaxieqingxuhuoshilengbaolimeililingyifang，shijishangzheierzhongchulifangfaquanshicuowude，meiyoulijijiejuekunnan，zaochengnantifashengwanguxinghegengweimingxianle。

3.不会聊天，心直口快刀子嘴豆腐心

 xinzhikoukuai，daozizuidoufuxin，xuduonvshengdoushihuineiyang，keshiwozaizheixiefangmianzhuyaobiaoxianshihenxianrande，woxianzhuyeshixiaixiaoyuande，keshizhuyaobiaoxianchudezeshibuneimazaihuxiaoyuandetihui，wozhuyaobiaoxianchudeyuelaiyueduodeshizisideyimian，benlaishiqidaixiaoyuankeyigengqinfen，zhuyaobiaoxianchudehejidaoxiaoyuandejuedezeshiyouyuzishendeaimuxurong，keshishijishangxinlidexiaijinyouwozishendelejie，yinciyouyuzishengoutongjiaoliuyuyanbiaodanenglidenanti，zaochenglewohexiaoyuanzhongjiandexuduocuowuguannian。xianshishenghuozhongxuduoaiqingquanshineiyang，youyuqiannanyoubianxinlezishendeyixiebumingbainanrenxinlihuoshibuhuiliaotianzheixiezaochengzaiqingganlisunhaidaolingyifang，zuihouqingganquehanshouwei，keshineiyangdeaiqingshijishangwanliuqilaibingbujiannan。