花镇情感：自己老婆出轨男人应该怎么办

　　xuduorenzaihunyinzhongjinglilecuozhehetongku，qizhongqizideqipiankenengshizuijupohuaixingdejinglizhiyi。zijilaopochuguinanrenyinggaizenmeban？zheiyangdejinglikenenghuirangnigandaowanquanbengkuihejuewang，danzheibingbushiyigebukeyuyuedezhangai。rangwomencongduogejiaodulaikankanruhecongneixindetongkuzhongmaichuyibu。

　　1.接受现实

　　shouxian，nixuyaoyonggandimianduixianshi：nidehunyinyijingpoliele。zheitingqilaihentongku，danmianduixianshishibaituotongkudediyibu。nixuyaochengrenzheigewenti，bingchengshididuidainizijihenidebanlv。zaizheigejieduan，henrongyixianrufumianqingxu，danqingbuyaoshiquxiwang。shizheyupengyou、jiarenhezhuanyerenshigoutong，xunqiujianyihezhichi，zheikeyibangzhunibaituofumianqingxuhetongku。

　　2.寻找原因

　　dier，nixuyaofansihefaxianniqizizuobideyuanyin。zheibushizhizehunyin，ershibimianleisiwentidezhongyaofangfa。yexunimenzhijianmeiyouzugoudegoutong，huozhequefaxianghulijiehezhichi。zaizheigeguochengzhong，womenbujinyaozhaodaowentidegenyuan，haiyaonulijiuzhengta。huozheniyekeyixunqiuxinlixuejiahuohunyinguwendebangzhu，yihuodezhuanyedejianyi。

　　3.慢慢恢复

　　disan，jishinigandaogulihewuzhu，niyeyinggaijinlizhaodaojiarenhepengyoudezhichi。chongfendeshehuizhichikeyibangzhunijianqingtongku，zhaodaoxindeshenghuodongli。zijilaopochuguinanrenyinggaizenmebantongyang，xiangshoushenghuozhongdemeihaoshiwu，rulvxing、tiyu、yinle、shiwudeng，yekeyirangnijianqingtongku，xunqiuxindexingfu。

　　4.找到一个新的方向

　　zuihou，wulunshizhiyeshengyahaishigerenshenghuo，nidouxuyaozhaodaoyigexindefangxiang。zheibujinnengbangzhunicongtongkuzhonghuifuguolai，hainengjiweilaidailaixiwanghejiqing。dangnikaishizhujianjieshounidexinxianshishi，nikenengxuyaochangshiyixiexindedongxi，zheiyangnicainengzhaodaonidexinfangxiang。