偶然发现老公外遇怎么办？怎么挽回？

ouranfaxianlaogongwaiyuzenmeban？zenmewanhui？dangnvxingzaihunyinshenghuozhongfaxianlaogongchugui，mianduilaogongwaiyucongmingdeqizigaizenmezuoni?benwenfenxiangjigewanhuilaogongdefangfahejiqiao，xiwangduiniyoubangzhu。

1、多观察然后付出行动

laogongyouhunhouchuguilewogaizenmezuo?jiaruniyongyixieshijianhaohaoxiangyixiangzishendehunyinshenghuo，hezishendaodiyoushenmeqidaiyubixu，niyejiuhuixunzhaoheshizishendehuida。

neimezuohuoxuyaohuashangyixieshijian，bingqiehenyoukenenghuishifentongchu，keshizheiyiqiebixukaonizijilaizuojuece——yigeniganxinqingyuandejuece。youguoduodenvxingzaizuojueceshi，xiguanxingtingmingyulaogonghuobiedeyouquanweixingderen，rujinzheiyijuecekenengshitamenzizhuzuochudediyigedajuece。

2、善待自己

feichangzhidezhuzhongdeshi，yigelianzishendoubuxihuandenvxing，shimeiyouquanliquhuodenanshengdalianghegengweizhangjiudeaide。ziran，woneiyangshuobingbingbushirangmeinvmendouquzisizili，wuluntarendehaodai。

zhishijiaotamenyaozibei、xinxinhezishentisheng，yaoshishikekexinlidoushiyouzishen，bingbingbushiyumeiwuzhidibazijizuoweinanshengdejingshenjituo。nvrenhunyindebeijuyoufeichangzhanbiquanshiyoutamenbugouaizishenerdaozhihuoshishiweihaide。

feichangshidangnanrenduitalveweibiaomingchuyizhongsongxiehuoshishilengdanzhishi，tahuigengweibumingbaishandaiziji。xinlihuiyuelaiyuemiwang，huigengweiquefazixin。

yincipoguanposhuai，zimingqinggao，huitoutulian，jinerjiakuaizishendecuihua，tishengzishenzainanshengxinzhongzhong“yanfan”deshujuxinhao。zheibanzhijin，bianchanshengyizhongliangjihua，wuxuwaibiandedisanzhexiashou，zishenyehuibeizishenjibai。

3、发挥自己优势挽回

laogongchuguilewogaizenmezuo?hewaibiandedisanzheduibi，woyizhijuedelaopobuguancongganqing、shehuifazhanhuanshicongshijianluojixingshangmianzhanjinletianshidili。

yibanzhuangkuangxia，yaoshinengjishizhuazhunyouyidimao，busuibianqichenggongji，ruoshiyishouweigongdehua，daduoshushinenggou chenggongde。pajiupazheixieqiankaolv，wangtuqidai“yiqingdongren”he“yiqipoyaren”denvxing，biaocengshanglaikannenggou gaoshengrangyiliangju，zhaolaiyixierendekanrenao，huodejigerendelianminheshiyong。

shijishangtaquesangshigengweiguanjiandeyigerenhegengweiguanjiandeyigeyingxiangli，zheigerenbianshitadelaogong，zheiyiyingxianglibianshitazuoweilaopodehaoranhebaorong。zheibanyinao，yanzhiyoulijiubianchenglebuli，zhengdangfangweijiubianchenglejingong，buliangyingxiangtongchangshirenweiyinsunanyicaozongde。