女人最聪明的离婚方式拖对方好吗

　　nvrenzuicongmingdelihunfangshituoduifanghaoma，beichuguihou，hunyinshenghuoshibushihaiyoujiu?dangzaoshouqingxupanbianshi，hainengbunengyitongxunzhaoxiubuzhifa?

　　hunwailiansuodailaidewaishangtongchangshishenzhongde。taliuxialaideshangbahennanquanyu，xinlaiweijisifu，nantihaoxiangyuelaiyuenanyijiejue，jianglaiyebiandewangchenmoji。

　　danshi，napashizaiwaiyudeshangtongxia，zaicizhaohuixingfukuailerengbushibukeneng，suiranlumianjianxin。xialiewugebuzhou，yexunengbangzhunizhengjiuyiduanguanxi，zhonglianxingfukuaile。

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　　1. hunyinxiufudewubufangshi

　　1.1 △wanquanzhanduanyulianrendelianluo

　　chuguishijianbeipuguang，zhuyaozhiwushibaozhengyulianrenwanquanduanjuelianluo。zheiyeshizhongjianxinren、wanliuhunyindejichu。renhefangshidejiuchanbuqing，doukenengchengweifuqiguanxilideanquanyinhuan，zulanxiubuguocheng。yiner，wubizuodaoxinwuzanian，baozhengyulianrenwanquanduanjuelaiwang。

　　zheiyeshifuqizhijianzhongjianxinren、wanjiuhunyindeguanjianyibu。shuangfangdouzainulikefuwaiyuzaochengdeshanghai，ruobuguoduanfuzhuxingdong，kenengnanyichaoyuezheiyikunnan。chuguizhewubichedijianglianrencongshenghuozhongquchu，fangzhirenhefangshidejiuchanbuqing，baohanshejiaozhanghaoshangdeguanlian、yinmipengmiandeng。shandiaolianxidianhua，jiechuhaoyouguanlian，baozhengwanquanduanjuelianluo。weiyouruci，cainengchedijiejuehunwaiqingjushu，zhiliyuxiubuyuairenzhijiandeguanxi。yucitongshi，shouqideyifangyeyaojiandaobingxiangxinairenyijingyuqingrenwanquanduanjue，congerbaozhangguanlianbuhuizaimianlinweixian。yiner，wanquanduanjueguanxishizhongjianxinren、wanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。

　　1.2 △坦诚相待

　　zaizhongjianxinrenhuanjiezhong，zhenchengshishifenzhongyaode。chuguizheyingxiangairentiaomingziyideguoshi，renkeduihunyindebeipan，bingbiaodashenkekuijiu。yucitongshi，shouqideyifangyeyaojiyuairenchongzudelijiehezhichi，yiqimianduinanti，yitongxunzhaojiejuefangan。weiyouruci，caikeyigoujianqiyigexindexinlai，weiwanjiuhunyindaxiajianshijichu。

　　yiqimianduibuzhongdezhongyaozuchengbufenbianshiyichengxiangdai。shenmeshiqingdouyouzhishencengyuanyin，waiyudechanshengtongchangjuefeiouran，tajielulefuqiganqingzhongzaojiucunzaidebuzu。youkenengshimouyifangzhangqixingbeihulve，yaoqiuwufamanzu，huozheganqingfangmianshoushanghai。yihuozheshidandujiaoyuhaizidegongzuoyalirangmouyifangshenxinpibei，erchuguichengweiwomenzhonghuoziwojiazhidefangshi。

　　buguanyinsuzenyang，zheixiewentidoubixufuqishuangfanggongtongtantao。suoyoudeshiqingdouyinggaigongkaihua，bianyuxianghulejieshishizhenxiang。zaitantaohuanjiezhong，yingjinliangbimianchize，fanershiyaochengshitanrandimianduiganqingzhongdenanti，bingzhiliyuzhenduiyishangwentizuochudiaozheng。yichengxiangdaikenengmianlinhendadekunnan，danxunzhaozhuanyerenshidexiezhushishifenzhongyaode。

　　1.3 △重建信任

　　zaitongguotanchengdejiaoliuhou，xiayibujiushizhongjianxinren。zheixuyaoshijianheqinfen，danshizheishixiubuliekaiguanliandeguanjianbuzhou。bicibixugongtongfendou，genjuxingweilaiyanzhengbicizhijiandewendingxing。zheijiangbaokuojianlixindegoutongdefangshi，zhidingquelidebianjie，jiqixinshounuoyan。

　　zhongjianxinrendeguochengdangzhong，kenengyudaogezhongtiaozhan。danshi，jinyoutongguobuduandenulihexianghuzhijiandeshiyong，cainengzhujianxiufushousundexinlai。zheishiyigezhangqideguocheng，xuyaoshuangfangduoyidiannaixinheyongqi。duiyuyixieqipanweichiyouliangfuqiganqingdeairenmen，zhongjianxinrenshishifenzhongyaode。shouqideyifangwubitihuidaoairendewendingxing，erwaiyudeyifangzexuyaojianxinairenxiangyaoyitongxieshoutongxing。

　　1.4 △接纳宽容

　　nvrenzuicongmingdelihunfangshituoduifanghaoma，zaizhongjianxinrenhuanjiezhong，shuangfangbixuxuehuimianduiduifangkuanrong。zheijiuyiweizhewaiyufangyaozhenxinganxielingyibandebaorongyulijie，ershouqideyifangyexuyaotihuidaolingyibandezhenchengyuzhencheng。genjujienakuanrong，bicikeyijinyibujiashenbicidelejiehexinren，weijinhoudeguanliandaxiagengzhashidejichu。

　　meicuo，kuanrongdequeshiyixiangjiannanderenwu。dangnibeineiyigecengchengnuoyongyuanainiderenerpanbian，tadexinzaoyizhuanyidaolelingyigeren，huoshiyulingyigerenchuxianlehunyinguanxi，nizenyangnenggouqingyidikuanrongzheileishenzhongdeshanghaini?yucitongshi，niyouzenmenengkuanshuzijihulvelezheixiejinggaodezhengzhao，kuanshuzijibianchenglebeipaoqideyifang，kuanshuzijizaizheiyangdehuangdanhelingrennanyizhixindeqingjingxiabanyanzhezheibanyumeiderenwujiaose?

　　danshi，chuguixingweiyihoudekuanrongbingbushibutaikeneng。lejiekuanrongdehanyibingbudengyuwubiwangquezheixietongkudejiyi。jiaruairenzhenxinshiyihuigai，yuanyiyuyiwangjiguangqiegebingjiejinsuonengzhonglianxinren，jiarutamenduizijideguocuochengdanbingshizhongduizijideyichengxiangdai，neiyangkuanrongjiuchengweileyizhonghenyoukeneng。