zhangfuchuguilihun zenmewanhui?laogongchuguilezenmeban?wuxujiaolv,yemeibixubazishenchaimoderenburenguibuguide。niyaohuanjieleishui,qingnikeyilizhi,nikeyixiaoduishenghuo,xuehaozunzhongziji,shizhediaojie,baituozheiyiduansunhaiheheiying,yiquanxinshengjidewaimaogangkaishinixinderenshengdaolu。
chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?zaihunyinchuguizheichukaiyanlejiqiannianyehengguzhangshengbushuaidebuxingzhong,nanrenshiyandedabufenshizhaoshirenderenwujiaose,nvxingni,wuyiliwaiquanshishouhairen。
zhangfuchuguilihunzenmewanhui?zheizaiqizhong,zhengshilaopozaoshoudesunhaishenke。laogonghunneichuguiwaiyu,laopohunneichuguipengshang。zheichangzaluanwuzhangdewaiyudajujiangxiaweimuyihou,zuolaopodedaduoshubeitongmomingqimiao、xinxunanping。zheishiyingduinageyiqianchuguixingweidelaogong,shitiaoxuankuanronghuanshimanhengwuli,yihuolijiliyiyilebaile?xiabianrenmenlaipouxixialaogonghunyinchuguilaopozenyangtaoshengzheiyihuatitaolun:
一、不吵不闹,不四处诉苦,理智处之
hunyinchuguipuluzhihou,laopodaduoshubeiganbiequ,genlaogongnaorenshijingchangchuxiandeshi,danshiliuyiyoufencun。shidudekunenggoushilaogongxincunneijiuzhiqing,dankuduolebudanmeiyoujutixiaoying,haihuizaochengfanzuoyongli,youkuyounaozehuishibenlaizaoyibujilidelaogonggengweinaoxin,cikezenyangwanliuzhangfuchuguidexin?
bubisichusuku。neileibudangengebilinjufalaosao,yexiangbabamamachenqing,naizhidaolaogongdedingtoushangsineibianqukongsudezuofashishifenduanshide。rutongyusiwangpo,zongshishilaogongdiujinmianbu,quewuliyushierdeyuanmanjiejue(youyuyazhounanrenqingmian,huiletadeqingmian,jiugengongranbaletadeniuzikuziwudizirong)。
jiaruzhimibuwu,zongshijihuamaodun,budanlaogongwufahuiguotou,haishifufuwanquanjuelie,fanerwanmeichengxianledisanzhedechuxin。bingqiebutingdishushuolaogongdebingbushi,cujinlingyifangtisheng"fanzuigan"。zheilei"fanzuigan"zaimeifaqingchudeneishihou,hunhouchuguidelaogonghuoxuhuihuaiyou"yibuzuo,erbuxiu,zongzhidahuoernaokaiguo,yinweiwomeiyoushenmehaogujidele"dexintaizhuangtai,ganqingyuezouyueyuan。
fanguolaidi,kuanrong、kuanrong、renshouquenengshizhixiqinshuzaocheng"neijiugan",shenjuebaoqianni,haipazaisunhaini。nanrenfanlebuzhengquezhihou,yingduilaopodekuandachuli,bidinghuiganjitiling。nanrendaduoshuzhuzhongshiminggan,ruguoyouzhongliangtuo,douhuixinshengkuijiuzhiqing,zheishi,nizaijitamenlaige"yuefasanzhang",tahaibugenjiexiaqiuyiyang"laolaoshishijiufan"?chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?
二、不上迫不得已不必轻言离异
laogongchuguileyihou,xuduolaopoduanshijianneixiangqidejiushishuoliyi。liyibushibuneng,danshijinshenduidai。chufeishidajiadehunyinzaojiugouyancanchuan。hunyinchuguijinjindaohuoxian,buranqingyanliyi,beihaijiaodade,yiyaokeliandexiaohaizi,ershibiantilintideni。youyuxiaohaijiaruzixiaozai1geliyijiatingzhangdale,shentijiankangdoushizaoshoutingdadeweihai。
jiarushigenanhai,babadebuweizhangqixingqueshao,tahuizaochengkaimodecuobaigan,bulitayiqiezhengchangnanrenxintaidechansheng,haihuidaozhixiaohaideyihuo、buzixinjishouzuwucuo。haiwaiyoushehuixuejiaqiangdiao:nanhaizaifazhanqijiarushiqufuqindeai,yaobulianmu,weilaiweihaizhaoduixianghepoxizhijian,yaobuyanggangqibugou,youbianweishuangxingliandefengxian。
jiarushixiaoguniang,shaolefuqindeaiyehuizaochengganqingdejikezheng,weilaifeichangrongyichuxian"lianfuqingjie",xiaizhaoxunnianjishaodadeyixingpengyou。yinci,nanrenwaiyuyihou,laopobushangpobudeyi,bunengyongliyilaichufananren。san、yaoxuehaoyongzhihuixingjibaiqingdi
youyigedangdainvzuojiashuoguo:"hunyinchuguijiushishuotugexinxian,zuoxifudeyouzuoxifudechuse,genzheixiexinshouzhengshenmezheng?taxinxiantade,jiayishiri,tabuyejiulemeiyou?"duia,dengdahuoerdoujiuledeneishihou,haiyaobisheiderenkedugenggaole,kantarenzaizhangfuchuguicongmingdenvrenzenyangjiejueweijide。
zheishi,nvxingdexionghuaihezhihuixingjiushishuozhengdenanrendejiaodabaowu。nanrenquanshiaimuxurong、yuanqinmijiechushu,zheishinanxingdeliegen。"zhiwenxinrenxiao,kanbudaojiurenku"tashiqinggandezheizhongkebei。jiaruosuisuiniannian、meiyuetiantian,shouzheyizhangliankong,bengshuopingchangnvren,jiushishuoxishineibandejuesemeiren,nanrenyehuishijuedeshenmeipilao,yincijichufangzi,yixinshijianju,yixinshilequ,yixinshixinxian。
cisanweijiushishuomei,zainvxingchangbianchangxuedeaiqingduicezhonggouqideshinanxingduiniyongjiuxingdejiqing。decisanweizhe,jiushishuo1geruyijiaomei、wanzhongfengqingdenvxing,jiushishuo1gerangnanren"duniqianbiandoubuyanfan,dunidejuedexiang3yue"denvxing。dangyigenvhaizaiqingchangshangyouzheleneimeduodezhihuixingdebaowushi,nandaohaipanaxiedisanzhe、disizheni?
waiyujiushishuozheizhongxintaizhuangtaishangdezhanshi,sheixiansangshilixing,sheijiushishuoshibaizhe,yinci,nvxingdexueziwoanwei,yaoxuehaolejiehepouxichuguinanrendeyuangu,erbingbushibutingdexutao,neiyangdejieguozhineng1gejianghui,neibianshisangshinanrenzaihunyinzhongdeganqing。
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