发现另一半出轨，如何经营婚姻才行

jinriyaojidahuoshuode，jianghuidahuoeryoudianerbushihe，zhongjiuchuxiandisanzheneijianshier，ruhejingyinghunyin？zhenduimeiyigejiazhong，meiyicihunyinshenghuoeryan，quanshiyigepohuaixingdeyanlidaji，gusuanmeiyigeyueduzheyebuqidaizishendehunyinshenghuocunyouneiyangdegerenxingwei，douxiangrangzishendejiazhongmeimanxingfu。keshirenmenyidingyaoyibuyiyangdeshijiaoquduidaizheigewenti，zheileinantizaixianshishenghuozhongdequecunyouxuduode，renmenjinjinshuo，tacunyouzaoyiyidingdegailv，hunyinweijichuxian，hunyinshenghuobuxingfuzenmeban？jinribazheigewentifangdaobiaocengshangeryan，fanghuanyuweiran，jiaonipengdaozheileinantishiniyinggaizenmezuo。

ruhejingyinghunyin？jianxindabufenrenyudaozheileizhuangkuanghou，diyitixiankendingshinaonu，jinghuang，huirangzishenjuedeshishijieweiridelailin，zishenneixinyebuzhidaoyinggaizenmeban，hunyinweijichuxian，hunyinshenghuobuxingfuzenmeban？zheigeshihou，renmenyidingyaobaozhengyixianeirong。

第一，反求诸己。

congzimianjiunenglejiezheihuadaibiaoshenmeyisi，bubibazhushiyiwudoutuidaolingyifangdedeshenshang，yidingyaoduoduodefanshengziji。huoxuxuduorenbizishenchuse，huoxuxuduorenkanqilaibizishenpiaoliang，huanjuhuashuoshixuduorenbiwoduitahao，huanjuhuashuozishenpingshiduitajiaoweilengmo，lengdanleta。jiarushuonidediyifanyingbianshinaonu，neixindianjizhe：yinweiwoyidingyaozouta，woyaodata，woxianghetaliyi，zheigeshihounishitaiguoqingxubuwendingle。

youdeqingkuangxiazheileizhuangkuangjiugenfumuhexiaohaizhongjiandeguanlian，tazuobuduiti，nimata，data，jianghuizaisanwufenzhongyinei，tadetihuile，shengyude10fenzhong，shinixintaidesuiyichongfenfahui，shinizhizeta，wenhuajiaoyutadata，nibingbingbushijiaoyuxiaohai，zhishizaichongfenfahuinidexintai。ruhejingyinghunyin？shijishang，hunhouchuguiyeshiyiyang，yidingyaoxuehaofanqiuzhuji，zheigeshihoujingxiaxinlai，xiangfansikaosikaozishendenanti，yilvsixu，zhaodaozhenshicunzaidewenti，fuqihaohaodishuoyixia。hunyinweijichuxian，hunyinshenghuobuxingfuzenmeban？

第二，学好应用正当性合理合法的方式维护保养自身的权益与自尊。

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shijishangxixidiyaolai，hunhouchuguibingbudanchunxingdeshiyifangdenanti，bicichangyouyiwu，yexushiwuyijianzhongjiandeyizhongxiaofenqi，chengnianleiyue，leijichulai，jiubianchengdafenqi。ruhejingyinghunyin？yexushirichangshenghuodedadanaonao，yexushizhangqidelengdan，huoshishitarenduitabininhao，zongeryanzhihunhouchuguijueduibuhuitongtongshiyigerendeyiwu，bicichangyouyiwu，neijiushihaowuyiwende。