xuduorenzaihunyinzhongjinglilecuozhehetongku,qizhongqizideqipiankenengshizuijupohuaixingdejinglizhiyi。zijilaopochuguinanrenyinggaizenmeban?zheiyangdejinglikenenghuirangnigandaowanquanbengkuihejuewang,danzheibingbushiyigebukeyuyuedezhangai。rangwomencongduogejiaodulaikankanruhecongneixindetongkuzhongmaichuyibu。
1.接受现实

shouxian,nixuyaoyonggandimianduixianshi:nidehunyinyijingpoliele。zheitingqilaihentongku,danmianduixianshishibaituotongkudediyibu。nixuyaochengrenzheigewenti,bingchengshididuidainizijihenidebanlv。zaizheigejieduan,henrongyixianrufumianqingxu,danqingbuyaoshiquxiwang。shizheyupengyou、jiarenhezhuanyerenshigoutong,xunqiujianyihezhichi,zheikeyibangzhunibaituofumianqingxuhetongku。
2.寻找原因
dier,nixuyaofansihefaxianniqizizuobideyuanyin。zheibushizhizehunyin,ershibimianleisiwentidezhongyaofangfa。yexunimenzhijianmeiyouzugoudegoutong,huozhequefaxianghulijiehezhichi。zaizheigeguochengzhong,womenbujinyaozhaodaowentidegenyuan,haiyaonulijiuzhengta。huozheniyekeyixunqiuxinlixuejiahuohunyinguwendebangzhu,yihuodezhuanyedejianyi。
3.慢慢恢复
disan,jishinigandaogulihewuzhu,niyeyinggaijinlizhaodaojiarenhepengyoudezhichi。chongfendeshehuizhichikeyibangzhunijianqingtongku,zhaodaoxindeshenghuodongli。zijilaopochuguinanrenyinggaizenmebantongyang,xiangshoushenghuozhongdemeihaoshiwu,rulvxing、tiyu、yinle、shiwudeng,yekeyirangnijianqingtongku,xunqiuxindexingfu。
4.找到一个新的方向
zuihou,wulunshizhiyeshengyahaishigerenshenghuo,nidouxuyaozhaodaoyigexindefangxiang。zheibujinnengbangzhunicongtongkuzhonghuifuguolai,hainengjiweilaidailaixiwanghejiqing。dangnikaishizhujianjieshounidexinxianshishi,nikenengxuyaochangshiyixiexindedongxi,zheiyangnicainengzhaodaonidexinfangxiang。
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