无法挽回的婚姻怎么办？

 suhuashuo，shinidezhongjiushinide，erbushinide，qiangqiuyeshimeishenmeyongde。napanizhendeshisihuowanhuile，danshizheiyangdehunyin，gujiyeshijibulenixingfude，fanerhuichenglezhemoniyibeizidetongku。wufawanhuidehunyinburufangshou。zheiliyouyige chuguinvren dezishufenxiangjidajia。

一、一个出轨女人的自述

shenghuoheouxiangjuzhongdefenshou，shiyouhendachabiede，jiushimianlinbutongde“kexuanzexing”。

 kexuanzexing，nikeyilijiewei：fenshouhouzhaodaogenghaoderensuomianlindechengbenwentihekexingxing。youjuhuahenjingdian：“ruoshizizhuxuanzededanshen，neijiushixiangshoudanshen;ruguoshibeipoerbudebudanshen，neidanshenbutiyeba。”chedidefenshouduiyunilaishuo，dangranzhiyouliangzhongjieguo：yaomeguduzhonglao，yaomezaizhaoyige。

 ruguonibingbushiyigedanshenzhuyizhe，danshenzhuyisuoxuyaodejuewuhewuzhidoubizujianjiatinggengkunnan，nibukenengyinweifenshoujiunengzhuanbianchengdanshenzhuyizhede。

 neimejiuzaizhaoyige?shijian，jingjiqingkuang，zinv，nianlingdengdeng……yuxiangchuhenjiudebanlvfenkai，zhongxinhuidaolianaihunyindejingzhengshichangzhongqu，niyouhuiyouduoshaojingzhenglini?zaizhaodaoderen，zhendehuibiyuanlaihaoma?duitajinxingzhigenzhididelejie，youxuyaohuaduoshaoshijian?……nimenzaibicishenshangtouruledeqingchunhebaoguideshijian，ruguozheicideganqingmeiyoukaihuajieguo，neimejiexialainihuibiandejiangjiu，henkenengjiucicuoguoshihundenianling。ruguoniyihun，neikenenggengyaoshenzhongkaolv。tongjibiaoming，xuanzeerhunderenmen，youfeichanggaodejilvduixianzhuangbuman，jinerzhuanbianweisanhunsihun、yishengweiqingsuokun。nikan，napaguangshijijiaochengben，yuairenfenshouyeshihenburongyideshiqing。

二、无法挽回的婚姻

 budebuchengren，xianzaidelihunlvfeichangdegao，doushuozailianggerenguorizideguochengzhong，meigerendouhuixiangguoyaolihun，bingqiehaibuzhishiyici，wojuedenengyouzheiyangdexiangfashizhengchangde，bijingfuqimeiyoubuchanshengdemaodunde，keshiwomenzongbunengyiyoumaodunjiuxiangzheyaolihunba。

 qishiwobenshenyeshiyigefeichangchongdongderen，zaiwodehunyinzhong，woyewushucidexiangguoyaolihun，dangshiwojiucengjingheguimibaoyuanguo，shenzhiyehetashuoguozijixianglihun，woqingchudejide，tagaosuwo，lianggerenguorizi，qianwanbuyaoqingyidejianglihunshuochukou，ruguozhendexiangyaolihun，jiuyaoxiankaolvqingchuzheijigewenti：

第一，孩子的问题。

 wuliwanhui deaiqing。zheishiwomenshouxianjiuyaoxiangdaodewenti，yinweilihunzuishoushanghaidejiushihaizile，fuqishuangfangdoushichengnianren，sheilikaisheidounengshenghuo，baokuocaichan，qishisheifenduofenshao，bingbuyingxiangshenme，keshiweiyinanyigeshedejiushihaizi。yidanfuqilihun，jiuyiweizhehaizimeiyoulewanzhengdejia，haizishinimenaiqingdejiejing，dangchumeiyouzhengdetadetongyijiubatadaidaozheigeshijieshanglai，womenshibushiyouzerenheyiwuyaorangtaxingfuni?

dier，nidexinlishifouhaiyouta。

 wuliwanhuideaiqing。dangshiwoheguimishuowoxianglihundeshihou，guimijiuwenwole，nizhendefangxialema?wochengren，dangshichongdongzhixia，woqueshixiangyaolihun，keshitawenwozhendefangxialema?wolengzhule，shenmeshifangxia，jiushidangnixiangdaotadeshihou，bushilianlianbushe，bushifennu，ershixinjingrushui，tadecunzaibuhuirangnidexinlingfanqibolan。