zheishiwozaizixunguochengzhongzuijingchangyushangdeyigewenti,bushaorenzaixiubudeguochengdangzhongbudanmeishenmexiaoguo,fandaojiazhonglehunyinshenghuodeliekai。
woyouyigexuesheng,tajiushizheigeyangzi:“dajialianaiwunianduo,aiqingbijiaowending,yincijiehun,jijingjiehunsinianle。keqianduanshijian,woouranfaxian,tajingranyoulewaiyuyigenvdaxuesheng。womingbaileyihou,xinlizhenshijieshoubule,ranhouwolijidaihaizibanchuqule,haigentashuoleliyi。”

laogongchuguilangzihuitouhou,zijineixindenaonu、biequdouyaozaixiangchuguochengzhongjianjiandixianxianchulai,yiweita,chixutidaowaiyudeshiercijixingta,yutazhengzhi。huoxuniyongzheizhongfangshi,shiyaozhengmingzijishizhidebeiai、beiaixi,shiyouyiyide。
dajiadouxiangyaorangguanliannenggouhuifudaoguoqu,keyinweiguoyuxinji,yongcuofangshi,jiyuanbenjiuyounantidehunyinshenghuohuoshangjiaoyoule。
henyoukenenghenduorenhuiwen:shenmeyangdefangfacaishiduideni?zenmecainengrangguanlianzhongxinhuidaowaiyuzhiqianni?
jinriwonenggaosunimen,ruherangguanlianzhuannuan?zheiyeshixiufuguanxishouxianyaoxuehuide,yeshihenguanjiandeyibu。
第一点,一定不要过分投入。
julishuoming,ruguonizaochenqilai,leisileihuojinxinglezaofan,qujiaolaogong、xiaohaiguolaichi,xiaoguodabantianmeiyigerenyouhuifuyejiubale,zhidaoqianxinwankudouzuozaibangongzhuoshangquchishi,zhangfuyibianchihaiyibianxiannizuodebuhaochi,haizibachidedongxigaomandidoushi。zheishihou,nishifouyigunaodehuo?nihuifaxiansuofuchudezheiyitiyanshihenchajingde。
yincizaizheizhongqingkuangxia,niyejiubuyaozaifuchuguo,xianzhaoguhaozijitihui。jirantabuxihuannizuochulaide,niyenanshou,neimeniyaobuyebuzuozaofanle,buranjiujitamenmaixiejiandandemianbaoshenmede。
renmenzaijizijisuofuchudeqingkuangxia,shijueduibuhuiyouyuanniande,keshizijidefuchujiushiweileduifangdeshihou,yidanduifangfanyingwufadadaonideyuqi,neimenijiufeichangrongyizaochengyuanhen,suihouxiayishixiangqugenggailingyifang。zheishihou,nijiuxianrulecaozongluojisiwei,neinimenzhijiandeguanxihenrongyijiuhuishidiaole。
yinciniyaojide,yidingbuyaoguofentouru,guanxilishixuyaofuchude,dangengyingzhongchengzijidexiangfa,ruguoshizijigandaonanshoule,neimejiuzhongzhitouru。
第二点,不勉强收益。

zainihenenai,weichuwentishi,ninenghuixiangyixia,nishibushizuibiandouzaitaolunzhe“wobujideshi,zhishijiandandexihuanyigereneryi”,keshishishangniyeshiyousuoqiude,birushuonixiwangbierenyekeyiduiniyouganjue,keyijijihuiyingnimendeganqing。
zhibuguoshiyiqiannizheixieqianyishilideyaoqiu,tajiumanzule,yincinimeiyoujuedezijizaiyaoqiutamenshouyi,rujinnimenzhijiandeguanxichuxianwentile,tabuzaixiangyiqianneiyanglijimanzunidexuqiule,nidexingweijiuhuibianchengsheqiuhuibaole。
dajiaguanlianchuxianwentile,shouxianyaoquxiufu,danshinifeidanmeiyouqusikaowenti,fandaoshiguidingtalaimanzunideyaoqiu,neitahuigandaoyanjuan,erqiehaihuizaochengfangyuxinli。
nikankanbushaorenzailaogongchuguihuiguihou,tahuishuoneiyangdehua,“woweilezheigejiatouruneimeduo,tajingranbeipanwo,xianzainiweilebaobaoyujiatingxuanzexiangxin,taruguobuduiwohaodian,zennengwukuiyuwo?”zheijiushiwozhengzaizuozixundeshihou,xueshengzonghuiyuwobaoyuandehua。
yinciniyidingyaomingbai,niqixianni,ranhoucaishiqitazhenshishenfen,laopo、mama、guinv,suoyiruguozaizheizhongguanxizhong,nijuedetongkule,neinijiubuyaoguodusheqiulingyifang,biehuaiyouguogaodexiwang,xianweizijifuze,nimenzhijiandeguanxigengjiarongyidexiufu。
第三点,不控制,不索要。
zheilishuodebukongzhibusuoyaoshishenmeyisiya?qishigenqianmiantidaodebumianqiangshouyishifenxiangsi,tongsudianshuo,jiushixuyaozizhujuedingzishendeshenghuofangshi。

nvrenzuicongmingdelihunfangshiyounaxie,niguanchayixiajiunenglejie,xuduochuguidenanrendeshenghuoshiyituanzaode,gongzuofangmianyeburuyi,danweishenmeyouderenhuoshilecibubizhaoxiaosanni?qishishiyinweixiaosanmingbairuhegengqiangdebakongnanrendexinli,bukongzhita,buhuiguoyusuoyao。
xuduoxiaosanyunanrenzaiyiqideshihou,nvshenghuihenandeshuo“wojiushiaini,wobingbutuniqita”,keshishishangni?tazenmekenenghuishenmedoumeitu?
youdexiaosantantuqiancai,youxietuaiqing,yeyoudeturenmai。buguanshinayizhongzhuangkuang,tayidingdoushituyixieshenmede。zhibuguoshitameiyoujiangzijideyaoqiulijibiaoxianchulai,buhuizhudongdongxiangnanshengsuoyao,fanershirenrang,rangnanshengzixingji。
yincizaiwaiyunanrenhuiguijiatingyihou,niyebuyaotaiguoquyaoqiuta,yaoqiutazhunshihuijiale,waichusuishisuidishangbao,fanbeiduizijideheerzihao,zheishizaibutaixianshi。
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