发现老公变心后妻子如何挽回老公？

faxianlaogongbianxinhouqiziruhewanhuilaogong？henduoqizizaiyudaolaogongchuguishi，douhennankongzhihaozijideqingxu，xiangyaowanhuilaogongbuzhidaoconghezuoqi，duifunanrenbianxindezhengqueyingduifangfashishenmeni？womenyiqilaikan。

一、保持理智

zaoshouhunyinweijilaogongchugui，zheizhongdouwufarangzishennenggoujienade。keshibuguanjiniduofahuo、duobiequ、duotongchu，duizhangfuyouduoxinhan，nibixuweichilizhi。weichilizhiyouxiaodefangfajiushishuozantui，linshiliqujiaduantulvxingjiri。

yanbujianweijing，zaimoshengrendediquhaohaodixiangzhedajiadegangkaishi、qinshenjingli、taruhunyinshenghuo、hunyinweiji，zaiyoumeideziranhuanjingzhongdiaozhengzishendexintai，rangzishendeqingxuyuelaiyuemeineimacaogao。

二、找出自身存在的问题

nishifouyouxiangguonilaogongweishenmehuichugui？zhendezhishitayigerendewentima？suhuashuodehao“yigebazhangshipaibuxiangde”。

yaozhidaozhiyouyigenvrenbunengmanzunanrendexuqiushihou，tacaihuizaiwaimianzhaoqitanvrenlaimibusuoqueshide。renzhenxiangxiashifounimeiyoujiyutajiayinggaiyoudeganjue，shifoumeiyoujiyutananrenyingyoudezunyan，shifoumeiyouzhuyizijidedabanrangtaxiangshoumeideganjue。

 cangyingbudingwufengdejidan，zhengyinweiniqueshaozheixiecaihuirang“disanzhe”youjikechen。tongshiniyeyaoxuexi”disanzhe“shenshangdeyoudian，erbunengmangmudiquzenghenta，zhengyinweitayounimeiyoudecaikeyibanilaogongxiyinguoqu。

三、增加夫妻共同性增进感情

zaihuifujiechudejieduan，xuduoxiaoqinglvxiwangnenggoutichuzijidelichang，bingxiwangduifangnenggouzhudonglaizhaozijifuhe，yibiaomingtamenyoujiazhi。tamenqiwangduifangcaiquzhudong，zuizhong，sheiyebuhuilishei。

cishi，wanhuilaogongxuyaofangdizijidezitai，zhudongdequyueduifang，chufeiniyijingxiadingjuexinchedifenkai。ruguonibuxiangfenshou，jiuyaochengkenbingnuliyixia。buweibiede，jiujinjinshiweilejizijiyihoubuliuyihan。