男人必看：怎样对待老婆婚外情

　　hunyinshiyizhongchengnuo，danbingbushisuoyoudehunyindounengshunlidijieshu。dangnifaxiannideqizizuobishi，zheishiyicifeichangtongkudejingli。zheizhongqingkuangkenenghuirangnigandaoshiluo、fennu、juewangshenzhineijiu。neime，dangnideqizizuobishi，nigaizenmebanni？benwenjiangcongduogejiaodufenxizenyangduidailaopohunwaiqingzheigewenti。

　　1.理性思考

　　shouxian，dangnifaxiannideqizizaizuobishi，yidingyaolixing。buyaoyinweizanshideqingxuerzuochujiduandexingwei。nixuyaolixingdifenxizheigewenti，zhaodaochulu。nikeyixianwenwenziji，weishenmenideqizihuizuobi？shiyinweinimenzhijiandeguanxiyouwenti，haishiyinweitazijiyouwenti？nixuyaozhuyinideyanxing，yimianduiaizaochengtaidadeshanghai。

　　2.沟通交流

　　dangnifaxiannideqizizuobishi，buyaojiyulihunhuobaofu。xiangfan，niyinggaizhudonghetagoutong，lejietaweishenmezuobi。zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，nixuyaobaochilixing，buyaoguodubiaodanideqingxu。nikeyigaosutanideganshouhexiangfa，bingtingqutadeyijian。tongguogoutong，womenkeyigenghaodijiejuewenti，zhaodaochulu。

　　3.改变自己

　　dangnifaxiannideqizizaizuobishi，buyaozongshizeguaita。xiangfan，niyinggaifansinishifouyouwenti。nikeyitongguogaibianzijilaigaishannideai。nikeyishizhebiandegengjiaguanzhu、titiehelijienideqizi，rangtaganshoudaozheizhongaiheguanhuai。yucitongshi，niyekeyigaibiannidexingwei，rangzijigengyouxiyinli。

　　4.寻求帮助

　　dangnifaxiannideqizichuguishi，buyaogujunfenzhan。xiangfan，nikeyixunqiubangzhu。nikeyixiangjiaren、pengyou、xinlixuejiaheqitarenxunqiubangzhu。tamenkeyijiniyixiejianyihezhidao，rangnigenghaodichulizheigewenti。

　　5.抉择

　　zenyangduidailaopohunwaiqingzuihou，dangnifaxiannideqizizuobishi，nixuyaozuochuxuanze。ruguonijuedezheigewentihennanjiejue，niyekeyixuanzelihun。raner，zaizuochuzheigejuedingzhiqian，nixuyaozixikaolvnidexiangfaheganshou。