zhangqiyidizenmewanhuihunyin,zaizheiyangyigekuaijiezoushidai,yiguolianfangfochenglelianaizhongde“gaofengxiangaoshouyi”。jianju、shijiancha、goutongbudaowei……zhongzhongyuanyindouhuirangbenlaichiredeaiqingzhujianjianwen,naizhizouxiangfenshoubianyuan。danbiehaipa,woyigezimeitipingtaiqinggandashijintianxiaobianjiulairangnizhizhizhao,jiaodajia5geshizhanjiqiao,shinideyiguolianzhongxindianranaidehuohua,rangganqingkuayueqianshanwanshui,yiranwennuanruchu!
一、看清现况,直面问题

情绪确诊:
zuixian,womenxuyaoduizheiyiduanyiguolianjinxingyigequanfangweide“qingxuquezhen”。yiguolianfenli,tongchangbushiyinweibuaile,fanershiyinweizhongzhongshijijiannanrangbicijuedeyouxinwuli。youkenengshigoutongbudaoweisuodaozhidewujiejidian,youkenengshizhangqijianbuzhemiansuochanshengdewuligan,yeyoukenengshiduiweilaiguihuadebuyizhi。jinyoukanqingxiankuang,zhimianwenti,dajiacainengfaxianwentisuozai,duizhengzhiliao。
自我反省:
zaikaizhanqingxulinchuangzhenduanyucitongshi,niyexuyaojinxingshenkeziwofansheng。huiguyixiadajiazaiyiguolianguochengdeyidianyidi,sisuozijishifouyouzuodebugouhaodequyu。liru,nandaoshiyinweigongzuomangerhushilebierendeganshou?nandaoshiyinweimeiyouanquanganerguoducaiji?nandaoshiyinweijiaoliufangshibuhelicongeryinfalebubiyaozhengzhi?
二、复建沟通的桥梁,增进心与心的距离
fangfayi:anshishipinliaotian
zaiwanglianzhong,liaotiansuiranfangbian,erwangwangbunengwanquanchuandichunideqingganheyudiao。yiner,anshifenpeishipinliaotianshifeichangyoubiyaode。genjushipinliaotian,nihuikandaolingyifangdeshenqing,tingjianlingyifangdeshengxiang,tihuidaoduifangdeganshouzhuanbian。zaishipindianhuazhong,ninengfenxiangzijideshenghuodiandiandidi,lingtingduifangsuoyouxinuaile,rangshuangfanggengweilejieduifangdeshenghuozhuangkuang。
小提示:
tizaoshanglianghaoshipinliaotiandeshijianye,baozhengshuangfangdoushikong。

zaishipindianhuazhongmiandaiweixiao,yongjijiqingxuganqilingyifang。
duowenwenyixiekaifangshiwenti,yindaoduifangfenxianggengduo。
fangfaer:yishuchuangyijiaoliufangshi
chulechangguideliaotianheshipinliaotianwai,nihaikeyichangshiyixiexiangxianglidejiaoliufangshi。liru,genjuyuyinxinxijibicichangyishouge、luyiduangaoxiaoduanshipin、huoshifayizhangshouhuidexinyongka。zheizhongyishuchuangyijiaoliufangshibujinkeyijibicizhizaojingxiheshenmigan,haihuirangduifangkanjiannideyongxinheyishuchuangyi。
小提示:
yijuduifangxihaoxingquaihaolaitiaoxuanyishuchuangyijiaoliufangshi。
bubitaipinfandixuanzeyishuchuangyijiaoliufangshi,yifangnengrangduifangbeiganyali。
三、提高信赖感,清除猜忌与不安

方法三:以诚相待
zhangqiyidizenmewanhuihunyin,zaiwanglianzhong,yichengxiangdaishigoujianxinrendeqianti。wulunshiduiyuzijidexiangfahuoshiduibicidekunhuo,douyingtanchengdibiaoxianchulai。buyaodanxinzhengchaohemaodun,youyuzhengchaohemaodundoushigoutongjiaoliudeyizhongfangshi。genjuyichengxiangdai,dajianenggougengjialejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou,congerxiaochucaijiyubuan。
小提示:
zaiyichengxiangdaideqiantixia,yeyaodongdelingtinglingyifangdejianyihetihui。
biebanantimenzaixinli,zhudonggoutongcainengjiejuewenti。
方法四:一同规划人生
yiguoliantongchangrangrenduijianglaiganjuemimangyubuan。yiner,yitongguihuarenshengshihenzhongyaode。dajiakeyiyiqitaolunweilaizhiyezhengtiguihua、shenghuoguihua、naizhihunyandekuanshi。genjuyitongguihuarensheng,dajiakeyigengjiaqingxibicizhijiandemubiaoheqidai,congertishengxinlaiganhexinrengan。
小提示:
zaiguihuarenshengshi,yidingyaokaolvlingyifangdejianyihekanfa。
biebazhengtiguihuadeguodumanzhanghetuolishiji,buyaohaogaowuyuandizhidingmubiao。
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