老公老爱搞外遇，我该怎么办

在婚姻上面如果遇到一个老公老爱搞外遇，我们应该怎么办，就比如异地夫妻老公搞外遇的原因就是因为分隔两地，那总喜欢搞外遇的老公就是自己没控制住自己。

一、总喜欢搞外遇的老公的原因

1、chizhewanlidexiangzheguolide，budongdezhizudenanren

 zaihunyinlimian，laogonglaoaigaowaiyu，shiyouyixienanrenhenbudongdezhizu，zongshirenweidebudaodeshide，xianzaideshehuibuzaishigudaineishidekeyiqujigeqizi，erxianzaidoushiyigerenzhikeyiqugeqizi，erxianzaihenduonanrenqishidoushibudongdezhizu，xiwangzaijialiyouyige，zaiwaimianhainengzaizaiduoyige，erruguozheiyangdehua，yibandehunyinyeshihenrongyichuwenti，erdongdequzhenxizhizudenanren，yibandoushidoushibuhuiyouzheiyizhongxiangfade。

 tamenshihuinulidequweichizheiyiduanganqing，zheiyiduanhunyinjishilianggerenfashengmaodun，yeshinulidequhuajie，buhuisuibiandequtilihun，gengbuhuiquchuxianzheiyizhonghunwailianzheiyixieshiqing，erzheiyizhongnanrenqishizaiaiqinglimiandongdelezhizu，yinweitazhidaolianggerennenggouzoudaojiehunzhendebingburongyi，suoyitabuhuibuquzhenxizheiyizhongyuanfen。

2、budongdedandangmeiyoushenmezerengandenanren

 henduonanrenjiehunyihou，haishirutonghunqianyiyang，budongdequchengdanzeren，yebingmeiyoushenmedandang，bijingjiehunlezhihouqishibuzaishiyigerendeshiqing，ershiguanxidaozhenggejiating，ruguoyigenanrenyouzerengandehua，tashihuiduijiating、haizimenfuze，tadezhudongxing、juewudoushifeichanggaode，tamenshiduiyuhaiziheduiyulaopodoushifeichangdeaihu，yebuhuirangbierenqupohuaitamendeganqing，erruguoyigemeiyouzerenganhedandangdenanren，tamenshishanzhangdequtaobi，buxiangqumianduixianshi，yudaoshenmeyeshizhidongderuhequtaobi，duiyugaohunwailiantamenqishiyebuhuiyoushenmehuiyi，yeshihuijuededuibuqihaizihuozhelaopo。

二、异地夫妻老公搞外遇怎么办

 ruguotahaimeichugui，nibubiqutouzhineiweilaideyoushang，jitaquduoyidianxinrenyuguanhuai。yexutazhunbeichugui，yinnideshanlianghezhenaiershoudaoliangxinshangdeqianzehoushoushou;ruguotayijingchugui，yeqingninachuyidianlizhiyulengjing，jiyichengshishineihebutandangdemiandui，zaijitayidiangaiguodejihuiheshijian，ruguosibuhuigaizaizuodasuan。niyekeyinachuderennaiyuaixinqumomietaxinzhongde“guiji”。