老公背叛了婚姻还能继续吗

　　laogongbeipanlehunyinhainengjixuma，shifouyouguozheiyangdeganshou，yijianzijicengjingfeichangxihuandexianzhiwupin，mouyitianzaikanyibianshi，turanjiuganjueshengshule。

　　tabubian，huoshiyuanlaidemoyang，jingjingdedaizaijiaoluoli。biandeshizijidexinqing，yiqianzhanzaitashangmiandemeihaohuiyihewendu，buzhibujuedexiaosanle。

　　renherendeguanxi，youshihouyexiangzheiyangde。

　　qichudereqingyuqinmiwujian，suizheshijianchenjiweiyizhongxiguanxingwending。danlingrenhaipadebingbushipingpingdandan，fanershizaizheilipingpingdandanxia，henduodongxizhengzaiqiaoranwailiu。

　　nijuedezhishixunchangdeyitian，quebuzhidaokongqizhongzaojiusanfachulibiedeqichang。

　　dangyiduanganqingdehexinzhujianyaobaibuding，waizaixiangchuzhidaoshibihuisuizhigaibian。

　　zheizhonggaibianbingbushishiliaoweiji，fanershiruyingsuixingde。yigenanrentangruoxinyijingbuzai，tongchanghuiyouzheisanzhongzhuyaobiaoxian，biezaihuan“tazhishitebiemang”laiqipianzishen。

　　01

　　buhuizaifenxiangshenghuozhongdexijie

　　lianggerenguanxiqinmiwujiandezhongyaoqianti，conglaijiubushifuchuleduoshaodashier，fanershifenxiangshiduoshaokonghua。

　　jinriyudaoshenmeyouxiuderen，gongzuofangmianshoudaolenaxiebiequ，wufanchidebuheweikou，zheizhonglingsuide、buchengtixiderichang，gongtonggouzhuleyigeshuyulianggerendeshijie。

　　zaizheigeshijieli，bicizhijianshitarichangshenghuozuizhongshidetingzhonghecanjiazhe。

　　kedangyigenanrendexinkaishipianwei，tazuodediyijianshi，tongchangshiguandiaozheishanfenxiangchuang。

　　nikenenghuifaxian，tabuzaixingzhibobodegennijianggongsilidebagua，bianbuzaimaiyuanjintianlukuangduomecaogao。niwentayitianguodezenmeyang，dedaodehuidayizhigaikuowei“haihao”、“haitinghao”、“jiuzheiyangle”。

　　tabingbushizhendemeiyouhuashuo，tajiushibuxiangzaiduizijidejiangle。

　　taderenshengrengzaizaici，youxinsuojiansuowen，xindeganwu，xindekunrao，danzheiyiqiedejieshaomubiao，buzaishini。tahuiyouyiwuyidezailianggerenzhijianzhuqiyidaoqiang，qianglijiushitadezhenshideshijie，qiangneijiushini。

　　dangyigerenzhujianyouyiquhuizishendeneixinshijie，buhuizaishinikuitansihaoshi，benshenjiushizuishuyuandezhujian。

　　zheileizugegan，bichaojiagengrangrenxinhan。yinweitadaibiaozhe，zaideshijiezhong，nizhujiancong“zijiaren”chengle“bieren”。

　　yiqianwuhuabushuodeliangren，xianrujinjinshengketaodewenhou，zheibenshenjiushiyizhongwuyindehuida。

　　02

　　疲于争论，挑选默认

　　henduorendouyiwei，ganqingzhongbingmeiyouzhengzhi，yiweizhesuiyuesujian。

　　danqinshenjingliguocaidong，henduoshihou，zhengzhiyeshiyizhongzaiyi。yinweizaihu，yincicaihuijinjinjijiao，cainengweilenengmouyijianjie、mouyiquedingerqiangciduoli，woxiwangliangrennengdachengyizhi，chaozheyigefangxiangzou。

　　dandangyigenanrenchuguihou，tazuixianzhudezhuanbianzhiyi，bianshibiandeshifen“huoda”he“baorong”。

　　duinidequeding，tabuzaitichuzhiyi;duinidemaiyuan，tabuzaichangshibiaoshu;shenzhidanglianggerenzhijianchuxianlemingxiandemaodunshi，tayezhishidandandishuoyiju：“dajiajuedemanyijiuhao。”

　　zheizhongkansiyouyibeihou，qishijiushichedidisheqi。

　　tabuxiangzaiyunizhenglun，bingbushitachengshu，huozhetahuranrenkeni，fanershitaganjuezheiyiqiedoubuzaizhongyao，buzhitazaitouruyiqiexintaiyujingli。

　　kuailehebeishang，nideguandianyuweilai，douyutawuguanle，youhekuzaiduofeikoushe?

　　chenmobushijin，ershiyizhongwushengsheqi，tabuzaizijintouruyiqiexintaichengbenfei，youyuzheiduanganqingzaitaxinzhongzaoyibuzhile。

　　yigehaiaizhenideren，bunengrongrenlianggerenzhijiancunzaiwujiehejiedi。eryigexinyiyuanlaideren，zehuijiangnideyiqiexintaidangchengshiyutawuguandejingse。

　　zheileimoren，shirenhejuliededizhidoujuyoupohuaili，yinweitaqingchudeshuo：nijiuyijingbeipaichuzaitashijiezhiwaile。

　　03

　　zhujianjinjinjijiaofuchuyudeyushi

　　aiyigerendeshihou，tourushiyizhongbennengfanyingdelequ。

　　ninengxinganqingyuanweibicihuafeishijian，yongxin，bujideshi，youyufaxianduifangdeweixiao，yeshiduizijizuihaodejiangshang。zaiaili，bicizhijianfuchudenulishiliudong，shinuanxinde，henshaoyourenyongyibachiziqujingzhunceliang。

　　keshiqingyixiaotui，zheiyibazhichibianhuiqiaoqiaodifasheng。

　　laogongbeipanlehunyinhainengjixuma，nijiuhuifaxian，tajianjianbiandejinjinjijiao。yiqianguoduanjinizuodeshiqing，xianzaiyaoquanhengzaisan;yiqianjijichengdandefengxian，xianzaihuibianchengyizhongyali。

　　tahuixiayishidecesuantazaizheiduanganqingzhongdetouruchanchulv。

　　“woweinizuolezheimeduo，niweiwozuoleshenme?”zheihuajiusuanmeishuochurukou，haihuizaitamendexingweizhongbiaoluwuyi。tadeshijianyuelaiyuezhengui，tadexixinyuelaiyuebijiaoyouxian，tadeyiqiewangluoziyuan，haoxiangdouxuyaoyongzaijuede“feichangzhide”dequyu。

　　dangqingyixiaosan，huhuihulidewenqingjiuhuibianchenglengbingbingdemaimai，meiyifentourudouyaojiandaoquelideshouyi。

　　tabuzaijiangnikanzuoxiuqiyugongdebanlv，ershibianchengleyigebixujiandingdehezuoduixiang。

　　dangyiduanganqingyaoyong“gongpinggongzheng”he“jiaohuanjiazhi”cainengweichishi，qishijiuyijingshiqutazuizhongyaodeshijiyiyi。yinweiaiqing，conglaijiubushiyimennenggoujingquejisuanshengyi。