怎样真实心里接受出轨的男人

 laogongchuguile zenmeban?waiyuzheijianshiqing，jianxinmeizijizaoshouyihoudoushiyoudaliangdeqinaohewukenaihe。lingyifangneiyangzuo，youjianghuiyouyumeiyoujindezhuyinyou，yishirexue;yeshijianghuizhangqixingduimouleizhuangkuangweiman，jileidexintaizuihoubaofa。

 chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?dangairenguanniandaobenshendebuzhengque，huijiaqiuqukuanrongshi，genhenduorenhuitiaoxuanzaicizheiyiduanqinggan。danshi，zheijiurutongshuaihuaideshuibei，jinguanzaicinianheleqilai，keshiliefengzhongjiuburongyixiaotui。neima，zenyangcainengzuodaozhenzhengcongxinlijieshouchuguideairenni?

到底谁对谁错

 xianrujinwaiyudezhuangkuangfeichangdeguangfan，dajiatongchangchipengjidexintai，juedezheizhongzuofashibunengkuanrongde。danshixiangtongzhuangkuangzaochengdefabingyuanyinshibuyiyangde，yincibingbukeyimangmugenfengdejuedewaiyudeneilingyifangshijueduibuzhengquede。xuduoqingganzhizhong，doushicunyouliangrenmoucengmianbukeyixiezuodenanti。

 laogongchuguilezenmeban?jugejianyideshili，jiaruzijixiaixiaonongyishide，ningjingdiyishizhuxing，duifangyaodidabixudegaokuanbi、yingxiangli，neimanenggoujianyidekandechuzheiliangrendeyishibingbushitongbu，yishidebutongbubidingyinqigerenxingweidebutongbu，biciyejiuchangyouwaiyudejianghui。

 keshi，liangrendouduile，jinjinyouyushenghuoxiguanbuyiyang。yincizaiyingduilingyifangwaiyudeneishihou，bixuyaogaoqingchuliangrendenantidaodishichuzainaer。chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?zaixiangdulinengchengchuan

 youxierenhuijuedezijibukeyizaiqingganshangzuozhenshideziji，neimabianjuedeqijiangshanyigaijiangshanyigai。zairenmengaoqingchuyuanguyihou，haiyaozuomouxiegoutongjiaoliu。

 kenengzaizheiyiqianliangrendegoutongjiaoliuzhishishizhengzhi，beinaonuxintaihexindeneiguoduanshijianzuochudeyiqiexingweiyemeiyoulijingshenzhongkaolv，zheishihoujiubixupingxinjingqidegoutongjiaoliujihui，yichengxiangdaibugongdejiangchuxianghudeniantoujijianglaiyuanyideyishizhuxing。

 shangwentiji，xuduoyuangujinjinrongqiatongbudenanti，jiranlingyifangzaoyizhidaobenshendebuzhengquesuoshu，bibushangshiranjieshoulingyifangdeguoshi。shuodedayidianer，renshengdaoludanshihenduonian，suoyourenchushizaizheiyiquanshijie，yaodaliangdeganshoumeihaoshiwu，congyoushishijiaolaikaolvdaonanti。

 huoxulingyifangdewaiyuzishenwufajiena，dancongcishiduoduodezanyangdiqu，jiandaolingyifangdeyoudian，pengdaonantilijidegenjugoutongjiaoliukaizhanjiejue，renhezaiwendingdexintaizhizhongkaizhan，neiyangliangrennenggouganshoudaoxianghudekuanrongyulejie，doujixianghubaoliuyudi，jiumeibanfachuxianfumianxinxidegerenxingwei。

同歩的实际意义

 dangliangrenyiqi，benrennenggoufenpaideshijianyuelaiyueshaole，benrendeshineikongjianbeijiyachengxingle，yiyangshi24zhongtou，liangrenyiqihuizhanyouxianghujuedaduoshudehuoli。ganqingbujinshixianghuxiaibianyiqizheimejiandan，danchunxingdezhixiangzhizizhishouyuzixielaodezuofabingbukeyiweichiganqingdezhangqi。

 wanmeideaiqing，doushiyou1+1>2deshijixiaoguo。zuoshiershi，xianghudetongyixingdongkeyigenjuxiezuoerlingquanguochenggengweigaoxiaolv，jieguogengweibijiaomanyi;yingduitongchushi，zheijianshiqingliangrenxianghufentan，jiuyuanbidouduziyirenchengdanqingqingsongsongdeduo;pengdaokaixinshi，zheijianshiqinghuizaochengerfenkaixin，zheizhongjiushishuozhenqinghuichaoguodeshijixiaoguo。

 tongbudeshijiyiyi，jiuqujueyuxianghugongtongfendou，xianghuchengcai，xianghuqinshenjinglidequanguochengzhongjiashenlejiehexianghuxinren，jinerchaoguogengdadexinyoulingxi。yaoxiangzhenshixinlijieshouchuguideairen，baorongdaziranshibukehuoquede，dantazhiyouqingxingdeguanlizijiderenwuxintaihuodong。ruguozaochenglexindemaodun，dajilvdehuichanshengtiguoqudemouxiezhuangkuang。

 congjintianqi，xianghugongtongxingdongba，jianglaiyishizhuxingzhizhongdeyiqieshierliangrenbixugongtongnuli，dangbicizaoyifaxianshikebixulingyifang，xiangnantibanshierdefangshi yufadegangkaishixiangzijishi，gongxigongxi，neiyishunjianxianghuzaoyichedijieshoulelingyifang，yedaibiaolingyifangzaiyebuhuiwaiyudejianghui。