怎样应对男人出轨的状况？

 nanrenchugui zenmewanhui?chuguinanren，chuwaizaizhuyaobiaoxianshangmianyoumouxieyuzhao。liruxiguanxingjiabanjiadian、qizaotanhei、zaijialiyulaiyuyansurenzhen、wanxiaodafujiangdidengyuzhao。

 xianjieduan，shehuifazhanzhizhongduizhangfuchuguidekerongrenjinguanbugao，danmangmugenfengchizedezhuangkuanghuanshibijiaoduojiande。chuguinanrendexintaishizenmeyang?yuangujiuqujueyubingmeiyougaoqingchuzhangfuchuguiyiqian，fuqixingshenghuoshiruhedeqingkuang。neima，zuoweilaopo，qiadangyingduizaoyichuguidelaogong，yingdangzenmezuoni?

别着急着定论，想着难题出在哪儿

 renmenxiantaolunyixia1gejiaoweijiduanhuadeshili。zai《beijingqingnian》zheibudianshijuzhizhong，hedongdemamababa“yiku、ernao、sanguixia”dezuofakeyishuochongfenfahuidehanchanglinli。yiner，fufuchangchangzhengchao，hedongxiangjiejuejiazhongdefenpei，zishenzaicizouyiciqingchunnianshao。nanrenchuguizenmewanhui?

 piekaibiede，zhishitanfuqiguanxi，zheizhongzuofaduijiazhongdecuihuinenggoushuochengzhimingxingde。jiangdaolijiangdusai，youquefagoutongjiaoliu，qianquezongtijiazhongdeyishi，zhishiyizishendejiazhiquxiangquweihaitarendequshe。weijixiangruyi，biancaiyongzheilei“dute”dezuofapobudeyirangtarenzuochutuoxie。

 dangran，yijubixu，julidaziranyaofanyingchumouleishijixiaoguo。danzaoxingyishulaiyuanyuyishizhuxingquegaoguoyishizhuxing，jianxinxiangjindezuofazaiyishizhuxingzhizhongbingbushishaojian，jinjinshuipingbuyiyang。chuguinanrendexintaishizenmeyang?yingduizaoyichuguidelaogong，bishangyan，yijianshizhedefangshilaiguanchayixiaxiafufuzaiyishizhuxingzhizhongdebuhuigai，laisousuozheizaiqizhongdenanti。zhongjiu，dangjuzhemi，pangguanzheqing。

让相互把话讲完，十分关键

 zhangfuchugui，bujingerenxingweishangdaixuduoyuzhao，zaiyuyanshang，jianghuihuichuxiangoutongjiaoliushouzudezhuangkuang。renmennenggoulaihaohaodifenxiyixiaxiazhengchaodeyouyin：keyiyiqideliangren，dadecengmianfeichangrongyidachengxieyi，danxuduoxiweidejieduan，huanshibutongde。dangzheileiyaoqiumeiyouchaoguojunheng，doushigenjuxiangxianghutanlulaikaizhanbiaoshu。

 shubuzhi，pingxinjingqidezhuangkuangxia，feichangrongyibeilingyifangsuohulve。danglingyifangtanjiyixieyaoqiuermeiyouhuodelingyifangdedafuyugaoduzhongshishi，xintaishangdeweimanhuimanmandileiji，zuihouzaochengzhengchaodezhuangkuangchansheng。nenggoukande，zheishizheizhonggoutongjiaoliushouzusuoyanbiandejieguo。danshi，zhengchaozuoweizheizhongjiaoliuyugoutongdefangfa，xiangduieryanshirangrenbutaihaojienade。

 zheiyiquanguochengzhong，yinweixintaidenenglianghexintaixing，xianghuzaimeiyoubahuajiangchedichuqudeneishihou，fanqianglingyifang，jinermanyandaodaoqinggan，biciyuelaiyueyuan，zuihouzaochenglingyifangwaiyu。

 yingduilaogongdewaiyu，renmennenggouhetazuoyihuishentan。naxieneirongmeiyouteshudepianxiang，nenggoushitadeyuanyan，huoshichize，huoshibiaoluxinlidezhenzhengniantou。zheixiezheizhong，renmenyaotingtabahuashuowan，yaolingting，yaoxixin，congzheidangzhongtansuoxianghuxinlideniantou，baozhengzhijizhibi。

 laogongdewaiyu，zaixianrujinneiyangdeshehuifazhan，nenggoushuochengsikongjianguanle。danxuduorenyiranhuijuederulindadi，shouzuwucuo。wojuede，zenyangyingduilaogongdewaiyu，zuixianrenmenyaofenxishijidenantichuzailenacengmian。

 ranhouquchuangjiangoutongjiaoliudefangshi，biciyichengxiangdaibugong，rangxianghubahuajiangwan，baozhengxixinlingting。zuizhong，yijushierdetexing，sikaozishen，quelixinliyuanyihuodedejieguo，zuochugengweichenwen、qiadangdejuece。