每次吵架闹分手男友都会诋毁我 这种男人什么心态

 lianggerenjingchangchaojianaofenshouhenzhengchang，wojianguobushaofenshouhoudihuiqiannanyoudenvsheng，woshenbianpengdaoguozheiyangde;danshidihuiqiannvyoudenande，haizhenmeijianguo。meicichaojianaofenshounanyoudouhuidihuiwozenmehuishi？

提问：每次吵架闹分手男友都会诋毁我

 meicichaojianaofenshounanyoudouhuidihuiwo。yinweihenanyoufenleyihoulianxiyiduanshijian，yinweichaojianaofenshou，houlaitayoulenvyouhourangwozuotadeqingren，wogaosuletanvyou，tajiuhewofanlianlesichushuowochanzheta，hetadenvyoubiaozhongxinmawo，wotebieshangxin，nandaowocuole?

因为吵架闹分手怎么挽回?

导师回复

 lianggerenjingchangchaojianaofenshou，yushinandedihuinvde，worenweizheixiekenengdoucunzai，danshiworenweigengzhongyaodeyidianshidihuibushitademude，tahuoxuzijidoumeiyouyishidaozijishizaidihui，tazheimezuodemudezhishiweilerangshenbianderenzhidao，womenfenshoubushiwodecuo，shitadecuo;ranhourangdajiazhidao，cuoguowo，shitadebuxing;taxiwanggengduoderenduoququantajiju。

所以说分手后诋毁前女友的男生，可恨;但是也正是应了那句话，可恨之人必有可怜之处。为什么我说他们可怜呢?我再想，到底什么样的人，才会分手后，还要去诋毁对方呢? 总是吵架闹分手怎么办?

第一种人：把爱情当成自己一切的人。

ruogannianqiandeshihounvshenghenchangjian;xianzaiwulunnannvdoujihumeiyoule。

 zongshichaojianaofenshouzhihou，nandedihuinvshengshiweishenme，weishenmeshuobaaiqingdangchengzijiyiqiederen，fenshouhouhuidihuiduifangni?yinweizaizheizhongrendeyanli，wulunyinweishenmeyuanyinfenshou，tadouhuijuedeshiduifangdecuo，shiduifangduibuqita，tadouhuijuedetebiedeweiqucongerchanshengyuanhen。

第二种人：占有欲极强的人，四海之内皆我妈类型的

诋毁是什么?

 shinimeizuoguoyijianshi，woshuonizuole;shiwuzhongshengyou;shizhiluweima;shimoxuyoushimeipitui，woshuonipituile;zheicaishidihui。erbeihoujiaoshegenshuohuaihua，zhishizheigerenhentaoyan，danshitabingmeiyoudihui，zheishilianggewanquanbutongdegainian。

 zheiyeshiwoweishenmeshuofenshouhoudihuiqiannvyoudenanshengbingbushibaofuxinqiang。nihewofenshou，wobaniyiqianzuodeneixiejianbuderendeshijipuguang，zheijiaozuobaofudanbushidihui。

 nihewofenshou，wojiuzaoyaoshuoyiyiqianzenyangzenyangbujiandian，suiranwoshuodeqingjiehuishenghuisedanshinimeiyou，zheigejiujiaozuodihui。erzuodihuizheizhongshideren，woburenweitashibaofuxinqiangershizhanyouyuqiang。jiushiwodebudaodewojiuqianfangbaijidehuileta，burangrenherendedao。tamenyiweisihaizhineijie。

 bingqiecongxintaixuedejiaodu，wangwangbijiaozibeibingqieneixiangderen，gengrongyichuxianzheizhongxintai，danshidangran，zibeineixiangderenkandaozheiyebuyaoduihaoruzuo，bushijueduideershixiangduide。