男朋友突然变得不愿意和你交流，想男朋友了怎么办

 xiangnanpengyoulezenmeban？tahetadenanpengyoudiyicishangdaxueshijiukaishilianaile。biyehou，liangrenbingbujiyujiehun，ershixiangongzuo，yinweitamendoujuedezijizhengchuyushiyedeshangshengjieduan，zhiyouzaijingjijichuzhashishi，tamencaihuikaolvjiehunshengzi。suoyizaizheigeshihou，tamenrengranshenghuozailianggerendeshijieli，tamendefumubuzaitamenshenbian，dantamendeganqingzhixianxiajiang。

 biyehoudediyinian，tamendeguanxihenhao。xiabanhou，nanhaihuiqujienvhai，ranhouyiqiquchaoshimaishiwu。huijiazuofan（yinweinvhaibuzenmezuofan，suoyinanhaishuotajianglaihuizuode）。

 chiwanfanhou，nvhaifuzexiwan。xiwanpanzihou，tayijingxiguozaole。nanhaihuidakaidianshi，bofangdianyinghuodianshiju，dengdaitazaishafashangxizao。tamenyibiankandianshiyibianliaotian，huxiangweishuiguo。

 dangshi，tamendoujuedezheigexiaorizihenshufu。wocengjingtingrenshuo，jingguohenzhangyiduanshijiandeaiqing，tahuihenkuzao，huiyouwenti。dangshi，ta，tajuedezijihenanpengyoushigeliwai。danzaizheiyangdeshenghuochixuleyinianbanhou，qingkuangfashenglebianhua。

 tananpengyoudegongsishiyijiayihufupinweizhudechuchuanggongsi。dangtagangbiyeshi，tadenanpengyoutongguozijidenulichengweilexiaoshoutuanduidelingdaozhe。houlai，laobanrenweitayounengli，houlaitidaotashixiaoshouzongjian。

 tadenanpengyouyuelaiyuemang，dannvhaitaixihuanyiqiandeshenghuo，wufalijishiying。tamendemaodunkaishizhujianzengjia，ranhounvhaimenkaishifansi。ganjueyeyouzerenfudan，weileweilaigenghaodeshenghuohefendou，yikaishinvhaiyenenglijieta。

 danjianjiandi，lianggerendehuayuelaiyueshao，shenzhiduifangyehuiwangjinvhaideshengri。zheigenvhaixiangzhidaotazaixiangshenme。nibuzaiaitalema？nijuedehetazhuzaiyiqihenwuliaoma？nvhaimenyexiangjiaoliu。tatidaoleliangci。dangduifangzongshifuyandishuo：“womeiyou。nixiangdetaiduole。zuijinzhishigongzuotaimang。niyinggailijiewo。”tahenxiangjiejue，danyoubuzhidaoxianzaigaizenmeban？

 shishishang，henduoganjuedoumianlinzhefenshou，tongchangshiyinweishuangfangdoubuzhidaoruhegoutong，nanrenbuxianggaosuniyixieshiqing，ranhouyiduanguanximanmandizoudaofenshoudebianyuan。weishenmeduifangbuxianghenijiaoliu？nizenmenengrangduifangzhudongyunigoutongni？

 meigerendoukenengyudaoguozheiyangdeqingkuang:henanpengyou/laogongguanxiyouwentihou，quzhaoguimibaoyuan。“tagenbenbuzaihuwodeganshou”“chuchajitiandoumeijiwodadianhua。”“wodadianhuajita，tazhishifuyanlejiju。”

 nvpengyouhuishuoshenme？shiyoubajiu，tamenhuishuo:“jiarunimendeganqingshenghuochulewenti，neiyidingshixuyaogoutongdea。nimenpingshibujiaoliuma？”chengran，meigerendouzhidaogoutongdezhongyaoxing。danrengyouxuduorenhuichuxianqingxuwenti，quefagoutong。suoyijintianwomenjiulaijiejuezheigeshizhixingdewenti。

两性关系正在破裂。主要原因不是缺乏沟通，而是对方不愿与你沟通。为什么

1.nanrendouzaihuibiwenti

 youshihou，nanrenxihuanhuibiwenti。dangtamenbuzhidaoruhejiejuewentishi，tamenhuitongguohuibilaijujuegoutong，yiyangaitamendewuligan。zaizhangqidelianaiguanxizhong，suizheshijiandetuiyi，yigewentimeiyoudedaohenhaodejiejue，lingyigewentiyouchuxianle。dangnvxingmianlinwentishi，tamenhuikaolvjinkuaijiejuewenti。wojuedezaiwochulishiqingzhiqianwoshuibuhao。wozongshijuedewodexinbeiduzhule。

 shishishang，henduonvxingzaizixunshihuigaosuwo，tamendenanpengyouzongshichenmiyuyouxi。taxiabanhoubuhuijia，shijishangshizaibangongshiwanyouxi。youxierenxiabanhouhepengyouchuquhejiu。tamenzhidaobanyecaihuiqu。tamenfeichangshengqi，dantamenshuotamenrengranhushiziji。

wowentamen:“duifangzongshizheiyangma？”danshitamendehuidashiyiyangde：“meiyou，zuijincaikaishi。”

 woshuo:“nei，nixiangxiangdazhishishenmeshihoukaishide？”youxiedaanshi：“congtaolundinghuncailikaishi。”youdeshi：“congjiandaoduifangdefumukaishi”

 wowen:“zheigeguochengzhongyudaolenaxiewenti？”zheigewenti，jibenshangdoukaishibaoyuanle。xianran，dinghuncaili.jiandaoduifangdefumudengdeng，wentiyijingdaolebairehuajieduan，duifangbuzhidaoruhegenghaodijiejuewenti，yushixuanzelehuibiwenti。

 chuleshangshuwentiwai，haiyounanrenxiangyaotaobidetaidu。tamenjujuejiaoliu，yinweitamenbuxiangbaoluzijidewuligan，yebuxiangchengrenzijitaopaodeyuanyin。tamenbujinhuiqipianni，haihuiqipianziji。

2.wojuedemeibiyaogaosuni

 worenweihenitanlunrenhewentidoushiwuyongde。suizheshijiandetuiyi，wobuhuihenijiaoliu。dangxuduonanrenxunzhaoqizishi，tamenxunzhaodebushitamenxinshangdeneizhong，ershitamennengkongzhideneizhong。qianzhebunengsuibianduidai。

 fuchudeganqinghuojinqianchengbenxiangduijiaogao，feiliqieyaoqiugao。ciwai，qitanixinshangderenyexinshangta，meiyouanquangan。houzhekeyizijikongzhi，dantacongxindilikanbuqiduifang，buxiangduinishuotaiduo。tahuiheqitayixingjiaotanhenduo，dantaduiniwuhuakeshuo。jishinizheimeshuo，tayehuirenweinishuodeshicuode。zheiyeshiyigenanrenbuxianghenijiaoliudeyuanyin。zheitingqilaihenlingrenxinsui，danzheishishishi。

3.你的对象害怕你

 youxienvrenzaishuohuazhiqianhuirangnanrenganjuehenda。liru，ruguonitongyiyiqimaijiaju，nihuiyizhibaoyuan。dangnicongnizuihaopengyoudebieshutanlunnizhuangshifangzishi，tashenmedoubuzaihu。zuihou，buzhizende，wohuibaduifangjinianqianshibaideshiqingshuochulai。”

 yaobushijinianqiannizuoleyixieshiquneimeduoqiandeshiqing，womenxianzaikeyimailiangcengfushile。”neirenshengqile，zhuanshenlikaile。suizheshijiandetuiyi，dangnitidaoyaotaolunshenmeshi，duifanghuigandaoshuangtuiwuli。

 henduoshihou，nisuoweidegoutongbingmeiyoushiyongzhengquedetaiduhefangfa，ershimangmudizhizehebaoyuan。zhiyoulejiewenti，womencainengjiejuewenti。yibanlaishuo，zhengshiyinweizheisangeyuanyin，nanrenbuxianghenijiaoliu。

那要怎样改变

yi、gaibiannidegoutongfangshi

 ruguonixiangrangduifangyunigoutong，shouxiankaolvshifouhuidaozhiduifangdexinlipaichi，ranhouhuida。liru，nvpengyouwentadenanpengyou“zuijinyalidama？”xianran，nvpengyouganjuedaoleshenme。

 liru，tadenanpengyouzuijinhenlengmo，piqibaozao，dengdeng。shishishang，nimendounengganjuedao。ruguoniwenzheigewenti，nihuijuedenizaizeguaita，henrongyizaidiyishijianchanshengyalifanying。fangxianidechencilandiao，buyaorangduifangzhijiehuida。zheiganjuegengxiangshishenwenerbushijiaoliu。

 buyaojiujieyubenzhihuoyuanyin，yaozhuyixianxiang。youqishibuyaowenyoumeiyou，shibushi，zenmeban。zheihuizengjiaduifangdeyali。nikeyishuo:“a，wojuedenizuijinhaoxiangyaliyoudianda，zongshishuibuhao。

 nikannizheijitianheiyanquandouchulaile。”yongjijideyuqishuo，buyaowenwenti，yebuyaojiduifangjujuehuofoudingdeliyou！nizhishizaichenshuyigeshishi，zheibaokuolingyifangmianlinyalideqianti。zheijuhuaxiangdangyuyigejihui，yigerangduifangxianghenifenxiangganqingdejihui。

 zaizheijuhuazhihou，takenenghuimianlinqingjingyali。nixianghuidanidehuama？zheiyiweizhefenxiangnideganshou，ranhoushixiannidemubiao。buyaozhijiewenwentilaibiaodanidedanyou，ershibanidedanyoufangzaiguanchaxijieshang，tongguochenshuxijielaiyindaoduifangtanluntadeganshou。zheishikaishigoutongdeyouxiaofangshi。

 xiangnanpengyoulezenmeban？zairichangshenghuozhongkaishiyouxiaodegoutongwangwangshibujingyide。congyigenikenengmeiyoushixianxiangdaodeguandiankaishi，womenziranhuiyuelaiyuexiangshuohua。goutongshiyizhongyoufayanquandeliudong。yinweizheishiweilebangzhuduifangjianqingyali，suoyizaitanhuaguochengzhongbuyaojiduifangshijiayali。

二、选择合适的时间

 zaizheiyidianshang，womenbuyinggaiwujie。buyaodengdainanrenxianshuohua，ershixianchuangzaoyigehuanjinghefenwei，ranhounaixindidengdainidebanlvshuohua。liru，zaishangmiandelizizhong，nirenweiduifangchengshouzhejudadeyali，danniqiangpoduifangshuoshenmeshiyali？

 zheixianranshibuheshide。zaizheigeshihou，womenyinggaigengjiaguanzhuta。pangqiaoceji，tanlunzuijinyalidailaidexianxiang。liru，womenfaxiantazuijinzongshishimian、yiyuhechenmo。yinggaizhuyideshi，womenzhimiaoshuxianxiang，buxunwenyuanyin。dangtayuanyixiangnichangkaixinfeishi，niyinggaizhudongfenxiyalishishenmeyijiruhejiejueyali。

 jinijuyigefeichangjiandandelizi：niyidingyudaoguodangnigaoxingdidadianhuajimouren，danduifangxihuanhuidaerhulveta？zaizheigeshihou，duifangduinimeiyourenhekanfa。

 ruguonizaiqitashijiandadianhua，qifenkenenghuigenghao。zheichuncuishiyinweizheigedianhuashianzhaonidexinlijiezoudade，zhishizainixiangdadianhuadeshihou。nimingbaima？yinci，xuanzeheshideshijianchuangzaolianghaodegoutongfenweikenenghuigenghaodijifabanlvdegoutongyuwang。

三、提升自己

 yigenanrenbuxianghenijiaoliudebufenyuanyinshitarenweinibangbuleta。shishishang，zheiyurenmendemoshibutongyouguan。xuduorenshuomoshishiyizhonggaodu，erlingyixierenzeshuomoshishiyizhongsiwei。

 xiangnanpengyoulezenmeban？zaiwokanlai，zheigengxiangshiyizhongshijian。shishishang，daduoshunvhaihuoduohuoshaodouyouqiangliedezhuguanxiangfa。bukefouren，nvxingdebenxingshicunzaide，danworenweijiranwomenyijingyishidaozijidequedian，womenyeyinggaishidangdizuochuyixiejijidenengliangdiaozheng。weilehexiexiangchu，shuangfangdouxuyaozuochuyixienuli。